...by the same friend, like every other day or so.
i'm unsure of the protocol, but i poke back out of courtesy. but what is the protocol? does he (yes its a he *sigh* if it was a chic....) want me to msg him? or call him? what??
is there something deeper? a level of homo-eroticism perhaps??
he knows i don't swing that way,...am i readinhg too much into it??

sounds like love

sounds like love
thought had crossed my mind, but surely that's arrogant of me?

Nah, your personality is so attractive, its the obvious conclusion.

Nah, your personality is so attractive, its the obvious conclusion.
no need for sarcasm siddiqi:bugeye:

no need for sarcasm siddiqi:bugeye:

I wasn't being sarcastic http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif

Indeed, there is now several groups on FBook with slogan: "Stop poking!!! Let's just f**k!!!"

I wonder what that F really means?

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Nah, your personality is so attractive, its the obvious conclusion.
oh, as we're on the subject of f/book (and such like), i wanted to get your thoughts on something.
ok, hypothetical situation, you're happily married. you love your guy, and he loves you. you have a good solid relationship built on trust.
would you be ok with your guy having the password to your email and f/book and other such accounts?
would you want his passwords?

If you don't have trust, you have nothing.

its time to beat that friend up...in a nice way of course.

oh, as we're on the subject of f/book (and such like), i wanted to get your thoughts on something.
ok, hypothetical situation, you're happily married. you love your guy, and he loves you. you have a good solid relationship built on trust.
would you be ok with your guy having the password to your email and f/book and other such accounts?


Sure, I have no secrets. :p
would you want his passwords?

That's upto him surely?

Indeed, there is now several groups on FBook with slogan: "Stop poking!!! Let's just f**k!!!"

I wonder what that F really means?

http://profile.ak.facebook.com/object2/128/13/n5926438942_6539.jpg
lol
mark zuckerburg has indeed changed the face of comtemporary culture and it's impact on society

eww...sounds like one of those awful mission statements.

Sure, I have no secrets. :p
so, you would volunteer this info over to him?
discuss the matter?
?



That's upto him surely?
but would you want his passwords?

If you don't have trust, you have nothing.
you're single aren't you?

so, you would volunteer this info over to him?
discuss the matter?
?

I would not hide it. Either I trust him or I don't


but would you want his passwords?


Why?

you're single aren't you?

I would prefer to be comfortably single than involved in a cloak and dagger relationship.

your friend is masterminding to lure you into a trap, when you will feel like he is very passionate about you, you will invite him to your house...and than he will take out a gun and demand your passwords to your secret files and your credit card numbers...he will than tie you up to a chair and laugh at you. The next day he will play like nothing happened...and no one will suspect a thing.

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Sure, I have no secrets. :p

That's upto him surely?

and let's take this further.
there's been much said about the concept of cyber infidelity, if you found emails on your guy's pc from another girl, emails which he had not told you about, would you consider this infidelity? (to clarify they haven't physically met up, all contact just vis email)
??

what about his msn contacts? would you mind him still having old female friends (whom he knew before he hooked up with you) on his msn list?

I would not hide it. Either I trust him or I don't



Why?
i'm asking you.
would you ask him for his passwords or not??

and let's take this further.
there's been much said about the concept of cyber infidelity, if you found emails on your guy's pc from another girl, emails which he had not told you about, would you consider this infidelity? (to clarify they haven't physically met up, all contact just vis email)
??

what about his msn contacts? would you mind him still having old female friends (whom he knew before he hooked up with you) on his msn list?


Just emails? lol; should i have a secret camera in his briefcase to spy on the girls he talks to as well?

Anyway all the guys I know talk about their previous friends. :shrug:

I usually don't go for the secretive types.

I'm not dumping my friends for anyone, why should he?

outlandish ask him for his passwords...and than he will ask you for your passwords...and than you will get close and than he will beat you up. Predator's start with poking...end with knifes.

you're single aren't you?
Are you poking me?

i'm asking you.
would you ask him for his passwords or not??

Hmm I don't really forsee any situation where I would want to.

I'm not nosy, though I can be curious, but my interest is directly proportional to your desire to confide.

Just emails? lol; should i have a secret camera in his briefcase to spy on the girls he talks to as well?

I'm not dumping my friends for anyone, why should he?

my point is that this whole concept of cyber communication introduces a comletely new set of problems/parameters/boundries to the context of relationships.

so, you would have no problem with him chatting to some chic on msn that he knew at school, or uni or whatever?

what would you say if he asked you to delete certain msn contacts?

Hmm I don't really forsee any situation where I would want to.

oh come on cdkey! you're a woman, you all have latent inherent mistrust of the male species! it's in your genes.

I'm not nosy, though I can be curious, but my interest is directly proportional to your desire to confide.
my desire to confide??
(confused)

my point is that this whole concept of cyber communication introduces a comletely new set of problems/parameters/boundries to the context of relationships.

so, you would have no problem with him chatting to some chic on msn that he knew at school, or uni or whatever?

Well if he was talking to her ALL the time, I would kick him out, he's just taking up space in my life. But as a casual friendship?

what would you say if he asked you to delete certain msn contacts?



Fuck off?

Are you poking me?
in yer dreams goaty;)

oh come on cdkey! you're a woman, you all have latent inherent mistrust of the male species! it's in your genes.


I have good radar

my desire to confide??
(confused)

In a manner of speaking. :rolleyes:

in yer dreams goaty;)

Such a flirt! I'm going to sleep right now...

Just emails? lol; should i have a secret camera in his briefcase to spy on the girls he talks to as well?

Anyway all the guys I know talk about their previous friends. :shrug:

I usually don't go for the secretive types.

I'm not dumping my friends for anyone, why should he?
but surely you recognise the ease that these types of communication can increase the chances of infidelity by providing the right type of environment?

I have good radar



In a manner of speaking. :rolleyes:
ok, lets clarify,
you wouldn't let him delete certain msn contacts on your list?
you wouldn't ask him for any passwords?

hmmm.

but surely you recognise the ease that these types of communication can increase the chances of infidelity by providing the right type of environment?

As compared to all previous centuries of utter fidelity?

Hmm you're right. A ball and chain is in order.

Why do I get the feeling that you are the 'girl' who wants the passwords and wants 'her' significant other to delete the msn contacts?:D

As compared to all previous centuries of utter fidelity?
but i'm not discussing infidelity within historical context. previous centuries of infideltity is irrelevant to this, my point is the nature of these relatively new phenomenon, and their impact on relationships today.

Hmm you're right. A ball and chain is in order.
kinky.

Why do I get the feeling that you are the 'girl' who wants the passwords and wants 'her' significant other to delete the msn contacts?:D
oh bugger...yessss samantha, i am a girlie.
lets talk lipgloss.

but i'm not discussing infidelity within historical context. previous centuries of infideltity is irrelevant to this, my point is the nature of these relatively new phenomenon, and their impact on relationships today.


Ah so guys (just guys?) are less committed and more casual these days. They don't want a stable long term relationship, just fly by night adventures?

kinky.


Yeah, you should see where the ring for the chain is.

oh bugger...yessss samantha, i am a girlie.
lets talk lipgloss.

Lipgloss is yucky.

Ah so guys (just guys?) are less committed and more casual these days. They don't want a stable long term relationship, just fly by night adventures?

i didn't make any specific refference to males being more likely to be unfaithful (although historically this has been shown to be the case statistically, but this is irrelevant) on the contrary, i'm suggesting that these new concepts have made, and are making it easier for both sexes to be unfatihful, or at leat provide the environment for potential infidelity to occour.
would you not agree?

you're so single at the moment, it's palpable lol.
just wait till you're in a rel.


Yeah, you should see where the ring for the chain is.
do tell, spare no detail



Lipgloss is yucky.
lol, yeh like none's ever touched your lips.
you fool no one sid, all this tomboy shit.
you're a girlie girl.