why? focus? on what? the matter at hand by way of a visual? there seems to be more eyes shut while singing than just simple speech on a related note.. do you fuck/kiss with eyes closed?
To vocalize (sing or talk) with eyes shut is an obvert sign of reversion to something pre-rehearsed in one's mind- to "make a point of saying or dictating it purely from the mind". People kiss with their eyes shut because of the homonucleus: the tactile experience of kissing is more rewarding than the vision of the cloesup of someone's eyeball.
One of the exercises we were asked to do in our "*** ** ******" [signed no disclosure agreement] class is to stare into another persons eyes, nose to nose for 15 minutes. It was incredibly stressful and felt more intimate than sex. Closing eyes is an attempt to shut out others, to focus inwardly, to set aside distractions, its a hedonistic act and a cerebral one. When you close your eyes, the sound of your own breathing and talking seems louder, smell and touch become more pronounced and your brain looks inward at what you are thinking and feeling. Depends on who it is. Its extremely intrusive to kiss with eyes open. You can see the changes in the other persons eyes - the dilation of their pupils - its incredibly hard to be casual and distant when you are looking into the eyes of the person you are kissing/fucking. Most people are not comfortable with being looked at to that degree.
i wanted to be charitable (they look like retarded zombies) by allowing the shuttered eyes to indicate a vocalization of a stream of consciousness but it is most likely and most often, the scenario you outline above...the human in a playback/rote mode i suppose... a distraction constitutes what? some humans as an audience? the very people you address? a tv? murder and mayhem? i am of the half lidded variety Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Same as Madant. Heck, eyes should be open during sex. That way you can spot any punctures before they get too big.
Can one draw the conclusion you do not kiss while you are fucking? Or is that where the mostly comes in?
Very mysterious. Must be a joke. First thought....blow up woman. Second thought, the condom. For the latter one would have to have OCD to keep pulling out and checking. For the former, alright, it's 'just a doll', but one can still show a little tenderness. Regular puncturing is really poor practice if one hopes to move on to real females.