What if you fell in love with someone then found out they had a sex change?

i have no idea why this came to mind but sometimes i get these random thoughts. . I actually heard this from a neighbour last yr. In that case they met on an online dating site and talked for over a yr before they met. Okay the scenario is you meet someone and get to know them and get along great.
You take it slow.....become really attatched and fall in love. You then start to get intimate and this person tells you that they had a sex change, what would you do?

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Cock. Load. Shoot

 

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Make it clear that there are strictly NO hard feelings, then ask them if they fancy a pint.

 

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Bury it up to the neck in the pig sty.

 

the person my neighbour knows at work actually stayed with the person and they are still together. I would never be able to do that it would freak me out!

 

Nothing is black or white any more, i can not get my head around all the goings on, i agree with that Forest Gump guy, but i aint buying the chocolates.

 

Call me superficial (because I am), but it would depend entirely on what they looked like. If they looked like Hayley Cropper it totally wouldn't bother me that they used to have a lovely, big, hairy cock. I mean, look at Roy. He married it.

PS I'm aware of the fact that none of you have the foggiest idea what I'm blithering about. So what?

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Hayley Cropper. Yesterday.
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If I got together with Jessica Alba, and found out she had been born a man, it would not be a deal breaker.

But the odds of a transsexual being that attractive are extremely slim. I'd have a better chance of winning the lottery than of falling in love with a beautiful TS unknowingly.

You're a transsexual! Wait, pre op or post op? - Quagmire

 

haha no i am a woman........wait let me check.....Yup no dick or any traces of one. But I do sometimes think life would be easier being a man :grumble:

 

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Go on. Tell me you wouldn't. You liar.

P.S. Yours are the two on the right.

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Reminds me of "The Crying Game", except that didn't even have a sex change. Which also leads me to ask, are we finding out before or after oral sex, and was it really good?

It's a difficult question for me. In the movie, our protagonist had oral sex before finding out, and enjoyed it, which probably anyone would if they didn't know. Maybe it is just best not to think about these things.

Most people won't admit it, but I think it is really tricky. Here is a good example:

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I never get tired of showing people that picture and then filling them in that he has a penis. It works really well on guys who have things for asians.

All I know is...it depends entirely on the circumstance. So, I would not automatically reject her(?).

 

I didn't say there are no attractive TS women. But by far most of the ones I've seen either still look like men in a dress, or unattractive women. Only a small percentage of women in general are beautiful, the percentage of beautiful TS women is very small.

 

Do the men that have had the opp have any sensation in the new bit?
do they erm you know what?

 

Like a fountain, I expect.

Ignore me. I'm fantasising.

 

IMO our body did not evolve to deal with such complications and trickery. The fact that anybody can be fooled is enough to show that it isn't really deviant on the part of the regular person. My guess is people can be equally deceptive with their personality as well. i.e., take on the role of a feminine personality, whatever THAT is supposed to be.

 

How... if the testicles are removed (a necessary part of a sex change), as well as the penis, obviously not.

(I assume that is what you are talking about)

 

Read all about it here, http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TS/TS.html

 

Pretty much. No fully grown guy is going to have the head of an attractive female. I don't know if an attractive scenario is even really a possibility with my tastes. Jessica Alba is also pretty much also the only acceptable scenario for me

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I think I'm going to heave. Enough of this topic for one night for me

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I am proud, finally a member with similar mindsets as me :C~