I'm pretty sure you're pulling that "fact" out of your ass. I've gone for long periods either having sex or masturbating at least once per day. Most of the time I can't fall asleep until I've had an orgasm. The best sleep aid ever.:zzz:
Attempting to get back on topic, I'll offer this: I'm stimulated visually (as many men) as much as anything. As a society, the USA tries to make "Sexy" and "Young" synonymous. Woman tend to show their age sooner than men in a lot of cases. If they aren't making the effort to zone in on what turns their man on and keep'n it fresh, he can simply throw in a DVD of beautiful young women doing whatever he's into. If he's not trying to impress a real woman with his stamina, he can pop one off in about five minutes or less and go back to polishing the Harley (or montainbike if you're mike). ...or so I've heard. Anyway the point is this, when mike goes mountainbiking does he ALWAYS ride the same OLD trail? NO. ...When Fraggle rocks out does he try to ALWAYS book the same OLD club? NO. ...Does an artist paint the same picture over and over? NO. It's not in our DNA and that's what makes it a definition of character just to stay with someone for years and years..For some, though, sex on top of everything else is just too much to ask for. Many couples, I assume give up sex all together and lead very fulfilling friendly relationships. God I hope that doesn't happen to me.
Haha. Nice. You are more or less right on that account, but I'd like to add to that. I bet part of that 'not making the effort' anymore also includes any type of nagging, bossiness, moodiness etc. Women had the advantage when the guy was young and wanted sex all the time, but now he's older and doesn't think about it anymore the woman loses her leverage. Why is it that women are mostly the ones complaining about finding a good man, yet they never seem to do the things they need to do to keep a man once they get one? And some of you wonder why I'm single by choice. No, but I do have a pretty sweet-ass bike park/trail my friend Kenny and I have built on his property. Honestly, if sex or any other physical aspect wasn't involved, I'd be just as happy with a plutonic male roommate. Like Bill Engvall said on being gay, 'if you take away the sex, it's just like hangin with your buddies.' Hahaha.
I love all the old wive's tales that come out of these threads. lol Your killing your body if you whack off, or bang the lil misses too much lmao.
I think the human species is naturally polygamous. Women (as Shorty said and any married man can affirm) often are "too tired for sex" as they get older, whereas most men (except Australians) still want sex every day. So what we need is one man and two or three wives. Once a wife gets old enough that she generally prefers sleep to sex, pick up a new hottie to add to the harem who still has the energy to fuck. Remember that Huey Lewis song (If this is it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cg1AdAEDF9c)"So let me leave, or make me wanna stay..... A good friend of mine from high school turned gay (I think) for that reason. In high school he went out with (and fucked) all kinds of good looking women but after high school he and this other friend of his started living together. After a while, they stopped dating women. These guys go on vacations together, do everything together. I've never broached the subject, but he's either gay or celebate.
Why should you care if you've reached the age where you prefer sleep to sex? It's just that, instead of jacking off when you're "too tired" or "have a headache", your husband would fuck one of the other wives who wasn't too tired. Seems like a win-win. The only people who would suffer are the purveyors of porn. There'd be a lot less of a need for it.
I am actually pretty okay with that logic, and it would work out just fine if the ratios of the worlds population supported it. In places like Alaska, Japan and China... not so well since there are already more men than there are women. I think having an alternate, who did their share of the chores, and took care of his needs when I didn't feel like it would be just fine. Would free me up to do some writing and maybe take a class or two.
And you know I'm going to start preferring sleep to sex because...? Because I'm a female, and all females are the same? I like how you say 'having a headache' like women never actually get those. Though admittedly, my favourite thing to do when I have a severe headache is abuse myself. The natural opiates produced are good for relieving headaches. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Actually we do. The holy grail for a cover band is to get a regular gig at several clubs and keep going back, because the fans expect you and know you play the songs they like to dance to. It's easy to use sex as a metaphor for the relationship between an artist and his patrons, but like any metaphor it has its weaknesses. I've been happily married for more than thirty years too. Golly I wonder why that is? Could it be because the men are out gallivanting while they have to take care of the children in addition to doing all the housework? Not only are they too tired to have sex, but they're too resentful to have sex with the man who left them with all that work. If Brad Pitt or Mark Harmon walked in (depending on the woman's age) with flowers and a maid and a chef and a nanny, instead of some drunken oaf with a pot belly and a baseball cap put on the wrong way and hands with all the delicate sensitive affectionate exploratory skill of a polar bear, you'd be amazed at how much more "in the mood" she could be. Well aren't you Mister Perceptive. You know as much about gay men as you do about straight women. No one "turns gay." They're born that way and they either accept it or deny it, or in some cases are so repressed by their families that they don't realize it. A very tiny percentage of the population are bisexual and they can change from one behavior to the other happily, but they're so rare that most of us probably won't ever meet one. I had a friend who was raised in the most draconian style of Catholic family and did everything God wanted him to do: dated women, married one, had five children and was a loving father. She died, the kids grew up, he moved off to a big city where there was more religious variety, and discovered he was gay. It happens more often than you think. Family and community pressure can be hell. A boy who is so cool and attractive that all the girls want to screw him and all the other boys look up to him for that is going to think twice before giving in to his nature and becoming an outcast. Most people are more likely to imitate each other than to actually do what they feel like.
Three cheers for Fraggle.... give me an F....F give me an R.... R give me an A.....A lol Very well put! :thumbsup:
Well, I wasn't really talking about your patrons at all. It was just a simple statement about human curiosity and sense of adventure. As you've mentioned, there are SEVERAL clubs that have caught your fancy for whatever reasons. One may have a nicer stage. The other may have a bigger rack..um for wine. Since we've now brought the crowd into the discussion, one club might be a real screamer while another is more of a moaner. That's awesome! Congrats. And thanks for a being a great inspiration on so many levels. In the words of Doc Holiday, "you are an oak". I consider myself to be happily married as well. However, I don't think that I'm beyond understanding the scope of the questions presented in the OP. The more I know about myself and my predispositions, the easier it is to fight off harmful thoughts and actions. I want to be able to say that we've been happy for 30-40-50 years , too.
Then fuck him whenever he wants or you lose your right to complain if he strays due to you being stingy with the vag.
Fraggle, I'm the type of guy that will do exactly what you describe for my woman. HOWEVER, given my aforementioned statement of 'what's good for the goose is good for the gander', in order for me to continue to do those things, she more or less will have to be 'in the mood' as often as I am. That's a two way street Fraggle. Think about it...if you want a high performance car, you better be ready for the higher maintenance of it. Which requires more maintenace, the Honda Civic/Accord in your driveway, or an 18,000 rpm, 230 mph F1 race car?
I think guys get less sex because THEY get boring as well. What woman wants to have the same old sex every time? And let's face it, most guys aren't great planners when it comes to doing something spontaneous, romantic, etc. If a man wants a woman to be excited about sex, try making it exciting. Its not all about the orgasm, but the effort you put into being with her (not on her).
