Sexism

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  1. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    i am trying to explane to my sons that sexism isnt the right way to go about life.

    example, if i do somthing wrong on the computer, its becuase i am female, if i do somthing wrong with the shopping because i am female, if i make an honest mistake i'm female, if i can't lift somthing because i am female, has anyone else here knwo what i can say, or has anyone else here been through this with they're children?

    my son says, women are for:

    cooking
    cleaning
    sex
    kissing
    washing clothes
    making beds
    having babies

    you know the jobs that men find boring and uninteresting
     
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  3. francois Schwat? Registered Senior Member

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    How hold is your son and who gave him these ideas? The Simms? Grand Theft Auto?
     
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  5. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Tell him you're going to withold his allowance and see what he says then.

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    You gave him birth a man can't do that. You provide for his well being and a place to eat and sleep for nothing don't you, so what is his problem? Put him outside of the house for a week or two and see what he says then.
     
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  7. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    he is not allowed to play GTA, he got these ideas from the other kids at his school
     
  8. Wisdom_Seeker Speaker of my truth Valued Senior Member

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    The bests chefs in the world are male, and this case is just an example on how tradicionalism survives insipite of intelligence.
    What you should teach your son is that women and men cannot be compared; men are more rational, women are more intuitive, men are stronger physically, women are stronger emotionally. We just cannot be compared, and men has worked hard for centuries on his supremacy based entirely on his physical strength (probably because he felt inferior in other areas).
    But comparing the 2 genres is just stupid, we are complementary. That is all, we are the duality of life come into life, ying/yang, venus and mars. It cannot be made a race and comparison is just for ignorants.
     
  9. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    how old is you rson LA

    has he had a girlfirend yet?
     
  10. Pandaemoni Valued Senior Member

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    It's probably a phase. Tell him that he's wrong and that people who believe such things generally make things difficult on themselves, because they'll find they have female bosses and co-workers to whom they can't relate and they can't get promotions because no one wants those sorts of attitudes in a manager.

    "You don't want to be stuck flipping burgers your whole life, do you Billy?"
     
  11. Zephyr Humans are ONE Registered Senior Member

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    Marie Curie.
     
  12. Oli Heute der Enteteich... Registered Senior Member

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    Microwave oven & ready meals.

    Well duh!

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    Kissing?
    Is he a girly?

    Clothes need washing?

    Beds need making?
    I'm back in mine within 18 hours, what's the point?

    To be avoided!
    They grow up into... people.
     
  13. spuriousmonkey Banned Banned

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    these jobs are boring???

    Well, I guess the lustre of sex goes away if you are a prostitute or something, but hobby wise these 'jobs' are not too boring or uninteresting.
     
  14. shichimenshyo Caught in the machine Registered Senior Member

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    I told my mom one time that women were for making dinner....then I got slapped, the next day I had to Mmw the lawn and weed the backyard, and move a big ass pile of dirt, when I asked my mom why she told me that yard work is a mans job.
     
  15. spuriousmonkey Banned Banned

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    he he...

    but she kind of reinforced the stereotypes didn't she? Kind of a risky lesson.
     
  16. shichimenshyo Caught in the machine Registered Senior Member

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    It worked though
     
  17. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    15 and he has had a few girlfriends but nothing for long
     
  18. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    My daughters favorite shirts are sexist ones. most from here. She even has a mousepad that says "boys are stupid, throw rocks at them" As a female, I find it funny, as a mother of a son, I find it to be an appalling double standard.
    Its a fine line between empowerment and sexism and I find myself failing.

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  19. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Well, why don't you make it a point to act just like a man for him ....see just how well he really likes the man's world.

    Baron Max
     
  20. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    ??I wouldn't have the first clue on how to act like a man for him.
    He does chores, but there are no male/female chores. They are just chores and if you live here, you do them.
     
  21. spuriousmonkey Banned Banned

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    Drink beer and sit on the couch.
     
  22. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah act like a man.........

    let everyone say something about 3-4 times, before you answer with "what did you say"?

    wait to be served your dinner

    sit and watch Tv or play video games all night

    in general just don't do anything, and then say "well you didn't tell me to do that"

    say alot of things like........" I didn't know" "shhhhhhhh I am watching something" " here we go again" " do you have to do that right now"?
    " I could use a snack" " Oh come on give me a thrill"

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  23. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    No, if you're a man, you don't just do chores ...you have to be forced or coerced into it ...well, unless you're a wimpy, feminized male, that is!

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    I lived with a cute litte, sexy woman for a while ....and she used to go about cleaning the house, dusting, doing the laundry, ....she was just a cute little busy bee all the time.
    She once asked me, "Why do I have to do all the work around here?"
    I said, "You don't."
    "But ....but if I didn't do it, it'd never get done!"
    I smiled and said, "Yeah, that's about right. Wanna' go fuck?"

    She moved out a couple of weeks after that. I really missed watching her cute little body working around here ...gave me a hardon!

    Baron Max
     

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