a societal observation and a question for females.

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I've seen your picture..

 

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VI, you are so annoying sometimes

just post a pic already or STFU

 

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Is she cute? I imagine Emmz as being adorable!!!

 

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Well, where is it? I want to see!!!

 

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GOODNESS!!! Shes amazing!!!

 

Ik zou har doen!!!

 

Ze is van mij

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Fine, but I'll have her after...

 

lol Come one.. she's nice.

 

She's very nice! I like Emmz quite a bit! And if she is half as attractive as she is smart, then she must be amazingly gorgeous!

 

Everyone avoids everyone's eye contact these days. And it's because everyone knows what it means, and everyone knows everyone else knows. So if a girl wouldn't say "I find you attractive" to a guy, she probably won't make eye contact with him.
Some will, but they are idiots, and when you see them sluttily looking into your eyes you just know they've fucked a tonne of dudes, who wants to gamble with that shit?

I find it odd that males "immediately" stare back into your eyes when you look at them, it does become about aggression in male/male situations.
In my experience males definately never look into your eyes, and slutty females sometimes do.
This is strangers I'm talking about, some non-slutty females start looking into your eyes once you've got to know them and they've made the non-slut decision that they'd like to birth your offspring, but then still males don't look into your eyes.
The only time they might is if they're about to punch you in the head and they're really confident they'll prevail in the ensuing melee.
I'd be careful, it sounds like everyone wants to kick your arse, and no one wants to fuck you. So, careful and sad.

Seriously though, girls get so much unwanted attention from males these days that they've learned to not bother giving out any cues, they're redundant, they just go around eyes to the floor and know that still more than enough sleazy guys will try to sleaze onto them.
I know from lame dudes I'm unfortunately associated with, an accidental glance from a female can be taken to mean so much, it's wise that girls don't dish out eye contact hand over fist.

 

Depends on age. Making eye contact with older guys is fine, you normally get a smile, an 'alrite mate', there is that understanding. Alot different with younger guys. There have been many fights that have erupted after eye contact between males. I can even get worked up if someone looks at me the wrong way, its really silly. Its just the environment most of the time, all that testosterone, aggression and rivalry.

The first glance is allowed, its something most guys understand and you don't make eye contact after that, unless you are going to greet the person. If you make eye contact again without saying anything you normally hear 'what the hell/fuck are you looking at' and a fight can erupt just like that. I've seen it too many times.

 

Isn't that so hilariously ironic? I mean, I've never been in that type of situation, but seriously ... the guy who says "what the fuck are you looking at?!" is a stupid cocksucker. Seriously: how would he know you were looking at him if he wasn't looking at you as well? "I was just looking to see if you were looking!"

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Hi scot

Did you know these things you are describing, have actually been linked with paranoia?

 

I didn't know that specifically, but I DO know that I am paranoid!

 

Well, its only a suggestion of a theory known right now, concerning how people ''take in'' the observational tendancies of other humans.

 

Hi

Ha- LOL EmmZ - that would be a funny sight!!


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as for the thread - Dr Lou is about right - i find that birds of 2day are quite up there own arses espically if they are the same age as you and YES of course u r lucky to get even eye contact let alone a fuckin smile - i mean who the fuck do they think they are - all brids think they are gods fuckin gift - but as doc lou says there are plenty of sleazy blokes to sleaze it up to make them feel so fuckin important.

In all honesty though a year or 2 back i went clubbing and got a bit shit faced, so I started dancing, and whenever i danced vaguely near a bird she sort of darted off in the other fuckin direction... I mean for fucks sake as if i was tyring to hit on them or something - as if i even need to espically as i have a wife who is far more good looking then they were anyway!! i mean for fucksake and for all the fuckin conceited arrogance cant they just tell who is being fuckin nice and havin a laugh from who is sleazing it up.. perhaps not.. BUT i do see tons of birds getting sleazed up2 which really defies the above arguement - Maybe i just have 7 arms or something!!!

Therefore in conclusion birds are all fucked up - including the wife!!!

 

Well I've reached a point where I tune out any looks from random men because, believe me, I'm talking from experience, I almost never get a neutral or friendly look/smile. And it's not just me being paranoid, all my women friends agree that almost all men look at women in a sleazy way. Maybe this is just where I live, where movies have blatantly misogynistic and sexist remarks and men are indirectly given the message from adolescence that you are more masculine if you treat women like sex objects. So yeah, that's the reason I've tuned out men's looks. I don't look away or look down, my eyes just slide away without making contact. Does that mean I'm an "arrogant bird"? Haha, that made me laugh, Zakariya.

And I also think it's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. You make eye contact and some very enlightened men like Dr Lou say you're a slut. If you don't you're arrogant and conceited. Interesting.