ok, im a guy, now lets say you didnt know me (which you dont), but you knew of me, as in you had seen me around a lot and knew i wasn't a weirdo/psycho/dangerous etc, disregarding looks and all if i asked you out would you:

a) not even think about it
b) be scared and back away
c) think i was stupid for considering it becuase you would not date someone you had never really met.
d) give me a try
or any other option, just post please.

Good luck.
I was at the bookstore yesterday.
I saw this cute girl that worked there.
I went up to her and told her she was cute.
She seemed to be in a hurry so I never got the chance to ask her out.
Maybe next time, I'll ask her.


I think that the answer to your question is that you'll never really know until you ask.
I'm sure a girl would give you a try if you seemed ok, and she wasn't paranoid.
I don't think a girl would think you were stupid for considering it even though you never met before.

Depends on the girl really. Some are not too keen on dating a stranger and some welcome the oppertunity.

Hey God...

I can only speak from my experiences(obviously i am not a female but it is a male perspective that will not confuse you)and what I learned is that getting to know someone first THEN asking them out is a much better approach. Besides, wouldn't you want to qualify people first rather than going out on a date with them only to find out later they are a freakshow?

I have found that approaching a woman with the sincere intent of getting to know them first is received much better. Then, depending on whether or not you feel chemistry, you ask them on a date...

The best line I have ever used is; Hi!

Of course the intent is to get to know her better.
Because ultimately, it leads to sex.

From my experience, approaching a girl that is a perfect stranger works just fine.
Eventually you get to know her by talking to her, and going on dates.
But you do have a point.
Most girls want to see you or talk to you a few times before they give you their number or go out with you.
It’s really best to find out where she spends her time so you can visit her once in awhile.
Then talk to her, and ask her out until she is ready.

Who knows, she might end up thinking that you’re some type of gorgeous guy.
As if there was such an animal.
Let’s face it.
Females are beautiful gorgeous beings.
Males are somewhat the opposite.
If I was a woman I’d definitly be a lesbian.

Hi
Here. in my homeland there is a song which says " the Iranian woman is unique/ she is beautiful and lovely...But I advise you never marry an Iranian girl. They are not good to be married to.
I am married to one of them, 14 years. They are awfull. God bless me and All who have a hen-pecking woman. thanks:(

Does he have money?
If yes, take him up on the date. Drug him and get his credit card and bank account info. Then sell his internal organs.

*cough*More reasurance needed*cough*

Originally posted by Morteza Olangui
Hi
Here. in my homeland there is a song which says " the Iranian woman is unique/ she is beautiful and lovely...But I advise you never marry an Iranian girl. They are not good to be married to.
I am married to one of them, 14 years. They are awfull. God bless me and All who have a hen-pecking woman. thanks:(

That's too bad Morteza. My wife is great. Hehe, I had a friend who is Mexican and swore he would never marry a Mexican girl because they are all potential Loreena Bobbitts. He didn't marry one either. He actually told his mom that, pretty funny.

Just ask hre and see. It depends on her personality, but since it seems like you don't know eachother that well, if it doesn't wirk out, it won't out a dent in your social status. Give it a try, maybe she sees you and you are both thinking the same things

Originally posted by god-of-course
ok, im a guy, now lets say you didnt know me (which you dont), but you knew of me, as in you had seen me around a lot and knew i wasn't a weirdo/psycho/dangerous etc, disregarding looks and all if i asked you out would you:

a) not even think about it
b) be scared and back away
c) think i was stupid for considering it becuase you would not date someone you had never really met.
d) give me a try
or any other option, just post please.

I'm a girl, but I'm already married, but if I was not married, I would be more likely to go out with a guy that I don't really know, but remotely know as an acquantaince at work or school because.

- I really never had any luck with guys that I knew well, it ruins the friendship and so many important bridges has already been crossed between friends and that undermines the relationship from the start.

- I like to date people that share my same environment, that makes me feel safe. For example, somebody that works in a firm in my same buidling, or another that work in a different department, or a student in my same university. I don't like to date a guy who just happen to be buying something from me or eating in the restaurant that I work in. Those guys have more chance of being phsycos.

Xev:
Does he have money? If yes, take him up on the date. Drug him and get his credit card and bank account info. Then sell his internal organs.

No, no, no, no- first you sex him til his gums bleed, then fuck his mind up with philosophy, kill all his pets and then you can take all his credit cards and sell off his kidneys.

Unless of course he's hung like a horse in which case you'll just have to keep him around for the giggles.

Flores:
I like to date people that share my same environment, that makes me feel safe. For example, somebody that works in a firm in my same buidling, or another that work in a different department, or a student in my same university. I don't like to date a guy who just happen to be buying something from me or eating in the restaurant that I work in. Those guys have more chance of being phsycos.
You're like....so boring.

God of course:
ok, im a guy, now lets say you didnt know me (which you dont), but you knew of me, as in you had seen me around a lot and knew i wasn't a weirdo/psycho/dangerous etc, disregarding looks and all if i asked you out would you:

Disregarding looks my ass. You'd have to be a bronzed god for me to slutt myself and not know you. Only knowing that you're not schizoid has no pull.

Nice try.

Originally posted by gendanken
God of course:

Disregarding looks my ass. You'd have to be a bronzed god for me to slutt myself and not know you. Only knowing that you're not schizoid has no pull.

Nice try.

Well, the thing is every friend she has is besotted with me, only she isnt, and i am sort of a god atleast this is the level i have been elevated to by everyone around me.

Sarge:
Depends on the girl really

Yes it does. And its directly proportional to stupidity.

Well, the thing is every friend she has is besotted with me, only she isnt, and i am sort of a god atleast this is the level i have been elevated to by everyone around me.
Assuming of course that everyone around you doesn't know this god has clay feet.

I'm wondering what kind of mangod would be posting about his insecurities over girlies. That's so ~godly~.

Apollo was known to write to Cosmo with his relationship questions, wasn't he?

Xev:
Apollo was known to write to Cosmo with his relationship questions, wasn't he?
Nope. Those were viscious rumors, see. He'd originally consorted with Lovecraft believing the author to be a love shrink, got fucked with horrible tales of Chutluh's cosmic madness and ended up taking his godly insecurities to Dear Abby.

And now there's a god plaguing Sciforums. Ha.

Seriously though, would you go out with a whino just because he wasn't a psycho?

Wait, this isnt fair.

Let me put things straight, it's just that a couple of years back someone who meant a lot to me passed away, I never got to put things right and i never got to tell them how i really felt, this hit me kinda hard. What I meant about the god thing is that everyone asusmes i am a really great person, lots of poeple sort of idolise me but yes i am insecure because inside i cant help feeling like the worst person in the world. I really love this girl she reminds me of something/someone and when im near her its a familiar feeling.

PS this has been the worst day ever because i found out she is in a long term relationship anyway.

well that sux.

im no girl. but i am a guy, wich i suppose is the next best thing right?
id never go out with a girl just because shes "not a sycho". infact thats a damn good reson not too.
sycho girls are the best. especialy when they get mad at you.