Dont you kinda wish we had one? I wish we did at the moment. It sucks we you sit there wondering about it. Sometimes I wish there was an answer for everything. A huge library that you could go to and look up everything you ever wanted to know. Okay enough of my babeling, lets go ahead and get to the point of my topic.

Im not asking for pitty here, (im no pitty whore) I am just wondering if anyone out there who has been through the same, could give me some advice. The question is simple, What do you do when you love someone, but they are not ready for something like that yet? Now I know the answer will not be as simple as the question, but try if you will.

If we had formula for love, it would lose it's value

The magic is in finding the right formula for you.

F(love) = -X² + √ 2x
D(f) = [-A, &pi]
R(f) =[A½, &pi]

:D

Xev- that's complete bs;)

Works better than hypnosis!

well the only solution is for love is to find the perfect time, perfect partner and just be yourself

Wow, what nice claims :)

If you match her then you do. It's all about matching.

There is no formula, but there are "guidelines" for most, not all.

Originally posted by Avatar
If we had formula for love, it would lose it's value

Good point.

Xev- that's complete bs

Looks good though! :)

Anyone here married?

Originally posted by Bebelina
The magic is in finding the right formula for you.

Love is magic? :D

....formula for love?
Need.

Need sucks. Love sucks. Where's my vodka?

what the hell was I talking about!?!!

*drinking all xev's vodka*
no where honey:p

Oh well.

*Grabs third bottle of Youri Dolgoruki from the freezer and pours herself a shot*

If there was a formula for love, it would mean you'd have to know math to be happy. Which would prove all those fuckers in high school who said that it was neccessary right, and I won't have it.

If you really care about this person you profess to "love", then it will be worth being near them even if you can't have a "relationship". And you know, if that's how it is, and you're good to them, they just might realize how worthwhile the relationship is that you already have. And they may decide it would be worthwhile to have more.

what the hell was I talking about!?!!
To request is to need.

Topically: therefore, Xev craves love.

Many questions arise automatically therefrom. :p

;)

Bah humbug. I crave Cristal.

Oh, and chocalate. That's nice. You know what would be nice? Some nice Ghirardelli dark chocalate.

Ah. Denial stage.

So where's my goddamn chocalate?

Ah. The Anger stage!

So I don't get any chocolate?

Yes. All you want. If you know how to ask.

Heck I'm lazy, so I'll take a part of my contribution to my school newspaper. :D

It triggers the production of opioids. Opioids are chemicals, such as those found in opium, that produce a feeling of well-being. Eating chocolate causes the brain to produce natural opiates, which dull pain and increase euphoria levels. Chocolate contains a chemical call anandamide. You all know what marijuana is right? So you also know that when THC binds to receptors in the brain the person feels "high." Anandamide is a lipid that is normally found in the brain; it can bind to the same receptors as THC and thus produce a similar effect to "being high." Whoa, cool! So does that mean chocolate can produce the same effect as marijuana?! Chocolate doesn’t contain THC, so you aren’t breaking the law eating it. But anandamide is already in your brain, and its euphoria is only quick-lasting because it is broken down quickly. Also you can’t get a “high” like marijuana off chocolate because anandamide is not present all over the brain. THC activates many receptors all-over the brain and it has a much larger effect. So chocolate only shortly extends the brain’s sense of well-being by supplying more anandamide. Maybe this is the reason why we crave chocolate so much. Some might even love dark chocolate more because it contains more of these chemicals.

So why is chocolate called a “love-drug?” And why is it used for special occasions like Valentine’s Day? Well, it contains yet another chemical called phenylethylamine. Being related to amphetamines, this chemical causes blood pressure and blood-sugar levels to rise, resulting in a feeling of alertness and contentment. So this in effect quickens your pulse and feels as if you are in love. Caffeine is also in chocolate and may also cause those alertness feelings and a pounding heart. Other stimulants in chocolate include theobromine and methylxanthines. These are caffeine relatives and are weaker, so you’d have to eat more than 12 Hershey bars to get as much caffeine as there is in one cup of coffee. All of these stimulants increase the activity of neurotransmitters in the brain.

Those are the sweet mysteries of the cacao bean and even today scientists are still trying to figure out what else chocolate can have an effect on. Chocolate contains stearic acid, so don’t eat too much of it. But in the meantime grab a bar for yourself and go buy a gram for your valentine.

Life is sweeter with chocolate…

Property of ~The_Chosen~

Okay, ummmm......

Get me some Ghirardelli RIGHT NOW!

No wait, I want sushi. Some of that barbecqued octopus sushi....whatever it's called. SUSHI NOW!

I can't identify with the need to be frustrated.

Sorry.

:p

Go get some chocolate people!

I found some Lindt. Now I am happy. I think I am going to start singing.

O man, take care!
What does the deep midnight declare?
"I was asleep-
From a deep dream I wake and swear:
The world is deep
Deeper than day had been aware
Deep is its woe;
Joy - deeper yet than agony:
Woe implores: GO!
But all joy wants eternity -
Wants deep, deep eternity!

*Xev wanders off to offer Lindt dark chocalate to the maidens of the forest*

you just HAD to say it, Xev.

Now I've got to go and buy dark cocolate
damn

The firm-ankled maidens of the forest don't want any. :(

You can have some of my chocolate, Avatar.

Love? F*ck love! Love doesnt exist. Its something the human mind made up to set us apart from animals. Its called hormones people!!!! When you get tired of someone you move on, just like when someone gets tired of you, which they will eventually. People say love fades. Love doesnt fade, the infactuation fades. Just like when you get a new car, its great till its not new anymore - then you want a better one. Right? Sorry, people - no coffee yet! :D

XEV!!! Pass the damn vodka!


And Welcome Amphion!

Disagree Star. Love is something our culture made up to sell trite crap on Valentines day. Like those god-awful stuffed bears. This way, people do not realize just how much love sucks. Of course they are infatuated. Otherwise they would be miserable.

Aww hell, it's 3:27pm on my day off and I've had no booze as of yet.

*Passes Star the vodka*

No booze yet??? On yo day off? Is you crazy??:D Better hit up the liqo sto'!!!

*swiggs* - *passes*:D

Booze! Booze and they are making a movie (http://filmforce.ign.com/articles/367/367545p1.html) about one of my heroines. Sweeeeet! Oh, and it has Cristina Ricci as Lucretia. Double sweeeeet!

Say, anyone want some chocolate?

too late. I'm already back from the shop

dark chocolate with peanuts and rasins

anybody wants?

Mmmm, I've been married for 32 years. Like Bebelina says, you gotta fint your formula.:p

Hans

Ooooh! Lucky Avatar.

Chocolate and alcohol does create the same feeling as being in love, but they don't last very long and are bad for your health.
And how does that differ from being in love, you ask?
Well, they aren't as cuddly... And they can't go out with the trash either. :D

Love IS magic, it is the ultimate magic!

I agree, but I need to put on weight.
I'm 1.5kg below my standart- 53.6kg now


btw- I'm sick already from that chocolate- I think I've eaten too much

HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:mad:


Choc is good for you

it prevents canser

and so is red wine


don't know about vodka but what the hell:D
*steals bottle from star and drains in one swig*

How come that those substances produces migrain instead of pleasure for some?

Originally posted by *stRgrL*
Love? F*ck love! Love doesnt exist. Its something the human mind made up to set us apart from animals. Its called hormones people!!!! When you get tired of someone you move on, just like when someone gets tired of you, which they will eventually. People say love fades. Love doesnt fade, the infactuation fades. Just like when you get a new car, its great till its not new anymore - then you want a better one. Right? Sorry, people - no coffee yet! :D

HAHAHA, you got a point if you're the type to have fun :D. She believes love to be this. But love is what you believe it to be. It's more like needs and selfishness, then the illogical part, the part where you believe.

Love is selfish and/or illogical.

Now now Xev, look what you done, we haven't really answered Amphion's question but ended up playing around. Vodkaaaa....vodkaaaa....

Your the #1 thread hijacker! :D lol

Originally posted by Amphion
Im not asking for pitty here, (im no pitty whore) I am just wondering if anyone out there who has been through the same, could give me some advice. The question is simple, What do you do when you love someone, but they are not ready for something like that yet? Now I know the answer will not be as simple as the question, but try if you will.

Simple, make them fall for you :D. Never be too sweet or they'll take you for granted, as in always being there for them, if they need you, let them COME to you, or waiting for them to hang up, have your own sense of control and DO WHAT YOU WANT! But if you want to be sweet, write a poem, be mystery to her, tell her love stories to get her into that mode. Watch love stories to her and tell her what you would do! Stuff like that.

But you'll have to give more details...how much is she into you?

For many girls, they want love to be like "magic" like bebelina, sorry for using you hehe ;) So you provide that "magic" and girls want things to "just happen" so just do it and make it happen! Grab her hand, kiss her passionately, then errr...bring her somewhere secluded and kiss her body like a godesses, in fact even tell her that you want to do that when she gets all lovey-dovey with you! One thing, Never be shy, never ask and just move like the wind, do it and see if she reacts, if she says no, then wait for another time and try again. As long as you respect the woman and not force her too much, then that's good.