Heh.. if my husband told me our relationship did not stand a chance without porn, he'd be sleeping in the garage. I don't have a problem with porn. I don't think I have ever told my husband that he was not allowed to look at it. To be honest, it is not something I have even thought about. I've never 'caught him' looking at it. I use his computer often and have never come across it on his computer. If he looks at it, it's not when I am around. He probably does, but I am not about to put more emphasis on it by banning him from looking at it. He is a grown man and if I were to start banning him from looking at it, I would be treating him like a child. I honestly don't really care if he does look at it or not. I know that he is faithful and honest and we have a good and happy relationship.. that, at the end of the day is all that matters. His masturbation habits when I am not home or around is really none of my business. I respect his privacy in such matters.
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Ok so you really don't see him looking at porn right? or come across it, so maybe he isn't even doing it :shrug: So it really isn't an issue. Now like Madanthonywayne said in another thread that men will get out of bed when the woman is fast asleep to look at porn....Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Would it bother you if he was doing that? Or if you came across an abundance of porn on his computer?
I'd probably laugh and call him an idiot. As I said before, his masturbation practices when I am not around is really none of my business. I am not about to start snooping through all the files on his computer or checking to see all the sites he may have visited to see if he is looking at porn. It honestly does not bother me like that. If he were spending 20 hours a day with his pants down and tongue hanging out in front of the computer looking at porn, that would be a huge problem. But he does not. If he does look at it, he is discreet. We have a healthy relationship, in all areas. I don't feel threatened by anything he could be looking at on the internet. Each individual is different. If you have a problem with porn and don't like it, you are well within your rights to express your feelings to your other half and it is up to him to respect your wishes in that regard. I am not condemning you for your stance on porn. It makes you uncomfortable and you find it upsetting. Enough said. He should respect you and your decision. I would expect my husband to be the same if I also felt the same way.
i confess that i watch porn because deep down i just want to smack bitches around the roadside. peace.
Jesus, older women are insecure. I can't think of anyone I know my own age who would be so upset over porn.
dont worry those people will be dead soon xev, we will have our satanic porn infested world to ourselves in about 20 years. peace.
Yeah that is exactly how I feel. As I said before everybody has to find what works within their own relationship. I guess I am lucky to have found a guy that respects my feelings about it, because it sounds like a lot of other guys would just go ahead and do it anyway. It is just like I respect that he loves playing computer games a lot lol. There are a lot of women that I know that would not tolerate the amount of time he spends with that. It all comes down to compromise. I am happy, he is happy all is good in Shorty's World haha But one last thing on this topic: SAY NO TO PORN Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
So what, you want him fantasizing about a hot co-worker instead of looking at a picture of some random girl on the internet he'll never meet or interact with in any way?
So now he is fantasizing about hot co workers? You know what he is so stressed at work he can barely think straight. But if he is, I guess I won't know about it, will I ? I bet you look at porn and fantasize about random women on the street or co- workers. So looking at porn will stop you from fantasizing about a hot chick at work? I doubt it. I noticed a long time ago how you were continously talking about HOT CHICKS all the time. I tell you something. He is a pretty sexual guy but he is no way near as sex crazed as you. Then this porn stuff and how a relationsip is doomed without it. I think you are a little obsessed with it for a 41 yr old man. I mean if you wife is willing to put up with it, you are lucky. But I have a feeling she doesn't know the extent of your obsession with it!!
True. I don't know, maybe it's a feminist thing - if you were raised back when women were supposed to "get a man" and have a family and that was all, I guess you would be more possessive than someone who has other things going on in their life. Satan porn for the win!
What if he is a single guy and doesn't want a GF just for sex?? Me thinks you dodged the question, because it is not really the porn part what bothers you...
