Flipping through the scandal rags recently I came across two stories which convinced me that perhaps the sexual revolution was all for naught!

The sexual revolution was supposed to persuade us humans that nudity and sexuality are not inherently evil or even objectionable. Most people nevertheless still have the same embarrassments theyve always had...or at least since the days of ancient Greece.

I wonder though if people are simply embarrassed of a perceived ugliness...rather than nudity itself.

A famous movie star recently threatened her cinematographer that if he didnt make her "arse" look splendid on film...he would never work again in hollywood!

Pretty boy Brad Pitt recently announced that he would no longer do nude scenes, because he would be im-bare-assed if his kids ever saw it!

So, let me ask...would you suddenly hate your parents if you happened to see them naked???

Hell no. Been there done that. The sexual position was far more upsetting.

The sexual position was far more upsetting.
Say what...? :confused:

Nope. I've probably seen uglier people naked before. No, I'm quite sure I've see uglier people naked before.

Been there done that, nope no hate.

Carcano? Have you never seen your parents naked?

Carcano? Have you never seen your parents naked?
No. Now what was all that about sexual positions...huh?

I walked in on my parents....in the middle of the day....as a teenager.

I walked in on my parents....in the middle of the day....as a teenager.
Ah...but "upsetting" how exactly?

This is a serious question with a scientific objective...please contribute. :)

I walked in on my parents....in the middle of the day....as a teenager.

Heh they must have been mortified.:D

Ah...but "disturbing" how exactly?

This is a serious question with a scientific objective...please contribute. :)

Yeah right!:rolleyes:

Yeah right!:rolleyes:
No really...I promise to make an objective point here!

No, I wouldn't WANT to, but it's natural. It's natural to want to have sex, it's in human nature. But what is being hardwired into human nature recently is the instant disgust and ridicule of nudity or sex of two people before full marriage. I agree with the need for movement away from the shamefullness of nudity. Of course, it's not okay to walk around naked, that is shameful. But nudity shouldn't be looked down upon with disgust. We're all human.

Heh they must have been mortified.:D...

My mom was super embarrassed. My Dad avoided all eye contact for quite some time.
I still remember the bedspread, time of day, what I was wearing, what I was in there for....burned into my brain!

....Of course, it's not okay to walk around naked, that is shameful. .....

oh no. :rolleyes: I don't wanna go through all this again.

Of course, it's not okay to walk around naked, that is shameful. But nudity shouldn't be looked down upon with disgust.
Ok, but where does the shame come from then...if not from disgust???

as long as their is religion people will fear the naked body

My mom was super embarrassed. My Dad avoided all eye contact for quite some time.
If they hadnt been embarrassed...would you still find it upsetting???

So, let me ask...would you suddenly hate your parents if you happened to see them naked???

Nudity not soo much, but if i saw my mum going at it, that would deeply upset me. My mum just is soo innocent and sweet, i can't (refuse) get why head around it.

Nudity not soo much, but if i saw my mum going at it, that would deeply upset me. My mum just is soo innocent and sweet...
Right...so you believe that sexuality is contrary to innocence.

That it is evil...in some way, no?

Nudity not soo much, but if i saw my mum going at it, that would deeply upset me. My mum just is soo innocent and sweet, i can't (refuse) get why head around it.

Yeah, try and imagine catching both your parents having oral sex. :bawl:

If they hadnt been embarrassed...would you still find it upsetting???

YES!!!!

Yeah, try and imagine catching both your parents having oral sex. :bawl:
Is oral sex more evil than intercourse???

If they were just haveing regular intercourse I probably only would have seen my Mom's boobs. No biggie
But....what I saw....

YES!!!!
So your reaction was not simply an extension of their own attitudes toward sexuality.

Where then, does it come from???

Right...so you believe that sexuality is contrary to innocence.

That it is evil...in some way, no?


Personally no, but i just don't see my mum as a sexual being. My relationship with her doesn't help me to accept that she may have sexual feelings and desires.

It would be interesting to do a survey of teenagers to find out if boys are more disturbed by seeing their parents naked than girls...or vice versa.

As far as I know these questions were never explored by Kinsey. :D

Considering dad is 84...I wouldn't hate him...but I'd have to pluck out my eyes. :)

It would be interesting to do a survey of teenagers to find out if boys are more disturbed by seeing their parents naked than girls...or vice versa.

As far as I know these questions were never explored by Kinsey. :D

It wasn't the NAKED part, it was the SEX part. Does anyone ever wanna see their dad's willy in their Mom's mouth?! Its bad enough to think my Dad forced her to do that (Mom's don't volunteer).

Does anyone ever wanna see their dad's willy in their Mom's mouth?!

That would be a RESOUNDING NO!!!!!!! You got to be one sick fuck to want to see that. :)

Is oral sex more evil than intercourse???

Yes. Mom's have intercourse as many times as you have siblings +1. Oral sex serves no purpose for Moms.
Now quit questioning my delusions!!:mad:

Remind me never to date Moms...

No.

Ok, but where does the shame come from then...if not from disgust???

Notions of vulnerability.

Being naked tends to make people vulnerable, physically and psychologically.
If someone sees you naked, they will more likely be aroused to attack you. And you probably know this.
Your body is more vulnerable when naked.

Shame can be a mechanism to protect oneself.


(Have they ever done IQ tests where the participants had to undress themselves before taking it?)

(Have they ever done IQ tests where the participants had to undress themselves before taking it?)
Excellent idea, where do I sign up...as administrator?:p

Seriously, I have heard of IQ tests in which the subjects were shamed and insulted before the test, and the scores went down significantly!

You may be on to something.

Now quit questioning my delusions!!:mad:
Ok, how about if the shoe was on the other foot?

Is oral sex still evil when YOU yourself...are the hapless victim???

(Mom's don't volunteer).
Moms are not women...apparently???

Your body is more vulnerable when naked.

Shame can be a mechanism to protect oneself.

Depends what youre wearing I suppose. If youre bundled up for winter, all those layers might imped your movement.

The ancient Celts used to hurl themselves into battle with only sword and shield...in their birthday suit!

Ok, how about if the shoe was on the other foot?

Is oral sex still evil when YOU yourself...are the hapless victim???

No, not to me. But I'm sure it is to my children.