By always signing your name at the bottom like an obnoxious royal celebrity - as if we don't already see it when you post - you are certainly flaunting your frivolous ego much more than I. In what way is my ego showing? Explain. I'm treating women as equal to men - not as a piece of spoiled meat to be disgarded, thrown away, or condemned and degraded for life! An altruistic view is the exact opposite of an egotistic one.
No, ye're just making that claim! My guess is that you're little different to most people in the world ...and it ain't treating women as equal to men!! Doing and saying are two different things. Oh, watch ....I'm going to sign my name below ....so close your eyes and don't sneak a look, okay?? ...LOL! Baron Max
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One thing that guys just dont get, is that women make absolute judgements of worth, and men make relative judgements of worth. For example, you might very well sit and be worried that your wife will compare you to the best lover she ever had and you'll come up short (excuse the pun). This is because that's the way you think, in those relative terms (penis is bigger, car is faster, house is more expensive) and this probably leads you to choose a wife with no past experience, thereby alleviating you of some performance anxiety. Fortunately for most guys (who never quite got over that hurdle), the majority of women dont think that way; and she judges your performance as good or bad, not better or worse. So stop putting your male way of judging on this, and tell me; what difference does it make, her experience up to the point she decides to devote the rest of her life to you? What has her history got to do with you at all, other than it being the sole thing that brought her to be the person you love today and for now?
She might judge me as she wish. As i am confident i need not 'worry' about my position. It is not this type of 'worry' i am talking about. As already said, the 'issue' it is not about getting compared. Even if she is a virgin she can compare between her expectations and reality. Come on, you sound too positive. Anyway i am not worried about comparisions. Right questions. But it is a pain in the corner of your heart and it gets stronger the more you love your wife. Some men live with that, some cannot.
I don't know what country you live in, but here in America most people get married more than once. This question will be inapplicable for the second and subsequent marriages. In any case it sounds rather silly to those of us who are over 20. Kids are having sex five minutes after they reach puberty. You're not going to find a lot of virgins over the age of 16. If young people want to "save themselves" for marriage then that's their choice. But if a man wants his first wife to be a virgin then he had bloody well better be one himself. Fair is fair.
