chicks with boyfriends

why is it that when hot ass chicks get boyfriends they start to "dress down." like they don't dress to look good, they dress cos they don't want to get summons' for indecent exposure. it's wierd...anybody have an answer? :bugeye:

 

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that made noo friggin' sense

 

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Heres a simple explanation-

They dont need to dress up anymore, they have suceeded in gaining a mate. When they previously "dressed up" they were attempting to gain the attention of the opposite sex, since they have done so, they can loosen up and relax.

Our monogamous society only calls for one mate per person, so the attention of other males would only serve to cause friction in the existing relationship.

 

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or the abusive ass boyfriends force the girl to dress up or else he'll threaten her and beat her.

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"They dont need to dress up anymore, they have suceeded in gaining a mate"

This assumes women dress to impress men. Which simply isn't true. The vast majority of girls I've spoken to would say women tend to dress to impress women. Ever see when a girl will seemingly check out another girl? Any time I've asked, it 's usually her checking out hte outfit on the girl - aka, competition.

 

lol tyler, a woman saying that is just like a woman saying something like "nah I haven't had that much to drink" or "I'm only a bit tipsy"
the opposite is true

 

Tyler:
Precisely. And once you've got a good boyfriend, you're up a point in the game - hence you don't have to try as hard to impress your girlfriends.

 

that is conventional wisdom. what are they competing for? guys! who are they dressing up for? guys! with whom is the endgame played with? guys, not chicks. the best dressed (slutty) wins. wins what? a guy.

The vast majority of girls I've spoken to would say women tend to dress to impress women.

perhaps they have already snagged a guy. also they dont really stop there. lipo, silicon....blah

Precisely. And once you've got a good boyfriend, you're up a point in the game - hence you don't have to try as hard to impress your girlfriends. (xev)

what the hell does that mean? if you dont have a boyfriend, you gotta dress to impress girls? doing this is "precisely" why the dumb chick does not have a b/f. she is focusing on the wrong sex!

also since we are on the subject of clothing, i would humbly request all bitches to dump the panties. guys need easy access. guys will be impressed. guys will want you. burn it all! burn it all now!

 

I agree
panties just aren't necessary in this day and age, what with the internets 'n' all...

 

spookz:

More accurately, wins status among her friends and wins a guy. But men do not evaluate women upon clothing (unless he's gay) - they evaluate on looks.

I'm sorry, but this is even more idiotic than your usual. Please re-read my post very, very slowly, and try to comprehend it.

 

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nope i need one more opinion to convince me of this particular instance of my idiocy.

secondly....

But men do not evaluate women upon clothing (unless he's gay) - they evaluate on looks.

if this is the case, why did you bother with your first post? clothes is the topic.

lemme offer an example... "holy cow! look at that chicks blouse! i can see her nips!"

now tell me xev, looks? clothes? both? the distinction is unecessary?

 

First of all... 3 cheers for spooks...

XEV: "But men do not evaluate women upon clothing (unless he's gay) - they evaluate on looks. "

question. if by best dressed we mean slutty(previously mentioned) then we are talking about what reveals the most. conclusion best dressed shows the best "looks." (eg. based onl looks...two twins...one wheres baggy cloths, the other wears those nice low cut jeans with the g hanging out the back and a see through shirt with a pink bra (girl had this on yesturday). hmm whose going to get my attention....


Burning panties. Interesting but, personnally i like seeing some nice little thong on a girl better than nude, just because it leaves it to my imagination and the goods always look their best there.

 

spookz, I think what Xev is saying is that women dress well to impress other women according to a woman's definition of dressing well. A woman's definition of dressing well is way off a man's. A well-dressed woman (to a woman) has on the latest fashion and perfectly matched accessories - purse, shoes etc. A well-dressed woman (to a man) has on the pink bra, low-cut jeans and see-thru shirt. And he'll never notice if her shoes don't match her purse.

 

Strange, maybe they dress down so that their boyfriend shouldn't worry about other males looking at their girlfriends.
Maybe the boyfriends even demand this.

I never dress down anyway, always up.

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I disagree with spookz completely and agree with XEV. A woman can turn on any men regardless of dress makeup, ect...any time of the day....if she is the only woman around.....All men heads would turn toward the woman if she was the only one available.......because men are dogs and they need constant mental images to masturbate on.... For me, It doesn't matter whether I have just woken up and picking up papers in my pyjama shorts from the driveway or if I'm dressed for a formal outing......the attention from a man is similar, although I get more honks with the pyjama shorts.

The only reason I would dress better or do things different physically is to outdo another woman, to establish my abilities and keep a grip on my territory. Unlike men who love images, women could care less about the faces of all the men around her, women like to turn heads...ALL THE HEADS, and they don't hate anything more than seeing heads turn to another women.... Competition sort of, not to win a man, but to win a situation, your envionrment, and it has nothing to do with sex.

 

hef
your qualifiers (if she is the only woman) is pointless. it is a brand new scenario.
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the goal here is to find a mate

scenario
chick goes to singles bar to find a guy. she dresses up. she keeps in mind there are other chicks that will be competing. she dresses up even more. she walks in. he see her. he approaches. she gets him.

tell me how other women are involved in the above scenario?

to say she is dressing up for them is to miss the point entirely. the point being, her target is not women but a man. her dress may take into account the presence of competing women but it is illogical to maintain that she is dressing for them

 

Xev: if a womens whole point is to impress other women. To turn heads. And men don't notice purses right? So why would a women go someplace where there are men who don't appreciate things like that? Maybe because she nows the others will go their to compete with men? but if all of this is true why wouldn't they go to a salon where she won't have to worry about those dirty pigs (men) 'honking their horns' as was mentioned. I think this sounds kinda contradicting.

Anyways, personally for most women i don't think its that they are trying to ease their boyfriends worries of other men looking. If i tell my girlfriend not to dress revealing, unless i'm physically watching her like a hawk as she's dressing she'll most likely yes me and then ignore.

 

They need to impress men, unless they are lesbians and only care about the women's attention. Its not about impressing women its about "beating" the competition. They need a one up on the other females. There is no need in impressing women, the main goal is impressing guys.

Tell me, what would be the purpose of impressing other females? Do they want their sweet poontang?

The answer is no, they are in a state of competition for the MALE'S attention. There is no purpose in a woman attaining another woman's attention by advancing her physical appearance, the reason the appearance is advanced is to diminish the female competition and ultimately gain the male attention.

Maybe we are on the same page here. I just think the concepts were a little distorted.

Thank you spookz. Good response!! Same thing I was going for.

 

yah
tyler please respond with a "i am a moron! my logic sucks!"

 

Why would he do that when you're the one who's wrong? Granted, his reply was a little oversimplified, but it's essentially the truth. Y'all bask in the glory of the support of erm... those you get support from Spookz. Doesn't make you right.