I get so scared when not in the vicinity of my boyfriend. I mean, I hear noises in my closet, I feel edgy, annoyed at spiritual disturbances. Is this in my mind, the world, or what???? do I have a chemical dependency on my lover in order to not be schizoid?
Welcome Susan, Perhaps you have an addictive personality, and you latch on to whatever is predominant in your life. Have you tried counseling? Not to get too personal, but is he abusive?
Man, and I thought my last girlfriend was clingy -- she always wanted to be around when I had sex... - Warren
oh no, he is not abusive, but my last boyfriend was abusive and I think that is what caused the paranoia/hearing ghosts and whatnot like, if people scare you in 'real life' then it continues into your mental space. so, anyway, i guess I will just tell current boyfriend about this and see what we should do........
Dear, if you hear voices in your head and are paranoid constantly, you really should consider going to a psychiatrist. Sciforums is a bunch of friendly and often funny people, but we can't help you with a serious disorder. - Warren
well psychatrists are nuts; I don't trust them. I go to a therapist. he's awesome. I'm just posting here to see if anyone else has this element in their significant relationship(s) if the answer is 'no' then I know I'm special and can feel that MY LOVE IS SO POWERFUL IT MAKES ME FREAK OUT!!! if the answer is 'yes' then I would like to bond with you all over the fact. whoever you are, come out of the woodwork= who is so needy they turn schizoid when deprived of loved one???
oh oh i have the exact thing that you describe i am so glad to meet you i have been feeling so alone how can we bond all over? shall we start by taking our clothes off? do you feel my love? i feel i have known you forever
I'm pretty shure: that its probably just some chemical imbalance, playing you. Don't worry, are you still with him? do you mis him? did you like him, do you still like him now? Greetz fukushi ps: and welcome Susan,...Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
hey! come on now dude, you don't mean what you say: My girlfriend said this to me!Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! and: there just might be an metaphisical explanation for this!?Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Keep the options open at all times manPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
okay dokey we've got one listener, maybe two out there in sci form land..... hellooo people! and props to that slimy ludacrist who loves me 'forever' or whatever. i love lines. I live by them. thank you. okay, moving on. yes, let us, those who are actually interested, search for the metaphysical explanation aforementioned. those who aren't interested, please leave. your donkey row comments are really stinking up the place! thanks, susan
i am hurt and slighted is this what i can expect when i try to reach out and touch someone that suffers from the same malaise as i? please make it stop!! i never intended to diss you ....... hush! cant you see i am busy!! ...sorry about that! they never leave me alone. so can we make a fresh start?i still wanna bond? go away!! sorry not you susan! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
yo spookz what is your deal? I am totally confused. please simplify yourself before I vomit cows. susan
oh oh, I see. you have not 'meant' to be 'mean.' I understand. bonding is still an option if you are willing to take a genuine analytical approach to my problem here.
Re: yo spookz I'm hoping he won't simplify himself, since I'd personally get a kick out of seeing someone vomit a cow. - Warren
susan I can't help (and nobody can) if you don't explain your troubles, maby start by elaborating a bit, or else this topic wil get hilarious quiet quickly I guess,... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Greetz fukushi
You forgot "I love you" Oh, "Of course it isn't only physical. I deeply respect you as a human being" (w/apologies to Peter Sellars) Yeah, I'm onto y'all. Mwahahahaa! Oh yeah, Susan, maybe the Cenobites are after you and he's pure of heart so he scares them away. And I thought I got needy.
cow okay, don't worry, I'll vomit cows regardless. now, to the thing- ummmmm I hate psychology for the most part. I want to hear about the supernatural elements haunting me. what are the cenobites???? can I talk to them? no, really, i just have an overactive imagination and when I hear a noise "I SEE DEAD PEOPLE." heh heh heh, not really, just sort of. yeah, so we can interpret this any way we want. who has the most fun interpretation?
