I know of a few women who have erotic dreams about sleeping with an ugly, old, fat man..
Relating to other discussions that i have posted earlier, and others responding that humans have this innate need to see beautiful things, i would liek to think a little more deeplyabout what this dream would imply.
It not only manifested in the subconscious mind (dreaming) but it was also an active, conscious fantasy that would bring about sexual arousal .
If humans are so drawn to things that are beautiful, then why would a woman dream about sleeping with an ugly man as a fantasy?


Does it have to do with self esteem?
Funny also that ayn rand makes the statement that :
A man of high esteem will wan a woman who has the highest virtues. Wheras a man who hates himself will want a "brainless slut "

:confused:

Lets look deeper.
:bugeye:


cheers,

Mark

Ugh...i am not even going to try that one...ok i will..maybe they just want kinky, dirty, fat, sweaty sex....they are sick of buff, six pack flaunting losers so they want the hairy, bald, ugly, sweaty guy because he is every thing opposite of the tanned bohemian.


Yeah..ok:bugeye:

haha. I still think its a self-esteem issue.
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I can't say I dream or fantasize about that. Twinks all the way.

Hmmm... I think it's better to take the stance of "eye of the beholder"; not everyone finds abs or skinniness or whatnot as sexually arousing. Beauty is too subjective. On the otherhand, women who normally find skinny typical "hot" guys attractive who suddenly have secret urges for fat, "ugly" guys could be a psychologically repressed attraction to that type of guy.

M

Originally posted by spookz
gay right wingers? der fuehrer would have a fit! He would have more if I could kiss him. :p

And I'm not gay. My boyfriend is.

OK just kidding, but quite seriously, my girlfriend would disagree with you on that topic.

Hmmm... I think it's better to take the stance of "eye of the beholder"; not everyone finds abs or skinniness or whatnot as sexually arousing. Beauty is too subjective. On the otherhand, women who normally find skinny typical "hot" guys attractive who suddenly have secret urges for fat, "ugly" guys could be a psychologically repressed attraction to that type of guy. Ya I can agree with you there. Although I don't think you have to look far to find someone to be attracted to then...

I know of a few women who have erotic dreams about sleeping with an ugly, old, fat man..
Relating to other discussions that i have posted earlier, and others responding that humans have this innate need to see beautiful things, i would liek to think a little more deeplyabout what this dream would imply.
It not only manifested in the subconscious mind (dreaming) but it was also an active, conscious fantasy that would bring about sexual arousal .
If humans are so drawn to things that are beautiful, then why would a woman dream about sleeping with an ugly man as a fantasy?


Does it have to do with self esteem?
Funny also that ayn rand makes the statement that :
A man of high esteem will wan a woman who has the highest virtues. Wheras a man who hates himself will want a "brainless slut "

:confused:

Lets look deeper.
:bugeye:


cheers,

Mark




Answer is simple: heresy. Women wan to be bad girls, sometimes that means doing wild and crazy just to do it.

I'm sure there's more to it, but that's the first thign that came to my mind, other than your self esteem idea (which I think is the most plausible).