James R's Independent Review Process

ahh
you maintain that you can and will ban for bogus reasons

hit the ban button, you needy little troll
you know you want to

/sneer

 

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You two, stop for now, until I finish my reply so that Gustav can see it!

 

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Oh? So banning you because you called me an incompetent little retard would be a bogus reason?

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If I were you I'd stop the insults right here, Gustav. Otherwise you will get what you're asking for.

 

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i just fucking came off a goddamn 3 day ban
no apology was proffered. the blame was laid at my feet

now i have another power hungry mod wagging his goddamn dick in my face

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quote the alleged insult in verbatim

 

You are Indian (Hindu?) by origin, right?

 

Gus is American

 

Original insult:

You explaining that you think Cain is an incompetent little retard:

You calling me "a Cain":

A completely unprovoked insult, by the way.

 

signal

i shall defer a response as that might possibly influence your ongoing assessment

/chuckle

 

Lol - for the /blush.


I think you are prone to easily challenge the worst in people. And since most people have unresolved issues, and you directly or indirectly challenge them on them, of course they become defensive toward you, and sometimes unfair.

It's easy enough to talk to you directly, straightforwardly, analytically.

Anyone with self-esteem issues does not do well around you, though, you are merciless to those.

You are very open about your likes and dislikes of people and topics.
To an extent that some people find it creepy.



Do you find that you have grown as a person in your time here?
If yes, in what ways?
If not, why not?


(I'm not finished, I want a response first.)

 

The only thing I can say to you now by way of consolation and advice is:
Choose your battles, and choose them wisely.

 

signal
with or without sci, almost 10 years have elapsed
"growth" was inevitable

i am not interested in an q&a
i have 11000 posts here
use it

what?
i had my infraction reversed!
my pov goddamn prevailed
i won the "battle"!

 

I asked you whether you find that you have grown as a person in your time here.

Sure, I think you've changed. My focus is on whether you find you've changed, grown, and how; or whether you feel stuck here.

Other long-time posters whom you interact with may not be changing at a pace similar to yours, and this is probably one of the sources of the discord here.

 

irrelevant
i am soliciting your opinion
kindly focus

 

I think you have extremely well-defined personal boundaries. You do sometimes breach the personal boundaries of others, but you definitely do not allow others breaching yours.

People often have poorly defined personal boundaries and do not even notice when they are breached. So if one wants to improve one's sense of boundaries, one has to look hard to find good role models in what it means to have well-defined personal boundaries.

In this sense, I very much appreciate your presence here at the forums.

 

What precisely would you like to know?

 

Amen

 

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According to the Chronicles of Sciforums, Gustav was arrested in Politics and forced to stand Trial before Colonel James and Herr Enmos, before being handed over for Crucifixion. After being Flogged, Gustav was Mocked by the Sciforums Community as the "King of the Trolls", Clothed in Drag, Crowned with Thorns, Beaten and Spat on.

Gustav then had to make his way to the place of his Crucifixion. He was then Crucified He endured the Torment of Crucifixion until his Death at the Ninth Hour.​

 

You forgot the part where I stabbed you in the ribs with a spear.

 

On the Third Day...

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