Even at my advanced age I still have to refuse sex regularly. In my youth, as raging stud, it was a necessity to keep my knob intact. It would have fairly dropped off if I'd taken every advance to fruition. Once, I was steering a course towards a fecund evening encounter, dipped the lights, had an open fire raging, threw a mattress aggressively on the floor, started to undress my paramour (target)with my teeth but stopped in my tracks when I uncovered a thick black hair protruding from her otherwise delightful aereola. Oh dear! Today I would rip that fucker out with my lateral incisors and a snap of my head and soothe the pain with a long sweet kiss then proceed to render the gorgeous creature lovesick.
Yeah, yeah. Sweet talk me darlin' but I'm afraid I cannot fuck you. You're way too classy and cool for me. refusal #3,498
I have turned down offers of sex from men, and I'm sure I'm not the only man here who's had that experience. I once turned down a woman. I greatly enjoyed her friendship, but she had absolutely no qualities that aroused me. Not butch or anything, just not at all on my wavelength. This was in the early 1970s when casual sex was expected, and I felt rather sorry that I could not accommodate her.
Maybe once a year on average over the last 3-4 years. The "offers" were from a few girls over the phone I'd never met (joke?), one who just took my arm one night as I was walking home (wtf?), and a girl who'd recently been dumped by her boyfriend.
Yes I have from Several women and a few men I was not as Tactical refusing the sex from the men as I was the women. And no I am not Gay nor am I Bisexual. I was just that good looking when I was much younger than today.
No! Well, ok. I did actuallly refuse sex once. It was with this girl I met by friends at a bar. I just kinda thought it was wrong to have sex with someone the first night. But, she was so impressed with that, that I landed her. She's the wife now. Of course, now she hates my guts half the time. And my moral resolve lasted three days.
My girlfriend was on sex rampage and was asking me 2 days straight ,i just wanted hugs and kisses ,ye am a romantic dude <33 ofc the third day i nailed her Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
A romantic dude who 'nailed' his girlfriend... "made love with her" would match more with a romantic type.
antithesis is the key to successful relationships. Although i dumped her few months later,she was psychotic,srsly.
There two situations where this has happened to me 1) "No, I'm sorry I'm not interested" 2) "Its been five fucking minutes since the last time, what are you trying to do kill me???"