What in your opinion makes a women attractive? I will post on this later with some thoughts of my own.

i think it might be symmetry, especially in the face. but intelligence also has a factor. :m:

Your preferences at work. Once they appear in a woman or a man theystart looking attractive to you.

but sometimes coolness can make someone more attractive. :m:

Tight ass...

what makes blondes so attractive? :m:

but sometimes coolness can make someone more attractive. :m:


Yup...you prefer coolness in a mate and if a woman happens to have it she is attractive.....your preferences prevalent in a person make someone look attractive.

that would explain diversity. :m:

Honesty. Straightforwardness. Nerve. Style. Independence. Kindliness.

The eyes, and the attitude. Its all in the eyes and the attitude.

But what's behind the eyes and the attitude? A vexed bitch can have attitude and great looks -- but her attractiveness will have already been spent, like a snuffed candlewick spewing an unpleasant oder.

yeah. intelligence matters a lot. :m:

But what's behind the eyes and the attitude? A vexed bitch can have attitude and great looks -- but her attractiveness will have already been spent, like a snuffed candlewick spewing an unpleasant oder.

By attitude I mean outlook of life, how they act, etc. Perhaps Personality would have been clearer. But I stand by the eyes, I can just get lost in some peoples eyes.

oh. I don't even know my best friends eye color. I dont really pay attention to people's eyes. but i do notice noses. :m:

Tight ass...

Good taste.. ;)

Humor for me, and boobs too. And the smile. And can't be fat.

pheramones

What men find attractive in a woman? One thing. The fact that they can be fucked.

What women find attractive in a woman? I have no idea in hell. Some lesbians help me out here.

Their eyes are such beautiful wells of infinite sweetness. You could fall in them forever into their souls and hearts!

They can be great companions, rejuvenating in all their beauty and sweetness. A meaningful relationship with a woman could help you muster up strengths you didn't know you had.

*barf* :D

boobs!!!

I make a woman attractive, or rather my outlook on life and my imagination does.

Breasts

Uber nice personality.

Good taste.. ;)

Humor for me, and boobs too. And the smile. And can't be fat,
or intelligent a southy

your amazing

and Certified what does Uber mean.

A pretty face, a good personality, interest in other, niceness, and of course an adorable bottom.

Uber (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=uber) is German. Common prefix used by some hackers and a lot of wannabe hackers.

what makes blondes so attractive? :m:

Nothing at all. Without doing much actual research research, I find that generally, brunettes are much more attractive than blondes.

Oh, I feel so flattered. How big should the chest be? Is C ok for you guys?

I find that a lot of men gape at celebrities that have no chest... mostly due to anorexia. Men hat e fat women, a lot won't even speak to them...

(I'm shocked Cosmictraveller hasn't said this yet)... The Golden Ratio! Of course...

If you're looking for a one-word answer, it's confidence. This is misleading, because confidence is usually a result (and a sign) of being attractive, so it's not at all helpful.

Overall, there's several selections a woman has to go through in my mind, different qualities shifting in importance to define 'attractive'.

First filter: physical attraction
When I'm at a [party, friend's house, lecture] I can't come up to and talk to every single girl I don't know, so I have to decide whom approach based on nothing but looks. For me personally, this means good posture, a fit figure, a nice smile, a pretty face, and proper (attractive, but not slutty) dress code.

If a girl passes and I start talking to her, her personality/humor/intelligence can of course change drastically what I thought of her solely because of her appearance. If she seems like a intelligent, social, curious, person, it's a plus, if she shares similar hobbies as I do, that's a plus, if she's better than me at something I like to do, that's a big plus, and if she can keep up an interesting conversation, that's another huge plus. If she hates cats and supports Bush because "It's unpatriotic and un-american to not support your president", well... that's the end of that conversation.

If I become friends with her, seeing how she deals with problems, whether or not she is confident, honest, moody, decisive, original, curious, superficial, politically active, etc. Seeing that she stands behind her values firmly, but logically and non-zealously is important. All of these can again change my opinion of her drastically (again).

It's therefore important for a woman to have positive qualities overall for guys to find her attractive. Women that look great but are very "shallow" or superficial will find it easy to meet guys, but will never get past the other filters into building lasting relationships, while girls that focus on their great actistic/intellectual sides will find themselves with a small group of good friends, but hard to meet enough guys to find the right one. The trick is to balance everything: exercise daily, read a lot, keep up on current events, and socialize.

AndroidV2:
Honesty. Straightforwardness. Nerve. Style. Independence. Kindliness.
How the fuck would you know?
Aren't you gay?

On Topic:
What in your opinion makes a women attractive? I will post on this later with some thoughts of my own
Virginal modesty.

Can't gay men find women attractive in a non sexual way?

I know some gay men and they find women to be attractive in more of a friendship way because they often have more in common with other women than they do with men.

Come on, this is a good thread and it's in the cesspool. THat's sad.

What in your opinion makes a women attractive?

First and foremost (for a het male): The fact she's a woman.

*am i the only one interpreting the question this way?*

EDIT: I mean, ask what 'qualities' or 'features'. What 'makes...' leaves me baffled. :confused:

Squirt:
Can't gay men find women attractive in a non sexual way?
Not those as flamboyant as Andy.
He once demolished the whole gender (mine) in one thread and attributed my irascability to, and I quote, 'itchy lips'.

Ha.

Come on, this is a good thread and it's in the cesspool. THat's sad.
I know.
Once again, I end up in this shithole.
Cesspool.

SO! We should redeem it with something enlightening.
Does anyone realize we are more predisposed to find people attractive when we see them in conjuction with a feeling of fear?

Meaning:
Subjects were gathered, and one half of them was made to cross a dangerous bridge.
The other half was made to cross a safe one.
A female was placed at the end of each bridge.
Those having crossed the dangerous bridge were more likely to ask the female for her phone number.

Fire:
*am i the only one interpreting the question this way?*

Of course you are. You're the biggest slut in here, monsieur.

Their eyes, thoughts and personality. :)

Gendy...
You're the biggest slut in here, monsieur.

What is it with you and labels? :)

Don't get me wrong deary, your assertion may well be so which, in the context of this thread, may well make me an expert on this question, no?

Does anyone realize we are more predisposed to find people attractive when we see them in conjuction with a feeling of fear?

Very clever but I'd suggest you've been reading too many Danielle Steele (sp?) novels.


Listen up:

The features one may find attractive in a lady are subjective and have absolutely nothing to do with circumstance - either you like blondes or you don't.

The qualities one may find attractive in a lady are subjective and 'may' have something to do with circumstance - you want a lady to fuq you, you want to fuq a lady or you want to fuq that lady waiting at the end of the bridge - you decide. :rolleyes:

Fire:
Don't get me wrong deary, your assertion may well be so which, in the context of this thread, may well make me an expert on this question, no?

Trying to weed out some sense from this butchered gibberish.....
Pause.

What?

Very clever but I'd suggest you've been reading too many Danielle Steele (sp?) novels.

You and I both know I don't read Steele novels.
Strike one.

Its taken from a psycholigical experiment done in the 70's, and when I pinpoint it in my archives I'll even be so nice enough to show it to you.
Now you listen up:
Prediliction is biological- I happen to love long dark hair on my men.
No silly pychological experiment, it seems, can change this in me.

However, the idea is that despite desire the vulnerability conducive to fear is what clouds judgement. The smile at the end of the tunnel is not a sexual stimulant- its a warm reassurance of safety.
But it being found on the opposite sex, this reassurance distorts into a sexual attraction once the fear is removed.

You can't grasp any of this because you're the little guy rubbing his cock raw with anything.

Gendy...
You can't grasp any of this because you're the little guy rubbing his cock raw with anything.

You're out in left field picking dandelions again - pay attention, the ball is coming your way:

I wouldn't expect anything more from you than:

Trying to weed out some sense from this butchered gibberish.....
Pause.

What?

Afterall Gendy..., I am one who has 'experienced' rather than read what it is to be human.

Fire:
Afterall Gendy..., I am one who has 'experienced' rather than read what it is to be human.
Fine, then I take it back. I love reinforcing your sluttiness, but I'll leave it alone for the sake of this:

You see the reciprocal inanity? You assume things of me as I do you.
However, the difference is your words are being used against you. "Slut" is the conglomeration of all your comments around here.

Your idea of me is more like..wishful thinking. Or resentment.
What makes you think I've only read humanity, my dear?

Gendy...
You see the reciprocal inanity? You assume things of me as I do you.

Yes, I've noticed this for quite some time now. :rolleyes:
*very intelligently put, by the way*

However, the difference is your words are being used against you.

Please enlighten me 'oh wise one'.

"Slut" is the conglomeration of all your comments around here.

Again, with the labels. Do us all a favor and produce a 'Gendy...Dictionary' to make life easier for all of us.

Your idea of me is more like..wishful thinking. Or resentment

*In response to your first assertion* - Your wishful thinking.
*In response to your second assertion* - I concede, that may be possible. That's something for my shrink to figure out.

What makes you think I've only read humanity, my dear?

Nothing! I'm sure you've read small engine repair too.

AndroidV2:

How the fuck would you know?
Aren't you gay?

On Topic:

Virginal modesty.

Oh right. Forgot. Humour too. Humour in a woman disrupts the cobwebs.

The way they smell, dress, their soft skin and long sexy legs. ;)

so much for redeeming this thread
smell
check. i find it is one of the most memorable things.
soft skin
check.
intelligence
check. no dumb blondes, yet not someone who constantly reminds how much of an idiot i am.
boobs
check. but nothing flashy, just so long as i know they're there. ;)

i am shallower than a tea cup. :D

Blah:
yet not someone who constantly reminds how much of an idiot i am.
This is why you're a fuckmonkey, you fucking idiot.

I abhor women. Very few are interesting. Most are bitchy, too girly, talk too much.

Men are awesome.

Fer...fer drinking with right?

Is that to me? I don't drink.

Men are awesome.

that disturbs me, unless you are a woman, in which case it would be acceptable

You don't drink! You must be the dryest person ever! Cactii growing under yer armpits! Crickey :eek:

Yes, yes, go assume I'm a man. Good compliment. Why, why do you do it? Are you afraid? I'm not really a wolf, or a cannibal!

Yes, yes, go assume I'm a man. Good compliment. Why, why do you do it? Are you afraid? I'm not really a wolf, or a cannibal!

Chill psycho... :D

Kindliness
check. manners are always good.
This is why you're a fuckmonkey, you fucking idiot.
oh, my virgin ears! [i really set myself up with that one. let's see if anyone bites.]

and that reminds me, a differing point of view is also good, wouldn't want to agree on everything. though preferably not quite as, uh, articulate as dear sweet gendy.

i'm sorry if you disagree with my opinion. :D

I make a woman attractive, or rather my outlook on life and my imagination does.

That should be the final word...

An attractive woman is not nessicarily "Beautiful" or have "sexy legs". You find a woman attractive because of chemistry. The way you two feel towards another depends on your compatability. Not nessicarily identicle people that like the same things, dislike the sames things, think alike, dress alike, etc. Sometimes you can be attracted to people that are almost opposite to you.

If you find the "exact" opposite to you, then you could have found your "soul mate" the other half of you that you can't life without!

Regards,
J.

What makes a woman attractive?
Make up and the way they dress.

An attractive woman is not nessicarily "Beautiful" or have "sexy legs". You find a woman attractive because of chemistry. The way you two feel towards another depends on your compatability. Not nessicarily identicle people that like the same things, dislike the sames things, think alike, dress alike, etc. Sometimes you can be attracted to people that are almost opposite to you.

If you find the "exact" opposite to you, then you could have found your "soul mate" the other half of you that you can't life without!

Regards,
J.

i know quite a few circumstances where that is true

What makes a woman attractive?
Make up and the way they dress.

sadly, this is also every true sometimes... not 100%, but this is why I always perfer girls that don't wear any (or very very little) makeup... otherwise they could be butt ugly under all of the paint (and usually are)

but this is why I always perfer girls that don't wear any (or very very little) makeup... otherwise they could be butt ugly under all of the paint (and usually are)
Very very true! plus there are a lot of girls out there that are 15&16 but look like there in there early 20s after make-up and the way they dress!

This is the cesspool, right? OK

I fucking love women.

YES:
Intelligent
Tall
Sexy voice
Wealthy
NO:
Common accents or behaviour
Massive breast implants (see American porn movies)

But TBH, I love computers just the same. I love to caress that power switch and watch the box light up. :)

"But TBH, I love computers just the same. I love to caress that power switch and watch the box light up. :)"

My mother would always say that there is a part of truth in any comedic exaggeration.

Nonphysical:

Openess, tolerance, inquisitiveness

Physical:

Voluptuousness, body language of invitation

body language of invitation
I can't say I agree at all. Interest, maybe, but that's not body language. What you are referring to screams "SLUT" at me, which is quite the turn-off.

What in your opinion makes a women attractive?

On a physical level, when they don't look like men.

On a psychological level, when they act like men.

A nice personality. And i genuinley mean that. But they got to look good too, thats like the catalyst, haha.

I think the most attractive thing about a woman is if she's a virgin or virgin-like. Same goes for men. I love virgins! Especially virgin males. It's so beautiful watching them, doing something they've been waiting for for so long, suddenly no longer a boy but a man. All of his nervousness and fears make me feel almost superior to him.

I think the most attractive thing about a woman is if she's a virgin or virgin-like. Same goes for men. I love virgins! Especially virgin males. It's so beautiful watching them, doing something they've been waiting for for so long, suddenly no longer a boy but a man. All of his nervousness and fears make me feel almost superior to him.

Heya! You got a point there. I can see where you are coming from. You have an interesting point of view.



Later! :cool:

Regards,
J.

I can't say I agree at all. Interest, maybe, but that's not body language. What you are referring to screams "SLUT" at me, which is quite the turn-off.

Not necessarily. My husband thinks I am beautiful all the time, but especially "glowy" when my body language gives off the vibe of wanting him to be closer to me. I don't think that it's slutty, just a general openness. (being close and inviting doesn't always have to lead to sex either.)

On a psychological level, when they act like men.


*ding ding ding* Oh yeah. So true.

"She partied like a man and loved like a woman" - Blow.

When she's cute. Ahhh. I'm at a party at the moment so I am referring to someone there. Cant post a pic, she'll kill me if she found out. Or maybe she won't. Meh.

What makes a woman attractive is when they are looking natural, no makeup or medical stuff or constant worrying about getting fat, nothing beats natural beauty.

I agree with lemming. My last 2 girlfriend almost never wore makeup, but still very very beautiful. Because they were without makeup and because they had confidence and style.

hmmmmm
it all depends on how horny men are
at the time
you see women are unattractive when
there is no men
when there is a man they get all horny up
and then become attractive


Philosopher Philocrazy

What in your opinion makes a women attractive?

Well that depends on how many beers I've had.
The women get better looking at closing time.
While going through a "spell" (without sex for awhile), Women all women look atractive. :D

I dread winter, women hide their bodies, with them big sweaters.
I love summer, when women shed most of their clothing, for thin dresses outlining their bodies, and more skin shows.
Plenty of clievage is always good.

Beuty is in the eye of the beholder, however one's perception gets warped with booze.

I love all women, I can't complain, the fat ones give you plenty to love, Plus they are the tightest I've had, perhaps this because they are not abused as much. ;)

The smart ones, may make you feel stupid, or out of your leaque.
The gourgeous one's makes you, insecure to ever trust her.
The homely one's usually are the ones that become nimphomaniacs.
BTW, If you ever want to cure a woman from nimphomania. Mary her!!. :D

Godless.

Godless-BTW, If you ever want to cure a woman from nimphomania. Mary her!!.

Eh,you have no idea how true that is...

Godless-the fat ones give you plenty to love, Plus they are the tightest I've had, perhaps this because they are not abused as much.


That's not true. They may be tighter because(maybe, a theory) their vaginas might be thick with fat, making a tight entrance. But I have heard once before that bigger girls are tighter.

you can have all the fat ones, I will stick with the fit.
what make a woman attractive just that being a woman(although I not overly keen on the fat ones, chunky, fuller figure/curves ok but the real big ones no)

I like good girls. With no tatoos or makeup or crazy ideas in their heads.
I don't like girls that try to be "cool". It just doesn't suit females to try and have an "image" or talk with "sass".

Overthestars, your fat vagina theory is ridiculous. My guess is they just never got any OR they might have had small skeletons. "Females" with big beast skeletons tend to have big cavernous vaginas, regardless of whether they are fat or skinny. They also tend to have big feet, big hands, and big everything. Just large girls, the ones that give the impression of great size. They can be fat, they can be thin, the only constant is they are all offensively repulsive.
My pet hate in females is a large skeleton, I'm not a yeti-sexual.
God damn it, I could just punch one of those behemoths in the squarish jaw right now :mad:

Very very true! plus there are a lot of girls out there that are 15&16 but look like there in there early 20s after make-up and the way they dress!

Someone told me I looked 27. I feel very offended now.
Oh, and I don't wear any makeup!!!

The number of times a woman has sex does not amount to a looser vagina. A vagina

can stretch to fit a penis, a baby, and at other times a tampon, which is a tight fit.

Maybe what makes a woman looser is when she is no longer nervous about sex and

relaxes instead of tightening up. Or maybe because she begins to enjoy sex more and

loosens up and produces her natural lubricant, making an easier fit for the penis. A less

experienced female may be nervous, tighten up, and may be dry, making a tighter fit.

And yes, my theory about fat vaginas was pretty silly, now that I think about it.

The vagina is a muscle. Fat women are fat, lazy slobs. Is it any wonder that they have fat, lazy vaginas? Cmon. It's to be expected.

Exercise that snatch. Make it a snapper. Your man will thank you for it.

I have a video from bangkok where the chicks are shooting bananas across the room. That's control. Another one the chick is smoking with it. While not healthy and undoubtably not tasty, it is definitely muscular control.

It's erotic to think that I could be talking to a woman while she is doing her kegel exercises and be none the wiser. She could be sitting there flexing away. Squeeze. Release. Squeeze. Release. And I would never know.

Ahh, the vagina is a wonderful thing.

Wow!! I never knew the fat woman thing would take off. LOL, :)

I once had a friend who would only go out with big women, he loved them. He told me they are usually fatefull, more than a sexy fit woman, and he didn't have to worry about her cheating on, him. "look at her big fat ass, who would go out with that?" he would laugh. But he married one.

I don't like them too fat, chuby is ok, they got potential to loose the weight. Mostly I dont judge women by their looks, just their attitude, charm, sex-appeal, and I'm still waiting to find my nympho!!. ;)

Godless.

when the ass works, the brain stop developing,you can not have both with the same body.

I have to conclude after some weeks of consideration that I am attracted to the wrong kind of women. The ones that are strong, strange, beautiful and selfish.

Ass and Face


Philosopher Philocrazy

Someone told me I looked 27. I feel very offended now.
Oh, and I don't wear any makeup!!!
And then when you're 27 they will tell you you look like your 17. I'm 32, rarely wear make-up and still get asked for ID at bars and clubs and even restaurants when we order wine with dinner :confused:. I get offended when they look at my ID and say 'ohhhh sorry, didn't realise you were that old'. :(

As you can imagine, we don't go to bars and clubs much anymore. Mostly because the other half feels as though people give him dirty looks or think he's an old pervert going out with a girl too young for him... heh..

Beuty is in the eye of the beholder, however one's perception gets warped with booze.
Heh! One of my best friends who's 31 who's still partying hard, went out, got drunk and picked up a 56 year old woman. She was a slightly frightening figure with bleached blonde hair and enough make-up to make her drown if she fell in any body of water. He woke up the next morning and told me that he thought he was having a nightmare or really bad hangover. He became even more frightened when he realised that she had taken off her false teeth after he'd gone to sleep (I keep telling him that maybe she took them out before he went to sleep, just to watch him scream in terror... what are friends for...). He's still horrified. I'm still amused. And the thought of it still brings tears to the eyes of my other half... hehehe

I have to conclude after some weeks of consideration that I am attracted to the wrong kind of women. The ones that are strong, strange, beautiful and selfish.
Don't worry monkey and keep your chin up. Plenty of fish in the sea. You deserve better and you will get better. :)

Face,Butt,Boobs,Legs,Clothing Style,Walking style,Talking ways...?...
heels?( fetish? ;))

bye!

Don't worry monkey and keep your chin up. Plenty of fish in the sea. You deserve better and you will get better. :)

But I am attracted to this kind of women. I will probably do the same again. Human nature is stubborn in its ways.

I have to conclude after some weeks of consideration that I am attracted to the wrong kind of women. The ones that are strong, strange, beautiful and selfish.

Why is that wrong? (you're scaring off all my prey)

I now concluded that it might not be wrong, but just how it is and how I like a woman to be.

:) I'm glad for you. I doubt a different kind would please you. Some day, you'll find your perfect match.

I think the question really is; what the hell makes a man attractive?

It depends who the girl is, if she is still living with her parents she likes things like abs, eyes, how cool the guy is, etc.
If she is out in the real world, money/power.
The guy is just a vector of these things which she is attracted to.

Anyway, stop making me help you hijack threads :mad:

It depends who the girl is, if she is still living with her parents she likes things like abs, eyes, how cool the guy is, etc.
If she is out in the real world, money/power.
The guy is just a vector of these things which she is attracted to.

Anyway, stop making me help you hijack threads :mad:

You are interestingly correct about some things. I know a girl that is not interested in money/power in a bloke, and she is in the "real world" as you so boldly put it.

Women are attracted to men. Men are attracted to women. We are all women at heart. Take me for example, I'm a lesbian in a man's body! I know a girl that's a gay guy in a gal's body!

That's the way it works. Chemistry!!!

Regards,
J.

Lou:
My pet hate in females is a large skeleton, I'm not a yeti-sexual.

Yet you drool for an Olsen twin?
Odd.

Obviously I'm talking about the small skeletoned olsen twin, mary-kate, idiot.

The olsen twins don't have large skeletons, you shit, and just because I want to fuck them both while stamos looks on in agony doesn't mean I'm particularly obsessed with them. This is stamos looking on in agony we're talking about. Not just any old romantic evening, a primo top shelf scenario. Oprah would be lookin pretty damn good if stamos was weeping in the vicinity.

I doubt a different kind would please you. Some day, you'll find your perfect match.

Yea!!! were are those dumb ass, blond, ninpho-maniacs?

Off to California I go, San Fransisco. Too many gays so women must be going nuts! for a straight man. :D :D

Godless.

Lola:
Obviously I'm talking about the small skeletoned olsen twin, mary-kate, idiot.


And obviously you're only making this an opportunity to regurgitate your dribble about Stamos looking on because you think its some kind of funny.

And you, my dear, are the stupid slut for not understand what's so simple.
Those little girls are skeletons, is what I was saying. Anthropods.
One almost pictures you jacking off to my bug collection.

What makes a woman attractive to men?

The fact that she can be fucked.

That's all that matters to males. No argument disagreeing with this can be supported when investigated to its heart. People just don't wish to admit it now, do they? :)

Is an injured stamos anywhere near your bug collection?

hahaha! :cool:

Don't you mean Arthropods, jackass? :cool:

What makes a woman attractive to men?
The fact that she can be fucked.
That's all that matters to males. No argument disagreeing with this can be supported when investigated to its heart. People just don't wish to admit it now, do they?
If your going to get as basic as instinct then your correct but the same applies to females, human instinct to reproduce applies to both sexes and outways most other reasoning. If your not going to get as basic as instinct then no, it isnt that she can be fucked that matters.

I found the answer. Although I think that physically Finnish woman are amongst the most beautiful in the world there is something wrong with them. I now realized what it is. They don't smile.

Really? Do the men smile? Maybe it's a coldness issue? Does smiling in a really cold climate do bad things to you? Extra heat loss or something?

Maybe they just have bad teeth?

Men don't smile either.

In general people also avoid eye contact, which is normally the beginning of all contact. I was out again last night and was reminded again of how little eye contact there is. If you want to contact someone you literally have to start hovering all over them and invade their space immediately (a drunkenman's game).

The only easy eyecontact I had yesterday was with the bartender girl, but that was because it is a professional trait. She has to take orders.

it is all rather sad I would say.

You smile. I've seen it.

And, I disagree with you about eye contact. I make a concerted effort to make eye contact with everyone I am interacting with because people need to be acknowledged and interacted with. I often look and give a smile because it makes their day better, as well as commits their face to my memory. People are a very important aspect of my life, and I try to interact with everyone at a personal level. When I am at a restaurant, I always call the waitstaff by their name when addressing them. They usually say it at the beginning of the meal, "Hello, my name is Maggie and I'll be your waitress for this evening." so I remember that and use her name when I can. It validates her. I do it on the phone with people, at the grocery store and even at the gas station. It's important for people to hear their name spoken, more important than you would think. When I teach, I make sure to make eye contact with each of my students. It gives me an idea as to whether or not they are ready to recieve what I am teaching.

As weird as it may seem in a big city, I say hello to people on the street and when I see someone stuggling with a bag or about to drop something I always stop to help. When I do say hello, and stop to help I always make eye contact with the person. Eyes are the windows to a persons soul and it's important to me to catch a glimpse. I'm a student of human interaction in the university of life, and I feel that every person I touch will react and that the reaction can ripple out to others. A kind smile, a kind glance, and helping hands are what makes the world a better place. The more people you meet who give you these things, the more likely you are to dole them out yourself. Cheesy sounding, yes. But important nevertheless.

And I smile, a lot.

My dear Arditezza,

I was talking about Finns in general. I love human interaction. I can't interact enough basically. My finnish friend agrees about the smiling. We had a bit of lousy night out, because nobody seemed keen on interacting. We talked about life of course, but life is all about interacting, and we were open.
And indeed a smile can make your day. When the bar was closing and the bouncer was usjering everybody out he asked the bartender if she had children. A weird question to ask, because she heard nothing all night but requests for beer. She smiled, and his evening was saved. I also enjoyed this very very simple interaction, but essential interaction, as a viewer.

What is it that makes Finns so somber then? Why do you think people aren't interacting so much? I've found that in bars/pubs people tend to be more guarded and it's just the shell of them that you meet until you get below the surface. That could just be my perception. I'm not one for picking up men in bars. When I used to date, I always met men in the supermarket or the tea shop.

What makes a woman attractive to men?

The fact that she can be fucked.


Oi! Your icon is a ripoff of mine :eek:

(this is the cesspool, I can aford to interrupt)

A beautiful woman is one who loves me.

What is it that makes Finns so somber then? Why do you think people aren't interacting so much? I've found that in bars/pubs people tend to be more guarded and it's just the shell of them that you meet until you get below the surface. That could just be my perception. I'm not one for picking up men in bars. When I used to date, I always met men in the supermarket or the tea shop.

I have no idea what makes Finns so somber. It can't really be the climate. For instance Finns don't talk much. But the Swedes who live next to them just can't stop talking. Or is it that each nation deals in its own way with a similar climate?

I've never found a girlfriend in a bar either. It is not really a good place to talk quietly about life and other important matters. And lots of people are not themselves (i hope).

I have no idea what makes Finns so somber. It can't really be the climate. For instance Finns don't talk much. But the Swedes who live next to them just can't stop talking. Or is it that each nation deals in its own way with a similar climate?


Who would want to talk much in *that* language? I often wonder how they can understand eachother at all.
Kidding.:)

Lola:
Don't you mean Arthropods, jackass
No. I mean Anthropod, you idiot.

From the Greek 'anthropos' meaning man or human.
The Olson twins look like insects, they are human, and thereby we have my colorful term of its mixture: anthropod.

Use your rusty imagination next time.

Oi! Your icon is a ripoff of mine :eek:

(this is the cesspool, I can aford to interrupt)


No, I didn't.

I got it from an entirely different forum. :rolleyes:

What in your opinion makes a women attractive? I will post on this later with some thoughts of my own.

big tits and an ass that wont quit

Confidence. and a divine ass

Attitude and long dresses but still short enough to show legs.

A fuckable cunt and not too much fat.

What makes a woman attractive?

Well, I am a woman and I think men can better answer to this question. What makes a woman attractive is what I want to know actually. I found this man I am very attracted to, not only attracted but I think he would be good for me. He doesn't look like my type of man physically I usually like tall and handsome men. He is not that good looking (he is an average guy) but he has a personality, a great personality. I like his confidence, his strenght (masculinity) and I feel he has power. I am very attracted to those qualities so many men seem missing today.
But the question is: how do I attract him?

I am very feminine and pretty, I have a good personality but I don't have confidence in front of him. I am confident in everyday life but just with him, I get intimidated.

I would like men to tell me what attract them in a woman? face, hands, body fitness, butt, legs etc.

Leaa

" What makes a woman attractive?"

Nice, big tits.

Leaa:
You should hope he's attracted to stupid trollops who don't use proper English.

"But the question is: how do I attract him?"

Swallow and don't annoy his friends.

Don't mind Xev, she weighs 300 lbs and never leaves her house. She is eternally bitter for the role she had to play in highschool.

The worst decisions I've made concerning, eh, 'relationships,' involved "nice, big tits." Nice, big tits are nice and big, but a woman definitely should click with my personality.

As cynical as the women on this forum are (read into that what you will about their personal lives), I think the men here (me included) have said that personality and intelligence are definite, if not primary factors of continued attractiveness.

Hypocrisy really turns me off, same with that shitty hypercritical garbage that women use to pick people apart, for whatever reason.

"As cynical as the women on this forum are (read into that what you will about their personal lives), I think the men here (me included) have said that personality and intelligence are definite, if not primary factors of continued attractiveness."

Heheh, I love how you ridicule my supposed appearence and then say that personality is important to you, not looks.
But you've made me cry. Now I have to eat another package of Ring-Dings.

" shitty hypercritical garbage that women use to pick people apart, for whatever reason."

Presumably because your gaseous personality can't withstand it.

Leaa,
Discretely place yourself in such a way that he can see up your skirt, often.
He will begin to associate you with sex.
Whatever you do, don't try to act like him, or try to become what you find sexy in guys. I can't stress that enough. Males and females are attracted to completely different things and you will gross him out. I've had girls start to dress like me before, its a major turn off.
Don't think trying to be confident is a substitue for confidence. Its a specific kind of confidence that is attractive, it's carefree happiness and comfort. Quite frankly, it's living unconsciously. Thats why philosophers and scientists are usually so unattractive.
Just talk with your girly friends about girly things and get so caught up in your girly life that your legs occassionally forget to stay closed. He'll be whipped.
You don't have to be a moron, merely dedicated to living rather than thinking. Save thinking for when you're alone.

I like women who are intelligent and have views/hobbies/interests similar to my own. I'm not hung up on looks, but I'd be lying if I said that it was completely irrelevant. A medium or athletic build would be my ideal, but I'm not picky. The Goth look is nice, with dark hair and pale skin; preferably with some nice tattoos and/or piercings.

Owning lots of firearms doesn't hurt, either. :cool:

Where did I say that looks weren't important?
Of course they're important!
Nice big tits aren't all there are to it.
I was simply trying to explain your crude behaviour, Xev, and please, don't beat yourself up over me.

Knives.

Lots and lots of knives sticking out of their bodies.

Xev,

Are you really moderator?

"You should hope he's attracted to stupid trollops who don't use proper English."

English is not my first language (I speak about 4 different languages) and the question wasn't about my English.

Good luck with women with all the hate you have for them but I don't have time to loose with people like you.

Leaa

Leaa:

Are you really moderator?

I am not only a moderator, I am a goddess.

English is not my first language (I speak about 4 different languages)

You're still a stupid trollop. I don't butcher my second languages.

and the question wasn't about my English.

No, it was about your being a trollop, not your being stupid. Although they seem to go hand in hand. I mean, who but a stupid trollop would have to tell people that she's "pretty"? Who but a stupid trollop would stumble over the simple concept of if you fancy a man, ask him on a date?
Jesus, you are such a stupid trollop that I need to explain what a stupid trollop you are. 'Tis discomfiting.

Good luck with women with all the hate you have for them but I don't have time to loose with people like you.

Thanks, but I'm not a lesbian.
By the way, you haven't time to lose, but your vagina is loose. See the difference?

"Discretely place yourself in such a way that he can see up your skirt, often.
He will begin to associate you with sex."

Dr Lou Natic, I don't want him to associate me just with sex and not now anyways but if things work between him and me, then I can open my legs for him ;) I want him to like me and I always hear that men are visual... I will need more subtle strategies.

"Males and females are attracted to completely different things and you will gross him out. I've had girls start to dress like me before, its a major turn off."

I agree.

"You don't have to be a moron, merely dedicated to living rather than thinking. Save thinking for when you're alone."

I am far from being a moron and I think that beauty and intelligence are not contradictory. But I am not sure about the confidence, I think many men even in this discussion have said they prefer a confident woman.

I dated really handsome men before and I am attractive (everything in good proportion and slim also). Now, I think I was being superficial and I slept with each of them too soon.

Now, I have more maturity and I am thinking for the long term.

Dr Lou Natic, let me reformulate my question. What kind of woman would you find attractive to be your wife?

Leaa

I don't give a shit to what you think. You are nothing, nothing but a moron. You are a moron because you knew I was talking to MEN in my message but you chose to talk to me with your dirty mouth. Write to Jerry Springer (you will find people who speak the same English than you) or get a life because you obviously don't have one if you can write 8,648 posts on sciforums.com.

You are saying you are not a lesbian but you are talking about vagina being loose. Which one have you seen and was loose, yours or your friend's one.

Again, I repete my message was only for men.

I don't want to know about your second languages, you can butcher them or be articulate. And before learning second language, I would advise normal people to learn about politeness and respect. But I guess you are not normal.

Good luck at Jerry springer.

Leaa

To Dr Lou Natic

I don't want to read the next response the 8000 messages woman/man/androgyne/dirty mouth is going to write to me. So, don't loose your time responding to my last message. I am leaving this place for her so that she can elaborate on her study on vaginas without me.

Leaa.

Wow, I am not surprised that she has problems of dating the guy. I would keep her at arms length.

Leaa:
I don't give a shit to what you think. You are nothing, nothing but a moron. You are a moron because you knew I was talking to MEN in my message but you chose to talk to me with your dirty mouth.

Interesting logic. Presumes that I both knew and cared.

Write to Jerry Springer (you will find people who speak the same English than you) or get a life

Can I do both?

because you obviously don't have one if you can write 8,648 posts on sciforums.com.

She says, posting on a saturday night.

You are saying you are not a lesbian but you are talking about vagina being loose. Which one have you seen and was loose, yours or your friend's one.

This is hilarious. I don't know your ethnic background (I HIGHLY doubt that you're white) but I see you saying this in a high-pitched S.E Asian accent.

"You talk about vagina being loose! You no lesbian, you ugly she-whore! You fat, have no life. I attractive feminine woman, love you long time."

Dr Lou Natic, let me reformulate my question. What kind of woman would you find attractive to be your wife?

I don't know which is funnier - that you're trying to marry this person you cannot even ask out, or that you're asking Dr. Lou Natic's love advice.

Of course, if one translates "ugly and powerful" into "fugly, but can get me a green card and can't get a Caucasian woman to like him" then we get a better picture of your beloved. :)

I was curious to see if Xev, la mal baisee will answer to my last message.

You don't know what means that word right? Where are those second languages? Ah!Ah!Ah!Ah!Use your English-French dictionary or go to the public library because you can't afford buying anything since you spend your life on this forum. Ok, I'll help you. "Mal baisée" is for a woman who haven't had sex for a long time. Just like you Xev but you have some hope. TheMatrixIsreal is willing to take you out. I hope after that you will be less bitter and clean your dirty mouth. Or maybe, you should clean before just to not jeopardize your date with him ;) I already hear you saying, "I don't care, he has to like me how I am, I am a godess"

Now, what do you have against Asians, not that I am Asian but where is your problem? You are mad against the whole world or you are just being racist? Oh! I get it now. It is because so many white men are choosing Asian women and leaving behind those white women like you (I am not talking about all white women, there are good people in all races). You are the type of women that men use from the age 11 to the age 20 and after that go to the garbage. Because you don't want to get married, you think you should have more fun...yes more fun until when all men go see those Asian women you hate. Asian women are everything you are not: they are feminine, they are thin, sweet and they are polite.

Now, I guess you stopped having fun a long time ago because men don't even look at you anymore. They went to see the Asians, yes the one with the accent you don't like. Now, the fun is on the other side and you are left alone. Result: you've got all your life to practice your Jerry Springer's style of talking online.

Good luck with whoever you find.

Leaa

You dumb whores could at least admit you're dumb whores.

what makes blondes so attractive? :m:

I think it has to do with the fairness of the color. Someone did a study and found that a person is most attractive if they have blond hair and blue eyes. Bummer for me . . . I have brown eyes.

I disagree with you about eye contact. I make a concerted effort to make eye contact with everyone I am interacting with because people need to be acknowledged and interacted with. I often look and give a smile because it makes their day better, as well as commits their face to my memory. People are a very important aspect of my life, and I try to interact with everyone at a personal level. When I am at a restaurant, I always call the waitstaff by their name when addressing them. They usually say it at the beginning of the meal, "Hello, my name is Maggie and I'll be your waitress for this evening." so I remember that and use her name when I can. It validates her. I do it on the phone with people, at the grocery store and even at the gas station. It's important for people to hear their name spoken, more important than you would think. When I teach, I make sure to make eye contact with each of my students. It gives me an idea as to whether or not they are ready to recieve what I am teaching.

As weird as it may seem in a big city, I say hello to people on the street and when I see someone stuggling with a bag or about to drop something I always stop to help. When I do say hello, and stop to help I always make eye contact with the person. Eyes are the windows to a persons soul and it's important to me to catch a glimpse. I'm a student of human interaction in the university of life, and I feel that every person I touch will react and that the reaction can ripple out to others. A kind smile, a kind glance, and helping hands are what makes the world a better place. The more people you meet who give you these things, the more likely you are to dole them out yourself. Cheesy sounding, yes. But important nevertheless.

And I smile, a lot.

Ye'r one of the coolest people I know! I wish I knew ya in person. I mean WOW! There is a great shortage of people like you.

Xev, ye'r kinda being brutal with Leaa. I mean, . . .

By the way, you haven't time to lose, but your vagina is loose. See the difference?

. . . Even native speakers have trouble with this . . .

This is hilarious. I don't know your ethnic background (I HIGHLY doubt that you're white) but I see you saying this in a high-pitched S.E Asian accent.

"You talk about vagina being loose! You no lesbian, you ugly she-whore! You fat, have no life. I attractive feminine woman, love you long time."

. . . And ye'r just making fun of the fact that Leaa can't speak snobbishly perfect English.

This room is full of banshees!

. . . Anyway, on-topic . . .

I have noticed that a nose that's a bit larger than other people's is especially hot. I don't mean grotesquely big . . . just . . . *closes eyes* . . . ever so slightly . . . And if it's just the perfect size . . . I shudder of sexual tension to think of it.

I also like blue eyes. They have a glow to them . . . wow. Brown eyes are cool too, cuz they're dark and mysterious.

I think genes can determine what turns ya on. There was this one girl a friend of mine liked. I saw her, chortled, and said "I guess ya have yer own taste in women". There's also this one girl he talks about quite a few times and gives a 10 on the hotness scale we made up. I give her about a 6. Ha! And let's not forget a girl I like. I give her about a 10, but my friend thinks she's too small and skinny.

*Sigh*

As far as looks go, I like eyes. There is a girl in my engineering physics class has the biggest blue eyes I have ever seen, they are very attractive. (green eyes do the same for me) a nice booty don’t hurt either, however breasts don’t matter at all to me,(go figure) in fact, I slightly prefer smaller breasts. Furthermore, hair color don’t matter to me.(unless its gray =])

Personality wise, I like sweet girls. there is something about a genuinely sweet girl that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy =]. I don’t really like "bad girls" or girls that smoke and/or drink heavily.

Patrick Bateman: When I see a pretty girl walking down the street, I think two things. One part wants me to be real nice and sweet and treat her right.
David Van Patten: And what did the other part think?
Patrick Bateman: What her head would look like on a stick!

I love Bateman, he's very cool.

"Oh my god, it even has a watermark!"

As far a girls go, eyes can be dead sexy.