Great article below. To tell you the truth, I've never been with a woman that didn't have orgasms, so I'm not sure what's driving this controversy. A new study examines "orgasmability" to determine whether it serves a purpose or is just an evolutionary accident. http://www.popsci.com/node/57116/?cmpid=enews092211
"If, at this point, you’re as frustrated as me, you might be wondering what we do know about female orgasm. Well, we’re closer to knowing why they’re so few and far between during sex." From your link. That's because many men don't know what or how to make a woman have orgasms because they, the men, want to be and are satisfied first in most sexual situations but never give the woman what she wants or needs. Men never ask, they only want self gratification.
I take responsibility for my own orgasms, which means educating any woman I am with as to what I like. I tell her if she's afraid to ask, just moan a little when it feels good and I'll take care of the rest, and it usually works out well for both of us.
Yeah, me too. However, I read somewhere that the evolutionary impact had to do with driving women to polygamy. Promiscuity helped assure that their own genes survived whilst pursuing that big O...
That may be true, but what's with the so called nymphomaniacs? I've heard they never have orgasms, they just get close enough to want to keep on trying.
Perfectly reasonable interpretation - it would serve the same evolutionary purpose, perhaps even to a greater extent...
Well there was this one.... Pretty funny story. Never bothered reaching for 3rd base though, because frankly she turned me off with her very specific requests. Kissing had to follow with biting (a certain way) on the neck, then licking a very specific spot on the back of the shoulder. I had to get her to actually point out the spot on her shoulder because an inch off any direction and that did nothing for her lol. Had talked about what she likes, etc, and got the run down that in the nitty gritty it was again like a majik ritual to hit the correct combination to unlock the O during sex. I was up for the challenge but after several frustrating make out sessions (where these majik spots seemed to move like a fucked up tectonic pattern), I pulled out a jiffy marker from the drawer and said. "Look.. draw me a fuckin map". And that was the end of that lol.
You might like the following link: Top 10 Facts About Nymphomaniacs One of those facts said nympo's don't make good girlfriends. I wonder how many teenage boys will believe that one?Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I knew there was a good reason women faked orgasm.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
It is the point when they scream out loud ... Seriously, you raise an interesting question. There is an interesting species, leiolepis ngovantrii, that does not have males, only females, which may mean that they do not have orgasms either. It would at least be one "Y in the road" to begin research by asking questions. :shrug:
I thought it was to make the male feel more important, that he made her climax with his sexual prowess.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I have to admit, it really does make me feel better. But I especially like it when we both cum at the same time and so does she.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I think some drugs can cut it fairly close some times. What exactly did you find very stupid about it?Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
why does this always come up? women are much more likly to fall pregant when orgasiuming compared to sex without. If you look at our closest relitive they have sex the way we shake hand so its a way for her to control who gets her pregant. Also all species which have sex for pleasure also have long infancy periods, ie its a way to encorage the couple (or more) to stay together and there for give a better survival chance to the offspring