Would you agree that a single passionate encounter, the kind that leaves you breathless and your heart pounding, is worth a lifetime of simply having sex? Even if the encounter doesn't evolve into a relationship, is it a valued experience?
Nope. Only if you never, or rarely get laid again. For us normals, no matter how big a deal each of these irresistable sexual experiences seem in their moment, over time, they blend into a pleasant memory of youth. But if you've ever built a house, or written a novel or climbed a mountain, or invented perfected a scientific theory, that stands out. Sex is trivial.
<--------- Trying to remember ... ... ok I remember that I liked the smell of orgasmic sweat .... what else................................? ... ... ok I do remember one young woman-(Linda D.)--she was a member of AIM, recently returned from a trip to central america, trying to unite the various indigenous peoples into an hemispherical trading network, end running the european americans procurement and distribution networks. She had this thing where she would spin around on top of me using my penus as a propeller shaft. We had a few days together before she went off to Missoula to visit family, including her child that her mom was raising. She said that, as a child, the blm controlled treaty lands and rented out most of it to ranchers with a barbed wire enclosure in the middle of wherein they let the indians live. When she was 12, she walked out to the road along of that barbed wire enclosure, stuck her thumb out, and began her travels, joined AIM, and got some education along the way. a valued experience? Hell yeah! The thing is: Once you've experienced the best ... ... ? worth a lifetime of simply having sex? No way in hell!!! .............. I wonder: Was I as memorable to her?
When it happens spontaneously, without forethought or preparation, that's the best. Probably is the most instinctual form of sex, reaching deeply into human sexuality. Kind of like an explosion.
Whoever you are - even if you're a top-flight call-girl/gigolo - however great the sex is, it's just sex. The only way to make any one instance of it memorable, compared to real life accomplishment, is some incidental side-issue - like the canoe capsized, or you got poison ivy, or the girl's brothers took you out behind the barn for re-education.
Dunno about that. I've set three world records and had over 100 patents issued in my name. Still remember a lot of the sex.
A single encounter? Nah. Maybe if the question were - would you take quality/low number of sexual experiences, over quantity/low quality of sex, I'd choose quality. With the right partner, you can have both. Good sex is all about chemistry. Chemistry is a must.
Remember that you partook of sex acts, and some of it was very good - or value any particular encounter above other experiences and wouldn't trade? (Of course, after 51, patents probably don't stand out, either.)
I had to re-read your post... At first I thought you were saying you had set ''three world records'' in sex. And then I was wondering what the heck kind of ''patents'' did you register for sex???
No. Life isn't a sprint; it's a marathon. What do you propose happens after this crescendo event? You just stop, like George Costanza?? :inset pic of Seinfeld's George Costanza, making a 'touchdown' gesture and walking out: That's a completely different question.
Reminds me of the joke about the inexperienced young sailor who visits a lady of the night for the first time, to learn all about it. They do lots of things and finally she says she's going to teach him "69". However, as she gets into position on top of him she accidentally farts. He then pushes her off, saying, "Look, I've really enjoyed myself up to now, but if you think I'm staying under here for another 68 of those........"
I could go totally nympho, take drugs and have sex with anyone really. But not having a meaningful relationship is sad. :EDIT: Also , the doctrine I think I've said before comes to mind: Men are like rugs. Lay them right the first time and you can walk all over them.
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Is a meaningful relationship a prerequisite for hot, passionate sex? Moreover, is a meaningful relationship built on the foundation of hot, passionate sex?
