Asguard

Can someone please pass on to asguard, that when i speak to him, he is in big, big trouble.

Asguard, if you read this, you might want to start packing.

This public service announcement is now over.

 

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um STFU NOOB

 

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pjdude1219 you stfu and mind ur business if you have a problem, noone forced you to read or reply to this.


This is the ONLY PLACE and the ONLY THING he will pay attention to, so i may as well use it to get my point across.

 

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you go girl!! He spending more time here than with you?
Asguard, sad to think she has to talk to her here rather than face to face.

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You cannot BEGIN to imagine, Orleander.

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He would rather sit on here all day, and i mean LITERALLY, ALL DAY, than go to uni, get a job, talk to me ANYTHING.

Meanwhile, the house doesnt get cleaned, i get left to do it everyday after 8 hours at work, all because he has sat on sciforums ALL DAY. He doesnt even EAT anymore.

So, his "addiction" to this place has now left him homeless.

He supposedly had a "job trial" tonight, yet, funnily enough, was in here ...

I have been trying to call him, no answer, didnt even think to call and see if i was alive or to tell me how his "job trial" went (If he actually had one and wasnt lying to me about having one so i'd stop pushing him to actually help out with the house)

So, now, due to his addiction to sciforums and his general lack of respect and caring, he is homeless, because i've finally had enough and am booting his lazy ass out. I cant afford to keep an addict. Even if he is addicted to this place, it is an addiction - if i try and use the computer, he goes out of control. We cant go anywhere because he cant access sciforums. Even shopping trips turn nasty because he is having withdrawls. And ive had enough. He wont even spare 10 minutes to have sex anymore. How ridiculous and low do you think that makes me feel, that he'd rather talk to a bunch of strangers than do anything with me? And if by chance i do drag him off the computer and to the bedroom, within 2 minutes of being "done" hes straight back on.

So you might not see him around anymore from tomorrow onwards when i get home, because as far as im aware, you cant plug a computer into a tree you're sleeping under in the park.

And, yes, he has had MANY warnings, and this time, ive had enough of coming second to a cyber-community.

 

Its all about priorities and what you love most.

EmptyForceofChi used to be here a lot. As soon as his daughter was born, he was gone. Priorities.

What about the whole mental health depression thing? I went through it with my first husband. No job, no motivation, lying, lazy...etc.

 

He obviously doesn't love me more than this place.
He's never going to get the opportunity to have kids and prioritize, because hes never going to do anything to move his life forward.
This is an argument i have had many a time with him, and he just does not listen/care.
Ive tried to help him with his mental health, but theres only so much i can do to help him without him wanting to help himself.

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It's sad that hes throwing his life away for a forum. And that is what he has done.

 

Tell Asguard that Kadark wishes him all the best!

 

considering Bunny says he spends so much time here, you can tell him yourself.

 

I thought she made it pretty clear that Asguard couldn't use a computer, unless there was a plug in the tree he was sleeping under.

 

the library.

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I won't be speaking to him when he's under that tree, so you wanna hope he has a look at this thread before i get home

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Humm, we could ban him from Sciforums... for his own good.

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So, are you his wife or girlfriend?

Asguard averages 3.81 posts per day, which is very low. This "addiction" must be new.

 

Then he wouldn't speak to me anyway, so he would have nothing ... He's already told me if i tried to get him banned from here HE would kick ME out. (Funny since i pay the rent, electricity, gas, phone the INTERNET CONNECTION he is using and the food for him, so how can He kick ME out?? Anyway, this is besides the point....)

He's chosen this place over a real job, real uni course, real relationship and real life.

Now, he is going to have to have a virtual wedding and virtual babies on here, coz he wont be having any of it with me.

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You must love him very much

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Kadark i am his girlfriend or "partner".

We've been together for 5 years on 19th april this year. Well, would have been.

He has only just resurfaced, since i got broadband put on, so he could "study faster".

But even if he isnt posting, he sits on the computer and lurks in here, or pm's various people on here, or goes through old threads. It has just taken over his life. He will get on computer at 7 am when he wakes up, and get off it at whatever time he goes to bed. There is nothing in between. That is his day.

So yes, i am a little fed up with it.

And getting threats of violence towards me, and removal from the home i pay for completely, if i remove the internet connection or get him banned from here don't really help...

 

S.A.M.

I did love him very much. I can only be ignored for so long though. And tonight was the last straw. Ive had enough and am over it to be perfectly honest.
And he has no-one to blame but himself. It's going to take a crap load of groveling for me to even LOOK at him now, let alone SPEAK to him. The fact i actually posted this on here should be enough for him to realize i am MAJORLY over it.

Instead, he will come on here, get defensive, call me, get aggressive, tell me it;s my fault, try and make me feel bad and ignore me until i call him and ask "for forgiveness".

Sorry asguard, not gonna happen this time, like it does every other time you do something wrong and i speak up about it. You can do the grovelling, you are the one who has done wrong dearie. I'm not going to give in.

 

Orleander - 10,599 posts since 06-22-07 - priorities.

For reference Asguard - 8378 since 02-23-02

 

Maybe we should start a subforum: Couples counceling...

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His spelling went down lately, it is almost unreadable. Maybe he is depressed. On the bright side, he is not golfing or having a misstress, so cheer up!

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