I like lesbians and guy/girl action, but my dick shrinks when two guys go at it. Even girls that I know cant et off to gay porn.

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For girls it's much less of the visual aspect and more of the emotional, whereas in guys it's just: nice boobs => erection

Both men (straight and perhaps even gays, I don't know) and women are equally turned off--or downright frightened--by the prospect of unwelcome sex with a man. So for most of us men and probably many women, the sight of a man having sex with another man raises some very primal rape fears.

Most people of any gender don't have strong feelings about unwelcome advances from a woman. We might be annoyed, angry, or even charge her with sexual harrassment, but we won't get that hair-standing-up-on-the-neck feeling of dread from it.

I suppose things are different among you younger people, but I have a hunch that deep down inside most women still don't really "get off" on porn of any variety. They're just continuing the feminist tradition of being adventurous and modern and trying to see what it's like to live the way guys live. Now a well-directed love scene between two good-looking movie stars might evoke the feeling that the director was hoping for. But to just watch the biology in action of two people having undramatic, unremarkable, and unattractive intercourse generally does not tantalize their libido like it does ours.

I have to say that I grew up in an era when footage of actual sex was not something the average guy ran across very often, and when we did it was pathetically mediocre by today's standards. There were no "porn stars" who at least tried halfway to make it an art form. I still find that a really pretty woman, posed alluringly in the nude, with the right scenery, lighting, and je-ne-sais-quoi, all by herself, is a far better turn-on than two people banging away in camera-friendly but laughably unnatural postures.

slacker:

Are you surprised that people who are not gay are not into gay porn?

I imagine that gay people are not particularly turned on by straight porn, either.

Regarding straight men being turned on by "lesbians", the depiction of so-called lesbian action in straight porn almost invariably involves bisexuality. The implication is that if a man was available, the girls wouldn't just be having sex with each other, but would automatically want the man. For real lesbians, of course, that is not the case.

Don't mistake porn fantasies for what happens in the real world.

I like lesbians and guy/girl action, but my dick shrinks when two guys go at it. Even girls that I know cant et off to gay porn.
Good for you, and good for them. :p

I, however, know quite a few girls and quite a few guys who love looking at two guys having sex with each other. It's all a matter of personal taste. That's why there's such a wide variety of porn out there on the Internet.

i like sex im bored
Don't we all, and aren't we all?

I know so many girls who get off to guy/guy emotional slash (E.g. written porn with a vague plot...like Harry/Draco).

Where do they fit in?