what the fuck is wrong with young men?

Is it too much to ask, to be able to walk into a nightclub without being all but raped by every male in the vicinity?

And what is wrong with their brains that even when you physically shove, slap, or yell at them to stop them touching you, they think you're somehow trying to tell them you like them? Do they have some rare disorder which means they don't understand that no means no??

 

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Yay for humanity.

 

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Nightclubs are "meat markets" with the express intent of distributing the fresh, young, willing meat to the horny males of the city.

If women didn't like that, they wouldn't go to the nightclubs, and nightclubs would disappear.

VI, if you don't like that kind of action, why do you go to those clubs?

Baron Max

 

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Perhaps you are going into the "wrong" type of clubs that have that kind of people who are there. The clubs or events I went to and still attend never have problems like that as the women are always treated with dignity and respect. I'd just find another club to visit because that club isn't what you seem to care for if the men don't control themselves. There are many clubs to go to, try others to see any differences.

 

Does it really matter where sexual assault takes place ?

 

Some people go because they play the right sort of music.
It's that simple.

 

Yeah, those clubs advertise the local "meat" in just such a way. It's the way of all great enterprises, huh? Advertise, get the word out, and the fresh "meat" will come see the show.

Baron Max

 

Sexual assault is a crime in the USA. If she'd been sexually assaulted, she should have called the police and reported the crime and pointed out the perpetrator(s). Why didn't she? Why don't other women report it?

Baron Max

 

Don't know much about the UK club scene do you?

 

Meat markets are meat markets ...some people like to call them "club scenes", but a rose by any other name.....

Baron Max

 

Very True.....I had a couple bad experiences there and decided that wasn't the place for me.

Plus, you aren't going to find any Prime AA meat there.

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So preferences in music and lack of any other venue/ outlet is nothing to do with it?
Or maybe it's the attitude that they are meat markets that should be addressed.

 

but a rose by any other name.....is still a place most ppl go to pick up people and get laid.

 

I just go to the public beach here to find interesting women. Hubba! Hubba!

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Probably because she won't be taken serious. And she probably can't prove it anyway.

 

But that doesn't mean that 'no' is suddenly 'yes'. Night clubs attract a lot of assholes and idiots.

 

Everywhere attracts a lot of idiots. They're in steady supply. Considering the average person has seven sex partners over a lifetime, I don't think most people are going there for a hook-up. That's sort of like saying Butterfly McQueen's role in Gone with the Wind is a good example of a black woman; it's amazingly insulting to the majority.

 

Sounds like you need a "Man Bag". Quite simply there are guys out there that are shy retiring types that don't go out much because they don't have anyone to go anywhere with. (Their self-esteme is probably too low)

They might want to go out for a drink and a dance but since they are alone, they don't do it. This is where you need to find one such guy to act as your "Man Bag". Simply put it's a guy that doesn't expect anything more from you than going out, drinking and dancing. They don't expect to kiss, hug or otherwise grope you in all the ways the men you are complaining about do.

You can get them to hold your coat instead of using a cloakroom, you can dance around them on the dancefloor (ergo "Man Bag", since originally single ladies during disco's use to dance around their handbags), guys are also notorious for having trouser pockets... very handy for keeping change in since ladies while dressed for dancing tend to have nowhere suitable. Should a guy give you attention you don't want, you can use a previously defined hidden signal to get the guy to come to your aid.

If you don't want to do this with one guy alone, then the simplest method is to get a couple of girls together with the guy. Most guys won't say no if they are going to accompany more than one beautiful woman and obviously they won't be expecting anything unless they are completely shameless.

Go out, have fun, don't go invoking too many feelings in the poor guy though. Make sure you tell him straight beforehand what you are expecting and what he can expect.

If you can't find one out there somewhere, then there are a few websites you could probably check and if I'm in the area I'm always up for a party.

 

It's my experience. Besides, I'm not insulting the majority at all. I said that nightclubs attract a lot of assholes and idiots, I didn't say all people that go to nightclubs are.

 

its just the crowd and the drinking. i sure dont miss them.