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Discussion in 'Human Science' started by Tnerb, Dec 18, 2007.

  1. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    I think you don't have the correct answer there. I wasn't thinking at all

    about sex if that is what you were refering to as it very well seems. I was

    refering to something called intuition,which men don't have but many women

    do. They also have a way to heal you whenever you need help by listening

    to you and doing what they can to help.
     
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  3. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    Marrage is dumb?

    How does sciforum intend on influencing its members? By explaining that marrage is dumb. That is retarded. Express your opinion, but don't expect others to believe it.

    Regardless. I see nothing wrong with man/woman marrage, and feel that they can get equally intimate. I simply feel that it is something of the case that some women say such horrible things.

    Bah.

    Game. Set. Plan.

    Go for it.
     
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  5. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    It doesn't intend to. Only those wishing to gain knowledge and insight will

    do so at their own desire, not because of any other thing.
     
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  7. Bells Staff Member

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    I think you'll find it sometimes goes both ways. Why do some men have 'trophy wives'?

    This is not always the case however. Yes there are women (and men) who stay with their spouses for one particular reason (eg. sex, the house, money, etc), and cannot agree or find happiness in the rest of it. I think you'd find most of those people to be quite shallow and selfish.
     
  8. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    Agreed.

    But what about the rest of them?
     
  9. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    ct you call knowledge and insight equalling marrage is bad?

    explain that!
     
  10. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    I never said that. Your implying that. I was saying that those who are here

    will gain insight and knowledge on their own. not because of what someone

    else says but will research what is said and verify things to gain knowledge.
     
  11. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    I see. I suppose I was implying that. Sorry.
     
  12. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    No problem. Just try not to jump to conclusions about what you read until

    you reread it a few times to grasp what it is saying better. Sometimes I find

    myself doing that by reading what I think it is saying but not actually saying

    at all. Same with people, if you don't understand what someone says then

    ask them to repeat what they said or rephrase it better until you fully

    understand what it is they are saying.

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  14. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Where do you live!

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  15. Strap_ON Registered Member

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    I was only thinking yesterday why do I loves James so much - we do have great sex - we have a few of the same interests, but I never really talk to him how I talk to my other male friends.

    For instance, my best friend Jim has just come back home from uni for Christmas and we talk for hours about so much different stuff - everything and anything, and I spend a lot of time with him when he's back home, and never struggle for conversation, it all naturally flows out, but with James I have to think about 'what should I talk to him about?'.

    How come I never have the same conversations with my bf James like I do with my best friend Jim or any other male friends I have??? And I rarely see my bf James, he's a self employed carpenter so he's working really long hours all the time, specially at the moment, so he can have two weeks of for Christmas, but yet I still struggle for conversation, but im not bored with him at all, I love spending time with him.

    Its really strange, because I wouldnt want a friend that I struggled to talk to, so how come I dont mind it with James, is it because the sex does all the talking for us (cheesy)??

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  16. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    I have to raise the bullshit flag on that one. Sorry, but "womens' intuition" is a myth. The closest thing you are referring to is someone's 'gut feeling'; and men and women alike have that. But even 'gut feelings' can be wrong sometimes.
    If women's intuition was real, and worked, then there would be no divorces, no wife beaters or anything like that. Because their 'intuition' would tell them to steer clear of that guy. I know plenty of men and women who started dating someone, could have sworn that that person was the one, only to have that person leave them or they break up somewhere down the road.
    Just because women are more in tune with their emotions (which can be a curse as much as a blessing), doesn't make them more intuitive than us.
     
  17. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Sometimes men change when they are married. The women choose who

    they marry but end up with a piece of shit then they, the women , have to

    get away from the man through a divorce. That is why the woman chooses

    the man she marries not the man saying that he chooses the woman when

    HE proposes to HER. If the woman made the right choice to start with then

    the relationship goes sour what other way to get out other than divorce or

    get her ass kicked all the time. Rarely do I hear of a woman beating a man up

    in a marriage.
     
  18. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    And women don't???

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    Then IMO, that's their choice and they should have to live with it.

    Huh?

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    So, why do you think women make the 'wrong' choices sometimes?
    Hmmmm...could relying on their emotions too much (and not near enough common sense and logic) play any part in that?
     
  19. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    And if we marry a man because it is logical to do so, you throw a fit that we are gold diggers.
    Isn't it logical to marry a rich old man?
     
  20. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Dude,

    Notice how I said you use too much emotion.
    That doesn't mean you should approach something with NO emotion.
    You have seen and heard about all the shit that people do out of emotion, have you not? Myself included.
    And no, it's not logical to marry a rich old man if you two have nothing in common and don't want to spend time around one another. If you don't love the person, why spend time with them?
    There has to be a blend of reasoning and emotion.
    Example, I have the hugest crush on one of the district managers that I do laptop PC support for. I do have feelings for her and I would date her in a heartbeat. She is having problems with her b/f and I'm pretty sure that I could date her. My emotional side says, 'why not?'
    She lives in Dallas, Texas. I live in Nashville, TN. Logic says, 'you two live too far apart. ' It's pointless for you to move there and vice versa.
    It sucks, but logic should, and did win this one.
     
  21. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Dude?? Seriously, you call women Dude??

    I would love his money. I would be ever so nice to him. I could be as emotional as he needed me to be.
    And it is very logical to marry someone for their money. Its cold hearted, but emotions don't get in the way. And if you don't spend time with them, then you don't fight. Logical again.
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    When Dan found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sickly father died, he decided he needed a woman to enjoy it with.

    So one evening he went to a singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath away.

    "I may look like just an ordinary man," he said as he walked up to her "but in just a week or two, my father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million dollars.

    "Impressed, the woman went home with him that evening and, three days later, she became his stepmother.
     
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  22. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Yes, I even call my mom 'dude' sometimes.

    Then that would make you nothing but a glorified prostitute.

    What part about when I said 'there must be a blend of logic/reasoning and emotion when it comes to relationships. Although there must be a blend, logic should be in the drivers' seat.

    And I don't know of any guy who has the capability to care for and love a woman that would be with a woman that was only with him for his money.
     
  23. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    good luck with that.
     

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