Lesbian

Do women become lesbian before menopause ? or after ?

 

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Since I know several young lesbians, I would have to speculate that it happens before menopause. My personal suspicion is it happens in the womb.

 

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The women who are lesbian become lesbian at birth.

 

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Do women become heterosexual before menopause? or after?

 

Some women don't realize they're lesbians until later in life. Our society doesn't do a very good job of letting people be who they are.

 

I'd think that is a tad too close to the nature versus nurture argument.

If I may quote: http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/b/bfskinne378139.html

Also environment is a factor of course... I don't know exactly but, wasn't homosexual sex between males looked good upon for Spartan soldiers so they would have more urge to fight for their lovers?

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Most before, in my experience. Many never "become" lesbian - they always were.

 

I think that's right.

I know it is the fashion - even to a point of doctrinal insistence, sometimes - that people are born with a particular sexuality. I am sure that is partly true but equally sure it is not wholly true. There are many instances of people changing their sexual orientation during their lives.

As in the old joke:-

"My mother made me a homosexual."

"Oh, if I give her the wool, will she make me one, too?"

 

May I suggest one more edit:

Most likely not spartan soldiers. Perhaps you're thinking of the Sacred Band of Thebes? From 371 bc to 338 bc, they were virtually unbeatable.

 

Who is actually the one plays the cow or the one who is the bull ?

 

um... what?

 

What are you getting at?

 

Don't know that it works that way. Can't say that I've ever asked for details.

 

How do you and your wife decide?

 

I have a kinfolk who was married twice to men... an now she plans to marry a woman... but i dont know her menopause detales or when she became "queer" (as her mom called her when she first found out that her dauther was lesbian)... but if i find out befor this thred is closed i will report it here.!!!

 

I am old enough and I really don't know who is who , so I am curious

 

My assumption on menopause is that the female does not ovulate and so the desire might drop off. and so she looks for a companion and not for a male that have desires to beyond 70

 

Uh - if you are thinking that people are lesbians because they don't want to have sex, then . . . you don't know many lesbians.

 

Do you have a penis or vagina?

You can say your old enough, but that doesn't mean you are intelligent enough.

 

Yes Intelligence does not come with age, Well since you are the intelligent then enlighten me