The thrill of the chase is overrated

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Man I wish there was a way to get rid of(i.e. crucify like jesus) guys like this, and not get put in jail. The fuck up the curve, and make it more difficult for guys like me to find somebody.

Tak,
Remember when you were talking about being nose down in a book the other day...

Intrigued, or 'rendered stupid'?

 

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Yeah those guys are morons.

There's something wrong when they want a woman specifically because she's not available.

 

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insecurity in men is turned into something desirable...imagine that.

 

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Pffft. I'm glad I never got that memo. I feel like hitting guys that are like that, across the side of the head with my lugnut wrench.

 

Admittedly, I like being pursued and being made to feel desirable, but when I'm ignoring a guy, and he keeps going, I just want to scream.

 

Same here. I cannot stand guys who don't understand or don't accept that no means no.

 

Never understood that thrill of the chase bullshit either. I'm more of a "thrill of the fuck" kinda guy. I'm not going to waste energy on a woman playing games, and if she really doesn't want me, then I'm REALLY wasting too much energy.

 

Women are very fickled. Some have said no but a few days later they say yes! :shrug:

 

Ditto. I don't want a chase. I want to fuck him.

 

EXACTLY!!!
Nietzshce, I swear we were twins separated at birth.

I'm much more of a 'destination' than a 'journey'(not the band) guy.

 

LOL!!! I agree 100%!

 

Of course, on the flip side, I hate when men will keep up the chase and just won't initiate sex. I'm NOT starting something. Don't expect me to do all the work.

 

well, I don't know what to say. My husband persisted for over a year before I went out with him.

 

From what you've described of his physical appearance, a year must have been how long it took him to convince you he had quite a bit of money.

 

Do you have a link to that?

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You keep talking about it, (and for some reason negatively) but I don't believe I have ever talked about my husband's body.

 

I know you've mentioned your hubby isn't a petite little thing. I'm not fond of dainty men, myself.

 

He's not. He's tall and broad shouldered. He was a linebacker in high school. He's big and he has the most well defined legs I have ever seen. <heavy sigh>

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I say he's bald, but he says he's losing his hair. LOL Honey, it long gone lost.

 

I like good legs! Take pics!

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He'll catch me staring and he'll flex. It embarrasses me that I'm 42 and still staring.

And Mike, I didn't marry him for his money. I married him because I got pregnant.

 

You're such a bad girl!

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