Beauty and the Ugly guy

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by CutsieMarie89, Oct 8, 2008.

  1. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    It doesn't bother me. I just get this certain inner satisfaction from calling someone out with a horrible attitude. And if they respond with a 'How dare you/I can't believe you said that to ME' look/posture, which they often do, it's even better.
    You ever heard the paraphrase, The best way to disarm a bully is to stand up to them?
     
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  3. Repo Man Valued Senior Member

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    But it is the reality. Being physically attractive gives women power. I'm sure it is hard to resist the temptation to use it. Haven't you ever met a very pretty woman, and been surprised that she was a very nice and down to earth? Sure, you're not really surprised when a plain woman is nice; she has to be if she wants to get anywhere with men, since she doesn't have the proportions/symmetry that we find optically pleasing. Beautiful women can be bitchy because people will still put up with them. At least, until their looks fade.


    What I was talking about was the ability to separate physical attractiveness from having an attractive personality. I think Paris Hilton has a terrible personality, but I still think she is quite pretty.


    But the balance of power is never static. A man with a good job can become unemployed, and have his wife leave him as a result. A woman with children takes a definite hit on the dating scene. And older women usually have poorer romantic prospects than men the same age.
     
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  5. Repo Man Valued Senior Member

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    And it has always upset me when I see a woman I'm attracted to put up with a guy who treats them like dirt. I think both sexes have underlying attractions that they cannot control. Men can no more help being attracted to pretty young women than women can help being attracted to arrogant jerks. You have no control over who you find attractive; you only have control on whether or not you choose to act on your attractions.
     
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  7. Repo Man Valued Senior Member

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    I think that many women, on a level they are not conscious of, put up with being treated poorly because of a thought process that goes something like this: when they are with a man who treats them well, on some level they are thinking, "If he treats me well, that means he is afraid of losing me. If he is afraid of losing me, I could probably do better than him." When they are with a man who treats them poorly, they are thinking (once again, on a level they may only be dimly aware of, or not at all) "He's not afraid of losing me, which means I probably can't do better than him."
     
  8. nietzschefan Thread Killer Valued Senior Member

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    I guess that's why everyone, ideally wants unconditional love. You only really know if you've got it when shit is really bad...
     
  9. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I agree, I was there with my EX. At the time I could have dated so many Nice, attractive guys but I stuck with him. He could be a real prick when he drank, which finally got out of control and I left him. I look back and shake my head though, and think WTF was I thinking.
     
  10. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    True true. Can't argue with you there. However, like you said before, pretty women attract more men, and men will put up with more crap from a prettier woman. IF, those guys would stop letting physical beauty make them temporarily (some permanently) stupid, those women wouldn't have so much power to (quite often) abuse.

    Yes I have. In fact, there are two women that I work with, both drop dead gorgeous and both sweethearts. I would date either of them in a heartbeat, but one has a b/f and the other I work directly with. I'm not sure if she is taken but I am apprehensive about dating coworkers.

    No, I'm not surprised, but I've seen plenty of plain, fat, nasty, hideous women be total bitches.

    Like I said, those are the type of guys that I want to punch in the mouth for being so stupid. Both because they shouldn't give their power away like that, and for the fact that I have to deal with these bitchy, arrogant women.


    Paris does have a terrible personality, but I also think she is fucking nasty. Her eyes need an alignment (she could sit on the front porch and count chickens in the backyard), and is about 5-10lbs heavier than anorexic.
    But I know exactly what you mean though.

    True true. But like I said, during the initial stages of dating, women definitely have the advantage. They get hit on/asked out exponentially more than guys do. They do not have to do as much work.

    Sounds about right. Very illogical thought process though, and one that I've seen get women into trouble. And some women wonder why it's so hard to find a good man; they bring it on themselves.

    True. And I have that from the girl that lives in my house with me. Of course, she has four feet, fur, barks and likes to chew on things. Haha.
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah they live on my street. To this day I don't know why their husbands (average looking men) let them boss them around, even publically.

    Paris is a prissy bitch with the body of a teenage boy, I don't think she even has an ass.
     
  12. nietzschefan Thread Killer Valued Senior Member

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    She's got ass like the 15th century catholic church depicts planet earth.

    She pays limo companies extra to fix the holes in the seats from her bony ass rollin around on them.

    If you saw her in a thong, you'd have to look at which side her face was on to determine which side was her ass.
     
  13. Repo Man Valued Senior Member

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    Here's how I look at it as far as Paris Hilton is concerned; if I knew a woman in real life who looked like her, but had a decent brain and personality, and was interested in me, I'd be a happy man.

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    She could use to gain a little weight, but realistically, I'll never date a woman that physically attractive.
     
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  14. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Well sure, you could do A LOT worse in looks then that. It is pretty hard for me to like anything about her, after seeing her talk a few times.
     
  15. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    She needs to stop holding that sammich and eat it already. Lord knows she needs it. And you also know that she did not make it herself, and she probably has no clue how. Which means she will never get up out of the bed after having sex to make her man one.

    She's all yours, buddy.
     
  16. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Is that the proverbial milkman? I've never heard it called back-door man, but people do say stuff about the milkman. Don't know why. The milkman hasn't delivered milk in ages.
     
  17. nietzschefan Thread Killer Valued Senior Member

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    I guess in Michigan, he was often the "Milkman" back in the stone ages. Yeah he delivered milk to hard up, bored housewives.

    Christ...no one on this board likes the Blues?
     
  18. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    I have met some very bitchy women, but I never knew one to be that way because she had a vag. They were that way because it worked for them. People do what works.
    Some guys like controlling women. I don't know if it reminds them of Mom or they just don't like responsibility or...hell, I have no idea.

    I do not shovel snow. I refuse. Is it because I have a vag or because there are 2 penises who live in the house?
     
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    I feel quite nauseous just looking at her. She needs to put a lot of weight on the skinny bitch.
     
  20. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    sorry, I thought it was gay music, all that backdoor man talk and all.

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  21. nietzschefan Thread Killer Valued Senior Member

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    Hard to a lot of words nowadays, people seem to have attached gay innuendo to almost anything.
     
  22. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    <giggle> you said hard
     
  23. nietzschefan Thread Killer Valued Senior Member

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    Been hitting the sauce again, Orly?
     

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