View Full Version : Would You Have Sex With Someone Underage?


sderenzi
08-15-06, 12:50 AM
If you could have intercourse with a girl that was 16 but sexy an hot, say looked 21 would you? What if she was begging you for it?

Notice: This is strictly a theoretical question designed to determine peoples general beliefs.

vslayer
08-15-06, 01:45 AM
if she was 16 then it would be legal.

patty-rick
08-15-06, 03:16 AM
16 is the legal age of consent in Australia no idea what it is where you are.

Theoryofrelativity
08-15-06, 03:19 AM
16 is legal age in UK

perplexity
08-15-06, 03:20 AM
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thedevilsreject
08-15-06, 08:54 AM
ill bang a 16 year old, especially sice im 16 as well

Satyr
08-15-06, 09:15 AM
I already have.

Fraggle Rocker
08-15-06, 09:16 AM
In most U.S. jurisdictions--if not all--the age of consent is 18. Eighteen-year-old boys get busted for statutory rape with their 17.9-year-old girlfriends all the time, when the girl's parents get bitchy and press charges.

One never knows how one will react to a hypothetical situation loaded with emotions and hormones until it ceases to be hypothetical. But I don't believe I would be sanguine about consorting with a girl young enough to be my granddaughter--even a 21-year-old. It conflicts with both our instinct and the rational demand by our society to nurture the young.

RubiksMaster
08-15-06, 01:29 PM
In the US, the age of consent is regulated at the state level.

I've seen some 14 year olds that were more mature and developed than most 16 year olds. In that case, I would bang her. Otherwise I'd say 16 and above.

G. F. Schleebenhorst
08-15-06, 01:32 PM
Are you sure, I don't think it would be man. Anything 18 an under is illegal. If it's not I'll bang all 16 year olds forever! That is whenever I get laid!

Yeah because american laws apply to the ENTIRE WORLD.

G. F. Schleebenhorst
08-15-06, 01:33 PM
A 13 year old sucked my dick when I was 16....I thought she was like 15 though.

Hapsburg
08-15-06, 03:49 PM
Considering that I'm 16, yes.

slotty
08-16-06, 03:18 PM
A suvey result i read in the Times newspaper asked men if they would scew a 15 year old girl knowing that nobody would know , no comebacks etc, would they? Guess the %
















93.5% would !

Absane
08-16-06, 05:37 PM
A suvey result i read in the Times newspaper asked men if they would scew a 15 year old girl knowing that nobody would know , no comebacks etc, would they? 93.5% would !

Given that she consented and no one would ever know or could know.. I would, too.

superluminal
08-16-06, 07:32 PM
You betcha.

Jaster Mereel
08-16-06, 09:46 PM
Oh, definitely.

Hopefully my girlfriend doesn't read this. (She's older than me by one year. Almost to the day, in fact. Her birthday is 04/14 and mine is 04/18.)

Jaster Mereel
08-16-06, 09:48 PM
In most U.S. jurisdictions--if not all--the age of consent is 18. Eighteen-year-old boys get busted for statutory rape with their 17.9-year-old girlfriends all the time, when the girl's parents get bitchy and press charges.

One never knows how one will react to a hypothetical situation loaded with emotions and hormones until it ceases to be hypothetical. But I don't believe I would be sanguine about consorting with a girl young enough to be my granddaughter--even a 21-year-old. It conflicts with both our instinct and the rational demand by our society to nurture the young.

I heard somewhere that the vast majority of cases where the two individuals are 3 years apart or less are not pursued by prosecutors. It could be wrong, though. I've never seen any statistics, but it seems to me that it wouldn't be something that the state would concern themselves with very often, if the age gap were so low.

riku_124
08-17-06, 02:04 AM
givin the fact im 15, id say i would :)

perplexity
08-17-06, 02:14 AM
I heard somewhere that the vast majority of cases where the two individuals are 3 years apart or less are not pursued by prosecutors. It could be wrong, though. I've never seen any statistics, but it seems to me that it wouldn't be something that the state would concern themselves with very often, if the age gap were so low.

That sounds like they don't care. Prosecutions would not be pursued because of the low statistical chance of proving the case. Being concerned is another matter. One should rather hope that a concerned parent would not be left with that impression.

--- Ron.

imaplanck.
08-17-06, 07:54 AM
Jesus what 14 year old is going to want to have sex with you? Basically its cohersion or sweeties at the end of the day yeah?

Chris_Smith
08-25-06, 09:39 AM
If you could have intercourse with a girl that was 16 but sexy an hot, say looked 21 would you? What if she was begging you for it?

Notice: This is strictly a theoretical question designed to determine peoples general beliefs.

The age you've given is legal in the UK. However, when searching what is ethically right to this potential predicament (penis penetration), I'd still have to say no. If she was 15 years old - No I wouldn't, although foreplay, is that ethically wrong too?

phonetic
08-26-06, 01:35 AM
Have sex with a 15 year old? Personally, I wouldn't. That's totally perverted and illegal. The thought totally disgusts me.

A good friend I know would though. 14 is pushing the boat out, a little too far. 15, he says, is old enough. This same friend was 18 and tried to pull a 13 year old at a party, though. He got quite a lot of fun made of him for that. Although he'd barely turned 18 and she was going to be 14 in a matter of days. She was a fine 13 year old, though. So my friend says anyway.

What a rotten pervert, though. I'm glad that's not me :)

Descrasnezul
08-27-06, 03:05 AM
For me it would depend on her personality, that is, her mental capacity. If the underage were mature enough I would (as long as they are no younger than 15, thats my personal limit). I am 19 so I guess that plays a part in it too. 2 years from now I would probably say no but for now it seems ok.

thedevilsreject
08-27-06, 09:45 AM
i went to 3rd base with a 14 year old but i was only 16 so i didnt see that it was too much of a problem

Chris_Smith
08-30-06, 12:59 PM
Have sex with a 15 year old? Personally, I wouldn't. That's totally perverted and illegal. The thought totally disgusts me.

A good friend I know would though. 14 is pushing the boat out, a little too far. 15, he says, is old enough. This same friend was 18 and tried to pull a 13 year old at a party, though. He got quite a lot of fun made of him for that. Although he'd barely turned 18 and she was going to be 14 in a matter of days. She was a fine 13 year old, though. So my friend says anyway.

What a rotten pervert, though. I'm glad that's not me :)

In this world language creates reality, and although by law it's illegal, and ethically we have have to abide by this - if we were on a desert island though, would our conditioning slowly disperse to reveal what is emotionally accustomed in everyone? Hence, whatever what goes? Which is why I guess to some extent we have different ages of sexual consent in various parts of the globe. None of them are right or wrong - just that it allows a clearer more maturer basis to begin pursuing such sexual instincts in ourselves and others. I think I'm not alone but around the age of early puberty, I remembered having strong sexual urges for the opposite sex even when I was 11-13-14 years of age. It was only understanding the law that allowed me to somewhat condition this area of my life - but what are we really talking about here? We're talking about sexual responsibility - and back then I can honestly say I don't think I would have had any. So regarding underage sex - it's classed as irresponsible of both parts - but it's down to the individuals in the end what they really want. The older we get though - usually the more contemplative we become, so being young maybe exciting but it would have quite fundamental drawbacks if there was no law to sexual consent.

phonetic
08-30-06, 01:32 PM
I don't think it's the sex that's really the problem, it's the consequences. Be they physical (disease, pregnancy) or emotional (personally I don't think that's much of an issue, but I believe that's partly why laws are in place here anyway, UK).

Young people aren't responsible enough to deal with the consequences, should the shit hit the fan. The majority anyway. I know if I'd got a girl pregnant at 14 I wouldn't have a clue what to do.

Another thing is the different maturity levels people the same age can be. I've met a lot of clued up 13/14 year olds, but occasionally you find one that calls her dad "pappy" and plays with her barbies still. I dunno, it's not an easy one.

My friend says this ;) : If I was on a desert island and there was a girl of age (e.g. she had pubes and was curvy in the right places) then I can't think of many good reasons not to get involved, apart from dealing with a baby.. if food, water, medicine, etc was out of reach then.. I think that would be irresponsible. If we had a lot of condoms then hell yeah, let the party begin. Maybe I'm still irresponsible, but sexual encounters are usually a here and now thing to me, I'm not thinking months ahead, even hours ahead.

I agree with all the things you said, Chris.

Xevious
09-09-06, 06:03 PM
Chris and phonetic have by and largely nailed this. When you are young you don't have a clue what you're doing half the time. I think the age of conscent is around though because no legal system can ever be on the footing to know each and every individual intimately enough to decide "it's OK for some, but not for them". If it ever came to that you would be that someone like the ACLU would show up and scream discrimination and demand equal treatment for all parties.

Nope, age of conscent is a necessity of civilization, and I for one would rather spend money at McDonalds than go out hunting.

Xevious
09-09-06, 06:39 PM
BTW - Kinsey was a pedophile.

Zakariya04
09-18-06, 11:28 AM
i went to 3rd base with a 14 year old but i was only 16 so i didnt see that it was too much of a problem
What is that 3rd bass the hiphop group

nicholas1M7
10-30-06, 05:56 PM
If you could have intercourse with a girl that was 16 but sexy an hot, say looked 21 would you? What if she was begging you for it?

Notice: This is strictly a theoretical question designed to determine peoples general beliefs.

Don't you ever hump my leg.

madanthonywayne
10-30-06, 11:22 PM
In most U.S. jurisdictions--if not all--the age of consent is 18. Eighteen-year-old boys get busted for statutory rape with their 17.9-year-old girlfriends all the time, when the girl's parents get bitchy and press charges.

I'm pretty sure that's not true. Many juristictions have sixteen as the age of consent. This was recently discussed in light of the Foley scandle and it was pointed out that the age of consent in Washington DC is sixteen or seventeen.

Genji
10-30-06, 11:22 PM
Don't you ever hump my leg.Pretty Please???;)

nicholas1M7
11-01-06, 10:44 AM
Pretty Please???;)

For you Genji? Ay, do I look like someone for leg humping?

Tyler N.
04-26-07, 09:47 PM
I would. I don't see anything wrong with it either. Even a 15 year old, assuming that she is mature for her age. 14 would be pushing it too far though. If she looked a year or two older, was hot, mature, and begging for it, mabye. In other words, if it was a 17+ year old who happened to be 16,15,14, then yes. Thus it gets less likely as age decreases.

Roman
04-26-07, 09:53 PM
Oh man, I met a totally smoking 16 year old today. She could pass as 22.

Redefine91
04-30-07, 06:39 PM
Girls are looking older and older these days. I'd have no reserves tapping a 16 year old.

darksidZz
05-01-07, 10:09 AM
I'm amazed this post has survived considering the SciForums dictators that now control all aspects of my life :o

darksidZz
05-02-07, 02:47 PM
I’m a girl, and you’re a boy - we’re too old to play with toys
Won’t you tell me what’s your name? You could be my brand new game
You begin and roll the dice, I would smile and break the ice
Tell me how could I resist, when you’re my favorite kiss?

Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy take my hand, and come along with me
Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy love is grand with you, my sugar bee.

See the moon, and see the sun, shining down on everyone
They know how in love we are, I heard them tell it to a star
There’s no mountain, there’s no sea, to keep your love away from me
No matter what the distance is, you’re still my favorite kiss.

Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy take my hand, and come along with me
Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy love is grand with you, my sugar bee

Dah, nah, nah - Tell me what your secret is
Dah, nah, nah – Oh, won’t you let me know?
Dah, nah, nah - Nothing makes me feel like this
Dah, nah, nah - Cause you’re my favorite kiss

Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy take my hand, and come along with me
Kissy kissy makes me happy, honey, honey, sweet as candy
Kissy kissy love is grand with you, my sugar beet (2x)

Dah, nah, nah - Tell me what your secret is
Dah, nah, nah – Oh, won’t you let me know?
Dah, nah, nah - Nothing makes me feel like this
Dah, nah, nah - Cause you’re my favorite kiss.

Absane
05-02-07, 08:46 PM
http://i64.photobucket.com/albums/h197/absane/chrishansenst4.jpg

Genji
05-02-07, 08:48 PM
Girls are looking older and older these days. I'd have no reserves tapping a 16 year old.Same with boys. I would tap some......:o nevermind. :shrug:

Repo Man
05-02-07, 09:24 PM
I really can't imagine the circumstances where I would. Being a normal male, I can't help but find young women with curves attractive. But the mindless personality and horrible taste in music that would almost certainly accompany those gravity defying breasts would be enough to make me come to my senses should some jailbait teen ever come on to me.

But the hysteria that surrounds the issue in this country today is getting out of hand. I'm tired of people ruining the word pedophile by using it on guys trying to get with teenaged girls. Pedophiles are strongly to exclusively attracted to prepubescent children, and for many of them the sex of the child is irrelevant. The guy in his twenties trying to pick up on a stacked fourteen year old girl is basically a normal guy with bad judgement. He may be an idiot, he may deserve to get in trouble, but he isn't a pedophile.

How many of you have seen the movie Thirteen? When I was thirteen, I knew there were girls my age who were sexually active (though sure as hell not with me :( ). I can only imagine how commonplace the behavior depicted in that movie has become.

EmptyForceOfChi
05-10-07, 09:00 PM
If you could have intercourse with a girl that was 16 but sexy an hot, say looked 21 would you? What if she was begging you for it?

Notice: This is strictly a theoretical question designed to determine peoples general beliefs.

the legal age for sex here is 16,


peace.

EmptyForceOfChi
05-10-07, 09:02 PM
nature tells us that women are ready to mate way before the legal age, if a women can bare children she is ready to be pounded, by natural law ofcourse.


peace.

Genji
05-10-07, 09:09 PM
nature tells us that women are ready to mate way before the legal age, if a women can bare children she is ready to be pounded, by natural law ofcourse.


peace.I say the same should go for males; If he has pubic hair and can achieve orgasm he's ready for harvest.

nicholas1M7
05-10-07, 10:04 PM
It's threads like this that make me glad sderenzi is no longer with us.

Oh shit, I forgot he's the one who steals ideas for thread titles and goes by the name of darksidZz.

EmptyForceOfChi
05-11-07, 06:24 AM
I say the same should go for males; If he has pubic hair and can achieve orgasm he's ready for harvest.

if he can ejaculate healthy sperm he is ready for sex, yes thats natures law, man made laws are flawed.

peace.

darksidZz
12-18-07, 04:40 PM
You see everyone general opinions are pleased with my polls :S and they all voted yes!

Till Eulenspiegel
12-18-07, 04:50 PM
I wouldn't have sex with anyone other than my wife no matter what the other person's age or what she looked like. I made a vow to forsake all others and to cleave to my wife and I take that vow very seriously. It wouldn't matter if anyone else would ever know. I would know.

cosmictraveler
12-18-07, 04:54 PM
statutory rape

(law) An act of sexual intercourse by an adult with a minor who is below the age of consent.


(law) The age at which a person is legally considered to be mature enough to engage willingly in sexual intercourse.

Note: The term is used to indicate the age at which it is no longer a crime for someone else to engage in consensual sexual intercourse with the person who is still younger than the age of consent, as they are considered statutorily a victim of a crime, because by law they are considered incapable of giving permission to someone else to engage in sexual intercourse with them.

WIKI

Orleander
12-18-07, 05:10 PM
If I was underage myself, probably. But since I never did even when I was, then I guess not.

Looney
12-18-07, 05:43 PM
Girls are looking older and older these days. I'd have no reserves tapping a 16 year old.

That is very sweet Redefine. And I'd pay to see the look on your face as you look down the barrel of her fathers rifle. Any of you men, (those who are over 18) who say they would have sex with a child, and yes 16 is a child, are nothing disgusting pigs.:mad: Shame on you!

Looney
12-18-07, 05:45 PM
To those who made the comments concerning girls who have pubes and curves being old enough to have sex, are you saying that you would have sex with a nine or ten year old? If that is the case then you are pedophiles.

cosmictraveler
12-18-07, 06:11 PM
To those who made the comments concerning girls who have pubes and curves being old enough to have sex, are you saying that you would have sex with a nine or ten year old? If that is the case then you are pedophiles.


Social attitudes


Social (and the resulting legal) attitudes toward the appropriate age of

consent have drifted upwards in modern times; while ages from 10 through

13 were typically acceptable in the mid-Nineteenth Century,[1] 15 through

to 18 had become the norm in many countries by the end of the twentieth

century.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

Exhumed
12-18-07, 07:16 PM
That is very sweet Redefine. And I'd pay to see the look on your face as you look down the barrel of her fathers rifle. Any of you men, (those who are over 18) who say they would have sex with a child, and yes 16 is a child, are nothing disgusting pigs.:mad: Shame on you!

Way to call 95% of your fellow man disgusting pigs!

Actually, that is accurate.

Though I don't see anything wrong with it if it is college age students and minors. There is mutual attraction there. High school girls go to college parties all the time and mostly prefer college students to their own peers.

Deathfromabove
12-18-07, 07:20 PM
Underage girls are heavily in demand. I guess some men want to be the first man to set their mark down. I don't think that the atrraction is one sided, some underage girls like being pursued by much older men, i did.

Actually one of friends who was 13 at the time starting having a sexual relationship with a 26 year old and they were together for around 5 years

Gustav
12-18-07, 07:49 PM
why yes
yes indeed i would

Exhumed
12-18-07, 08:05 PM
^I'm caught by surprise with that answer :eek:

Gustav
12-18-07, 08:24 PM
dont
it is a standard response to dumb tp questions
it may or may not be true
dumb cos "underage" is a moving target

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 02:29 AM
no i wouldnt, it wouldnt even entre my mind to have sex with a boy under age, and that is all they are, boys and girls.

visceral_instinct
12-19-07, 03:47 AM
I'm underage myself...so yes.

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 04:42 AM
I'm underage myself...so yes.

then your not old enough to have a sexual relaptionship, and living "to fast, to young" can really screw you up for the future

Orleander
12-19-07, 06:15 AM
....Actually one of friends who was 13 at the time starting having a sexual relationship with a 26 year old and they were together for around 5 years

where the hell were the parents??:mad:

Strap_ON
12-19-07, 06:55 AM
Why 16 year old girl?? What about 16 year old boy?? Im not into younger men, youngest I have ever been with was a 18 year old when I was 20.

The first time I had sex I was 15 and it was with a 23 year old - at the time I didnt think anything of it but now I think what he did was very wrong - I was too young to know that my age was an issue my he shuold of known better - dirty perv!

Deathfromabove
12-19-07, 08:36 AM
where the hell were the parents??:mad:

They had no idea and only found out last year when she got pregnant.

Well no offense, but some parents are clueless. Some parents think that the sun shines out their kid's arse and kids with parents like that are most scandalous.

Another friend i had, whilst she was having a slumberparty and her mum was sleeping upstairs, let some older guys climb through her bedroom window. She and his guy were having sex under the covers in front of everyone for the whole night. Her mum still doesn't know anything about it.

Moral of this story: Don't put anything pass your kids and bloody check on them once in a while.

Gustav
12-19-07, 09:38 AM
The first time I had sex I was 15 and it was with a 23 year old - at the time I didnt think anything of it but now I think what he did was very wrong - I was too young to know that my age was an issue my he shuold of known better - dirty perv!

mind blowing
nature in conflict with society

i must resume the indictment

Orleander
12-19-07, 09:52 AM
mind blowing
nature in conflict with society

i must resume the indictment

and its natural to be naked as well. You go first.

cosmictraveler
12-19-07, 09:55 AM
and its natural to be naked as well

In Alaska? :eek: ;)

Orleander
12-19-07, 09:57 AM
what a little shrinkage between friends? :shrug:

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 10:48 AM
we have a lot of hang ups (rightfully so) about underage sex, but not so long ago, girls were to ave children and get married at a really young age, to make sure they and they're children suvive

Orleander
12-19-07, 12:09 PM
Many girls got married at 12-13 and started having babies. I don't even want to know how many of them died in child birth.

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 12:42 PM
Many girls got married at 12-13 and started having babies. I don't even want to know how many of them died in child birth.

no neither do i

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 01:26 PM
then your not old enough to have a sexual relaptionship, and living "to fast, to young" can really screw you up for the future

lol?not old enough as in physically or mentally? because there are a fairly substantial minority of people under this age that are probably better at handling this kinda stuff than those older. the ages governments give are mainly aimed at older men that are forcefully doing stuff to younger people etc"

in terms of maturity they are more of a guidline for parents to judge by - age limit sixteen - sex at 10 (hypothetical) probably too young - age limit 16 sex at 15 - probably not damaging.

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 01:27 PM
lol?not old enough as in physically or mentally? because there are a fairly substantial minority of people under this age that are probably better at handling this kinda stuff than those older. the ages governments give are mainly aimed at older men that are forcefully doing stuff to younger people etc"

in terms of maturity they are more of a guidline for parents to judge by - age limit sixteen - sex at 10 (hypothetical) probably too young - age limit 16 sex at 15 - probably not damaging.

perhaps not for all, but some are damaged by living to fast to young.

what should the age of concent be?

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 01:34 PM
you can concent at any age as long as you are not largley under the "reccomendation and the other one over it"

i think the guideline is fine but i don't think you should assume anyone under this limit is not ready for a sexual relationship.

Reiku
12-19-07, 02:13 PM
I have to admit, non-logical, is actually being logical.

darksidZz
12-19-07, 02:19 PM
Thank you all for participating, you see Porifry I am actually helping with polls and they shouldn't all be closed as you presumed. Adios!

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 02:50 PM
you can concent at any age as long as you are not largley under the "reccomendation and the other one over it"

i think the guideline is fine but i don't think you should assume anyone under this limit is not ready for a sexual relationship.


no you cannot, try telling that to the 10mth old child that was kidnapped and then raped! did she consent? did a little "goo goo, gaa gaa" mean "oh yes please make love to me"?

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 02:55 PM
no you cannot, try telling that to the 10mth old child that was kidnapped and then raped! did she consent? did a little "goo goo, gaa gaa" mean "oh yes please make love to me"?

did u just completely ignore the 2nd part of that my sentence?

my point is that you cant charge a 16 yr old for having sex with a 14 year old if shes happy about it.

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 02:56 PM
thanks reiku, i'll consent to you now ;)

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 03:47 PM
did u just completely ignore the 2nd part of that my sentence?

my point is that you cant arrest a 16 yr old for having sex with a 14 year old if shes happy about it.

yes you can, it is seen has rape of a minor!

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 03:49 PM
once again, read the whole sentence - if she is happy about it.

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 03:50 PM
if for some reason it did get to court (unlikely - police officers dont even have time to protect te treets let alone buust the bedrooms of 14 yr olds)

and the 14 year old was like - "yeah i was fine with it" - i'd be suprised if he got more than a caution or maybe a restreaining order.

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 03:51 PM
once again, read the whole sentence - if she is happy about it.

and again yes he can be arrested, the chances are though they will drop charges, but if the girls perants are not happy they can (rightfully so) have the boy arrested

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 03:54 PM
SEXUAL RIGHTS ACT OF 2003 (ENGLAND AND WALES)

"The aim of the law is to protect the safety and rights of young people and make it easier to prosecute people who pressure or force others into having sex they don’t want. Forcing someone to have sex is a crime.

Although the age of consent remains at 16, it is not intended that the law should be used to prosecute mutually agreed teenage sexual activity between two young people of a similar age, unless it involves abuse or exploitation."

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 03:57 PM
notice the word abuse or exploitation

you can get anyone arrested for anything "he stole my bag" etc - and they will be questioned, like the boy might be and then they'd question the girl and then decide whether exploitation was involved. It probably wouldnt even go to court and if it did everyone would probably just laugh at you unless he was grooming her or forcing her to do stuff.

lucifers angel
12-19-07, 03:57 PM
SEXUAL RIGHTS ACT OF 2003 (ENGLAND AND WALES)

"The aim of the law is to protect the safety and rights of young people and make it easier to prosecute people who pressure or force others into having sex they donít want. Forcing someone to have sex is a crime.

Although the age of consent remains at 16, it is not intended that the law should be used to prosecute mutually agreed teenage sexual activity between two young people of a similar age, unless it involves abuse or exploitation."


why are we seeing then 16yr old boys being areseted for underage sex......because the perants can prosecute

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 03:59 PM
unless as i said - you are well under the age limit (12) anyone overage that has sex with you can be charged with statutory rape.

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 04:01 PM
why are we seeing then 16yr old boys being areseted for underage sex......because the perants can prosecute

yes because exploitation may be involved - the jury doesnt just judge whether or not the girl says " hes cool i really like him" its whether hes grroming her or not. also different laws apply to under 13s as i mentioned above - if there are examples that fall out of these then can u please link them because so far youve provided no evidence of anything.

Non-Logical-Idea-Guy
12-19-07, 04:02 PM
but the likelihood is if its a 16 yr old and a 15 yr old then there will probably be no exploitiation going on - 21 and 15 it may go to court.

CarvedMercury
12-19-07, 04:24 PM
i think the guideline is fine but i don't think you should assume anyone under this limit is not ready for a sexual relationship.

I agree with NLIG, its stupid to think that only when someone reaches the age of consent will they be ready.

Looney
12-19-07, 05:55 PM
Social attitudes


Social (and the resulting legal) attitudes toward the appropriate age of

consent have drifted upwards in modern times; while ages from 10 through

13 were typically acceptable in the mid-Nineteenth Century,[1] 15 through

to 18 had become the norm in many countries by the end of the twentieth

century.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

So social attitudes make it OK? I think not. Honor killings are acceptable in some societies, doesn't make it moral. I seriously doubt that 10 years old was an acceptable age to have sex with a girl in the mid-nineteeth century. Girls hadn't reached puberty by then.
Sex for young teens causes all kinds of social as well as physical problems. I don't think I need to list them here. You are all capable of coming up with your own lists.

Looney
12-19-07, 05:57 PM
nature tells us that women are ready to mate way before the legal age, if a women can bare children she is ready to be pounded, by natural law ofcourse.


peace.
So Mr. Chi. Are you going to be OK with an eighteen year old or twenty-five year old male groping and fondling your daughter when she is eleven years old? :(

shorty_37
12-20-07, 09:10 AM
Never!

visceral_instinct
12-20-07, 09:22 AM
then your not old enough to have a sexual relaptionship, and living "to fast, to young" can really screw you up for the future

Don't agree with that at all. I don't regret having sex at 17. It was a completely normal and healthy thing to do, I did it because I felt ready, not just to look cool.

I don't think you can tell someone else what is right for them. Some people might regret it and wish they had saved themselves, I don't.

How about giving young people some credit for once instead of just assuming that they are being immature and doing things for the wrong reasons.

Orleander
12-20-07, 09:39 AM
Is 17 under age? I don't think it is here.

visceral_instinct
12-20-07, 09:41 AM
Are we talking about the age of consent, or the age when you are legally an adult?

Orleander
12-20-07, 09:42 AM
I thought it was age of consent.

visceral_instinct
12-20-07, 09:43 AM
Oh right, I'm over the age of consent then.

lucifers angel
12-20-07, 10:18 AM
Is 17 under age? I don't think it is here.

17 is over the age of consent

Orleander
12-20-07, 10:32 AM
I know its being talked about here.


The announced pregnancy of Jamie Lynn Spears (http://www.cnn.com/2007/SHOWBIZ/TV/12/19/spears.statutory.rape/index.html?iref=mpstoryview) -- the 16-year-old children's television star and younger sister of beleaguered pop star Britney Spears -- is casting new light on how states deal with the thorny issue of consensual sex among teens.

Spears, the star of Nickelodeon's "Zoey 101," told OK! Magazine that she's pregnant and that the father is her 18-year-old boyfriend....

...In Louisiana, where Spears lives, it is a misdemeanor for someone age 17 to 19 to have consensual sex with someone age 15 to 17 if the difference between their ages is more than two years.

In California, where she sometimes tapes her television show, it's a misdemeanor to have sex with someone younger than 18 if the offender is less than three years older. Someone more than three years older could be charged with a felony....

[a-5]
12-21-07, 09:39 PM
I'd do a 16 year old, considering I am one, hell, I'd even go 15, considering the girl I'm fkn obsessed with is 15.