jeezy pete! where do you people live? I mean, you were doing what biologically you are supposed to do, but dang. My Mom knew every move I made til I went to college. Where were your parents? And is your daughter on the pill?
Go with your gut feeling, LA, 'cause it ain't lyin'. Ask yourself..."Am I ready to be come a grandmother?" Kids like to think they are more grown up than they really are. (this can be true for adults to..just look at some of the members of this board Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ) There's really no reason for a 13 year old to have an overnight guest of the opposite sex. I think she's testing your boundaries.
well, then you know not to do what your Mom did, but don't go off the rails on the other side. Permissiveness does her no favors. She's still just a little girl no matter how old she tries to act.
i know its fucking great!, its one of my fav episodes too. i just watched it again on the link i posted. i cant get enough of that one. peace.
I caved in to my sexually active life since 13yo. Trust me let the boy stay and he'll have his way with her. I other words don't do it. If your daughter had any brains she'll know not to ask such and be able to realise the appropriateness of asking a guys to stay the night at 13yo. If this guys is a gentleman he'll insist not to stay. I suggest make a condition that he has to sleep in the lounge room on the couch if you decide to give in to your daughter. Sorry if I insulted in anyway. I'm just straightforward like that.
You are not her friend. You are her mother. That means you have to guide and set boundaries, and yes, sometimes you will have to say 'no'. A parent is meant to guide their children. They are there to set boundaries and that means, sometimes, they have to say 'no'. She will hate you for it, for a while, she will attempt to blackmail you into giving her what she wants. As her mother, you need to be the adult and simply say 'no'. Ignore her tantrums and her emotional blackmail. She will thank you for saying 'no' later on when she is an adult and realises how much of a fool she was as a teenager.
well i just told her that there was no way that he can stay now i am the most hated person on the planet, and i mean hated, she thinks i am doing it to spoil her life. and now she has gone to her room and trashed it, i did have a nice OCC model not any more she smashed it to pieces. next time i think i will just have gold fish and not kids
Ummmmmmm the answer is DEFINATELY NO......... There are times to be a cool mom like when I did my son's room to look like graffiti for him, or invite his friends when we go the movies, and have a sleepover with his male buddies....... But come on now 13 yr old girls wants her boyfriend to stay in her room? This is the time to forget about being cool, and being a mom. "if you love me, you would say yes" Does this work on you? lolol what a pushover if it does......who is in charge there you or your kids?
