Depends how you define date and how involved with the kids you are. If it's just sex and I never saw the kids. Oh yes. Move to another state. Forget Carmen.
I didn't mention her, grrr Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I was just wondering what everyone else would do LOL grr but the idea was there somewhere as well hehe
Really. You're fucking obsessed. Get help. Find a nice girl without any strings. Start doing things to build your confidence. Drive somewhere 5 miles away from your house, walk into a supermarket/cafe/whatever, find a girl you like the look of. Assess the situation. Is she wearing nice shoes? Do you have knowledge of whatever she's picked up/is reading/is doing? Say hi. Compliment her on whatever it is. Introduce yourself. If they spray you with mace, call the police or scream "Pervert!!", I'll be surprised. Most likely, they'll smile, say thanks and then keep talking to you. And when you ask them to go for a coffee or swap numbers, if they want to they'll say yes, otherwise they'll say no. That's just how simple it is.
Dude...just go to match.com and relieve of us these nonsensical polls. Making polls will not get you a woman. You're thinking too much about this.
Yes. Assuming I could slaughter the children ofcourse. Otherwise absolutely not, I'd rather die. I'd rather litterally stab myself in the heart and leave this earth with some semblance of dignity.
Why not? The person that you are dating is still the same person with or without kids. Maybe you'll even like the kids better than the person you are dating - an added bonus! Depends on what you are after I guess.
I've noticed a trend on most of the forums I visit: a good bit of them have at least one major problem. Be it Internet addiction, cannot get laid, alcoholism, depression, etc.. Most of them are either in denial or they just do not acknowledge it. However, when they do come to grips with it and spill their guts, it goes from everyone else saying "I feel bad for you" to "STFU kid."
Welcome to the club! Stay with it and you'll start to notice other psyhosocial cycles! Pretty interesting, aye?