Haha... temporary_illusion back with Asguard... November back with Adam... Incredible... I'm the kindest guy in the world, the girl dump me and she doesn't come back... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! You two are VERY LUCKY!!!! :bugeye: Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I did nothing wrong... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! She dumped me about 10 months ago... You two are REALLY very lucky!! . . . Congratulations world! Everyone is Loved besides me! And it's me that teaches Love... It's me that is REALLY kind... It's me that is patient It's me that is honest It's me that respects It's me that loves to help It's me that Loves unconditionally It's me that Loves so much... . . . Do you know what? I have to be alone... Because I have to teach this world what is REALLY to Love... ... So much Love and all wasted...? . . . Excuse me... I'm taking pilot lessons... I'm being serious...
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I have "news"... The last post had a sentence that was incorrect... The correct sentence is... I'm the most loved person in this world! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Nothing changed... I just have faith...
Nelson, of course you are loved, by many.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! But have you ever wondered if all those "it's me...", may be what you should concentrate on seeing in others instead?
Yes Nelson! I agree with Bebelina here, totally! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Anyways, I do love you.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! You are a sweetheart and don't you forget it. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! It will go easier on you in time. Keep the faith... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Oh man. He's gotten to himself. "Incredible... I'm the kindest guy in the world, " And the ego goes on.....and on........and on........ How many times you gonna make me say this nelson?? 'I did nothing wrong... She dumped me about 10 months ago..." How long did you go out with her? "And it's me that teaches Love... It's me that is REALLY kind... It's me that is patient It's me that is honest It's me that respects It's me that loves to help It's me that Loves unconditionally It's me that Loves so much..." Dude!!!!??????!!!!! Why do you set me up like this???? Calm your fucking ego down man. You are NOT the be all the end all. Ever think that maybe it's the fact that you're so hung-up on yourself that drives away the chicks. "So much Love and all wasted...?" You have soooooooo much to learn Nelson.
Beb and Banshee, I do see those things in my ex... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! But not in others... Mostly, in some sense... I Love her because she went out with me, but I also Love her because she dumped me. If she hasn't brake with me, I couldn't say nothing about Love. All this comes from my experience with her. Can I NOT Love her for that? Why doesn't the Universe let me thank her for what she did? YES!! I'm thanking her because she broke with me!! If she hasn't done that, I would need much more time to learn all those things... That's why I Love her! And it's not only that... She has something of unique... It's just the way she is... It's unfair from the Universe to not let me be a channel of blessings for her... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Btw... as I said in the card thread, I need to concentrate on myself now... Tyler, ... 3 days... why...? I actually don't usually talk about myself with girls... not in this sense...:bugeye: Ask people that KNOW me... I'm not egocentric... I'm just open-hearted... I can't do nothing, it's just the way I am... Love, Nelson
she has totally brainwshed your head better spend your time on finding you another girlfriend are you serious?
"Why doesn't the Universe let me thank her for what she did? YES!! I'm thanking her because she broke with me!! If she hasn't done that, I would need much more time to learn all those things..." "3 days... why...?" Dude, one relationship of 3 days long is about 1/1,000,000,000 of how much you need to experience before you can say you have one fucking clue what love/relationships truly work like and to learn the ways of life. I beg of you to believe me on this one. I'm honestly begging. "I actually don't usually talk about myself with girls... not in this sense..." Praise the lord. I sure as hell hope not. You aren't going to have many fans if you go around believing you hold the answers. "Ask people that KNOW me... I'm not egocentric... I'm just open-hearted... I can't do nothing, it's just the way I am..." On these boards you've come across as extraordinarily arrogant. I can't claim I actually know, but as little as you think it I'm willing to bet you do things that make you come across as arrogant in real life too. Claiming you know (almost or) everything about love and life would DEFINETLY come across as arrogant. "Nelson, many of us like you..." Three months since Lindsay. That's starting to get to the long point, I need something new.
Nelson, did you know this girl for a longer time period? You only went out with her for three days? No, I don't think he's coming across as arrogant. He is just expressing how he feels and what his opinion on life is. He is free to do so. I doubt he is saying things in his daily life exactly the same way as he is doing here on the boards. Not arrogant in any way...
'Not arrogant in any way..." Thinking you hold all the answers and know everything about love and life, to me that's arrogant. ""Incredible... I'm the kindest guy in the world... And it's me that teaches Love... It's me that is REALLY kind... It's me that is patient It's me that is honest It's me that respects It's me that loves to help It's me that Loves unconditionally It's me that Loves so much..." Yeah you're right. Not at all arrogant......
Nelson, dude, listen to Tyler. I understand women about as much as I understand men - which is to say, not for shit, but - the ego is a huge turn-off. Self confidence is one thing - having an ego the size of Manhatten is another. Also, romantic is usually good (makes Xev gag, but she's in the minority) but you are over-doing it. WAAAAAAAAAAAAY overdoing it. Tyler: Why, not at all arrogant. Nelson simply knows the secrets of the universe and all....
TruthSeeker: To me it really sounds like you are trying way to hard... Try to be yourself more. --- It's me that is REALLY kind... It's me that is patient It's me that is honest It's me that respects It's me that loves to help It's me that Loves unconditionally It's me that Loves so much... --- I was there saying all of these things once... Then I noticed that people don't respect/like you for being nice. People like you for being yourself, different, but acceptable. The way you say these things about yourself, sounds like you are really proud of these things - you shouldn't be so proud of yourself... Hope this helps in one way or another..
Banshee, I know her since September/October of last year. She is REALLY different than most people and I see much more inside her than even her sees (at least it seems so...:bugeye: ) It's pretty much it... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Xev, Nope...:bugeye: I have to express myself...:bugeye: ndrs, Yeah... you got it right... I'm trying to be more myself... but I had fear of being myself... Melissa brokes this fear, but I still have to relearn... I used to be really funny when I was little... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! But... not a good life... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I'm like I said here... I really am... I'm not kidding... As I said before, I'm trying to be funny again... but is a struggle... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Not exactly proud... more self-confident... But I don't see those things in much people...:bugeye: Honestly... I don't know what's wrong... But I'm sure it's not for being proud or arrogant... Love, Nelson
truthseeker, You have to admit you do talk a lot about yourself and YOUR ideas. I strongly suspect that the way you express yourself here is quite likely to be the way you talk to others. Am I wrong on this? But a little hint that I learnt when I was a teenager – if you find yourself about to start a sentence with the word “I” then it usually means you are about to be boring. The best approach I found in relationships was to be genuinely interested in my prospective partner and most of my statements were questions about what she wanted. Any statements about myself were the result of direct questions and my answers were always kept very short. If she is genuinely interested in you then the rapport between the two of you will be rapid and great fun. But the interest must be GENUINE, anything forced will be detected very quickly and then you are doomed. In successful relationships - always think about the other person, and NEVER about what you want. Love should never be an objective. If love is to occur then it will be a result of actions concerning other things. Don’t try and love someone. It doesn’t work that way. Love is not something you do; it is something that happens when the conditions are right. You cannot force love to occur, and the more you try the further it will retreat. Cris
Cris, Not quite. First, I talk about myself because there's anything in this world I know better than myself. Second, I'm pretty rationally closed to others in my common life, eventhough I'm somewhat emotionally open. I always do that. Actually, my friend is pretty opened with me. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Fun... By having fun... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Pretty much. But with you are friend with someone and you have lots of fun with her, Love is likely... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Love, Nelson
I'd like to add a bit to strengthen Tylers point here. Just to put life into perspective and all that. Having been present at the birth of my 3 kids and watched my wife suffer from gall stone problems after the first pregnancy. Then to suffer pre-eclampsia for 2 months with a 24 hour stay in intensive care afterwards, during the third, I think I have experienced a bit more of life. Add to that 18 months of PPD she suffered brought on by our second daughters reflux probem. A problem that was eventually fixed by surgery as she was born with a hiatus hernia. Mix into that the normal financial problems of running a house, a daughter with ADD, two grandparents with a list of medical problems as long as your arm and I think Tyler has a point. You have a bit more of life to experience yet.
