Sounds really stupid doesnt it??Lord knows i know this intellectualy, but i keep holding on to a love that brings me nothing but hurt. I keep hoping that it will work because we were once good together. It sounds so silly coming from me, because im one of those people who has always maintained that we teach people how do treat us, and yet here i am settling for far less than i deserve. Without trying to turn this thread into some Dr Phil episode, please help my heart reason. If anyone has gone thru this and has come out of it, please shed some light.