Should I seek a girlfriend or just wait and let it happen (if it can)? PS I chose Seek A Girlfriend because my experience has been sitting around waiting will accomplish nothing, all it can do is make you less likely to find one.
I couldn't vote 'cause there ain't no selection for "Leave 'em alone! Women ain't nothin' but problems for men!" So see ....I can't vote! Baron Max
My father-in-law puts it nicely. We are like fish in a pond. Then we have a fisher. Who's the fish and who's fishing? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Ok, YOU are the fish. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! So all you can really do is wait to get caught. Of course, you can help them choose you. You don't need to be a little ugly fish. If you are a marlin, you will attract better fishers... ... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! It does work that way though. They are in control. I'm sure you would go out and get laid with pretty much any of them. But they wouldn't, and that's why they have the power. You just gotta be smooth and not bug them- that is, don't be too clingy.
If you don't seek, you'll never find. If you haven't been found yet, there's not question that you have to be proactive and seek it out.
You should seek Smith & Wesson, give it a bit of oral attention, then flick it's "clitrigger" - at which point everything will improve 101% Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Unless you want to start a gay hippy camp with me, sderenzi? We can play rape games in our private woodland.
You don't go out "looking for a girlfriend." You make friends with women, you date them, somewhere along the way one of those relationships will turn out special and you'll have a girlfriend. Go out with a woman because you are fairly confident that you'll enjoy each other's company. That way no matter what happens or doesn't happen at least you'll have a good time to remember. Go out with a woman because you'd like to have some fun with her, not because you've calculated that she might be willing to be your girlfriend. If it happens, it happens. But if you get all compulsive and anxious about it, it is much less likely to happen. In fact the girls will see it from a mile off and avoid you because from their perspective it will appear decidedly creepy.
This is what I told my brother-in-law... Make friends with women, but don't get involved. After a while, it's a good idea to ask out someone that you enjoy. Then, IF she says yes, you can start getting emotionally involved. If you get involved before, it might make you more clingy and scare her away, or she might say no and then you won't feel great at all... Meanwhile, there are always whores, weed and booze..... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! :m:
Yeah, and then shortly thereafter, you'll find out why the divorce rates are so fuckin' high!! ...LOL! Baron Max
Och... the bleedin' jigs up, then... "compulsive and anxious" are his good qualities...! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Just think of it this way, sderenzi: If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten. Now, obviously you haven't been getting what you want. So do something different.
That's pretty insightful mr. dragon considering some of the weird things ya'va said on here LOL Oh hey, this poll was supposed to help me figure out what to do, instead it's looking like it's 1/2 & 1/2 WTF Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I've noticed lately alot of my polls end up being 50%50%, I'm thinking maybe they're not as useful as I once thought..