have you ever wanted to sleep with another guy (not husband) and faked marital difficulties to get him? I get alot of women telling me they are having probs with their guy,i know there is some that is true, and in the past they had used that as an excuse to sleep with me..i'm just wondering how much of that is a show to get sympathy from the guy.. (i don't do that anymore..married women are hands off now)
well, I'm a married female... with other people, yes... No Sucker. Sympathy's ok, but tell them it's hands off until the divorce. Sympathy????:bugeye: I think they want:shake: I woud find this the ethically best practice, also good from a not getting shot at standpoint. I guess you could think of it as a weird backhanded compliment though, NMS...women are willing to lie and risk their marriages to get in your pants. I know guys do the "My wife just doesn't understand me! We're going to get a divorce!" bit, when the truth is they just want a ride on the side. I guess women are no better, then. Meh, no surprise.
my last girlfriend was bi..made for some fun times.. yea..i had difficulty finding the right word.. these days i am asexual or intersexual..(internet..Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!) suppose its my age that makes sex less of a priority.. so men have taught the women eh?
(Hmm...I may start another thread later asking older people about why they hung up their spurs.) (I started taking DHEA...feeling...friskier. The acne is kind of annoying tho.)
Wow! I thought they wanted a friend to lean on, a shoulder to cry on, but what they really want is the “D”, eh? Thanks for the tip! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Well men and women usually cheat for different reasons. With men it is due to insecurity, which i really think is at the heart of it.
Dude...I thought it was just the testosterone. Much more motivating than estrogen in the sexdrive department. Why women tend to get more motivated in their 30's/40's as the estrogen no longer competes with the test their body has been producing all along... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Which gives me a little trepidation about getting on a low dose of testosterone...probably not enough to stop me though.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
No just insecurity providing they already have an active sex life with their partner. the desire to be desirable...do i still "have it" theses are mental issues.
Hmm...interesting. It took my mom 20 years to figure out my dad was a man-slut and kick him to the curb. The man's about as insecure a person as you'd ever not care to meet.
Let those without insecurities cast the first stone. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! “Contrary to popular belief, women seek autonomy and men seek intimacy.” Wiki-Types of Infidelity
Yeah, but insecurity could be one issue for anyone inclined to cheat... Could be they are sex addicts/compulsively sexual in some cases: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_addiction Or it could be a way of avoiding commitment? http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/09/080908185238.htm Oh CRAP! I have attachment issues... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_in_adults (Oh well...I have more issues than TIME magazine...:bugeyePlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I imagine most people will have wanted to, but it comes down to whether or not they would. Most people are sluts. :shrug:
Just like if you're on a weight-loss diet you do not go buy a gallon of ice cream... If your marriage is in a rough patch you make sure to keep it professional with the hottie at the office... Or avoid getting smashed at a bar with someone who has a spark for you. That's moral control. You might succumb if you stick around, so you go away. Aren't you married? Did you magically stop finding other people attractive or something?
God no, I'm not blind. But that doesn't mean I have a desire to sleep with someone when I'm taken. I know it's wrong, and because of that I have no problem talking to those people without acting on it. You can't always remove yourself from temptation, but what you can do is refuse it.
