Like I put on the subject heading, what do Men want, and what can't they stand about girls? Some that are to annoying, stuk up? You name it.

Lol.
Thanks:D

Originally posted by AshenLee
what do Men want
Head.
what can't they stand about girls?
Talking.

- Warren

Asking what men want when all we want is for girls to be themselves and do what they want....well, that's what I want

hey thanks for your two guys'z input so far!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:m:

I don't know about anyone else but my ideal girl would appreciate life; like art; hate operas and ballet; not be a dead fish; have a sense of humor; be naturally beautiful; not religious; like playing basketball; is not anorexic/have psychological "problem" with their weight; horny.

Warren reminds me of the cliche:

What is the best thing about a blowjob?
Five minutes of silence.

Personality:
preferance for punk or goth girls. my ideal girl woud be comfortable around me and my friends, be into the same types of music as me, be able to carry on an interesting conversation, take an active intrest in the events of the world (even if her political views differ from mine), and would have a good sense of humor (ie, laugh at my jokes)

Physical (not as important, by nice. these are preferances, not requirements):
Short-ish dark hair, light colored eyes (hazel is nice), short (don't like tall girls that much), small frame (not to be mistaken with skinny, but like, small). Look at fairuza balk. thats my ideal girl as far as physical features are concerned. :p

I've made a few mistakes in the past, with the girls that I was attracted to, so I changed around my preferences a bit.

She needs to be--

+Intelligent (not just straight A's in school)

+Have an interesting hobby, like writing or drawing.

+Reasonably Attractive

+Enjoyable to be around, overall cool

In my grade, to my disfortune, and as far as I know, there are only a few girls that are like this (probably under ten).

But yeah, if she isn't any of these things, and tries to be, and isn't herself, then I still won't be attracted to her, unless she does a bang-up job. A girl that I had a thing for is arguably obsessed with me because of the magic I worked on her. And she possesses little or none of the qualities presented here.

someone who isnt scared of herself and isnt going to throw everything we do back in my face:)

I want a girl that is beautiful, my height (5'8 or so) with blonde hair and blue eyes and perfect teeth. She must have ample breasts and thighs. She must also smile and laugh constantly. I am indifferent toward her intelliegence (so long as she isn't a mental sponge). I don't want a tall, religiously passionate, or singing girl. In fact, I'd rather have her a short athiest with a hoarse but feminine voice.

I especially want her to smell good . . . very very good.

Additionally, she must'nt be overly kind and charitable. I mean to say, she can be courteous, but no saintly magnanimity or philanthropy. I want her to be every whit as cruel, inconsiderate, and ruthless as I am.

Well... for me, a girl would have to be energetic, share my interests, be passionate, have a good sense of humor, and be a loving, caring, good person in general.
What i dont like:... Someone who follows around with the normal trend like everybody else. I could care less if they weren't "cool" or didnt have the looks of (insert female mode;s name here), if they are a good person at heart then id be fine with that:)
hehe and it turns out i found that perfect person already:D

smart, i HATE stupid people and a dumb girl would set my teeth on edge and with a good heart, no point if she doesnt care about anything

since im a decent conservative family loving boy, looks and sex arnt important at all.

everybody knows that the most important thing to look at when you meet a girl is her pocketbook.

I never bothered with looks either. Maybe it's because you don't value what you already got! ;)
I would say things that would help are:
introvertedness, someone who can appreciate both feeling And thinking, and definetly active. I mean really active.
It's hard to find active introverts, but...

I think this has been said, but I can't stand it when girls are so damn insecure about themselves that they have to keep asking what men want.

and like during sex, if all she cares about is that I am having a good time. = Big turn off, I want her to have a good time. If she doesn't(and he can tell when you fake it(If he gives a damn)), I feel inadequate and then she thinks it's her fault, and i think it's my fault.... Stupid intrigues.

Oh and this annoys me: Girls say they want a guy who is caring and inteligent. Yet it seems to be a law of nature that they automaticaly fall for the airhead bastard who they know will dump them after a week:confused:. And then they blame it on every person with a Y chromosone.

Redoubtable:

you contradict yourself...you say you want a woman 5'8" tall...yet, you go on to say you don't want a tall woman. i have news for ya, buster...i am 5'8" tall....and, from where i stand(no pun intended :D) that is considered tall for a woman. :D i am just glad there are tall men...well, like...say, Billy Corgan. (sorry, i can't help myself)

I want some one to talk to that won't run in fear like the rest :(

I want some one that is tuff and strong headed and most of all will tie me up with all the leather and buckles and whip me with… Ooooh wait I said to much.

I hate fashion girls and girls that dye their hair blonde!!!

I hate that constant mindless drivel talk... especially on the phone!

Girls good advice to getting a guy you really like: just walk right up to them and say: “I want to fuck you… NOW” that is what most men dream of hearing.

oh, bs.....if we did go up to men and announce our intentions/desires of wanting to copulate with them, they'd cower and run in fear.

i vant pumpkin
i likee evrything she do

Oooh not I! As long as your reasonably good looking of course, and have your own sex toys.

I got it:

what would be the Myers-Briggs type of your ideal women?

i still say that's bs. you know darned well, that that is just a fantasy of yours, and, if indeed it actually happened to you in real life, your jaw would hang slack and you'd stammer for awhile, and, not know what to say. admit it.

Based on my limited experience I think it makes the seduction a lot more fun, and that, if succesful, the reaped rewards are greater.

I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME!!! I had this very same argument in HS it was the last day of school Juinor year in drama class. SO anyways this girl test me on it and i go right for her asker when and where! She did not have the guts though and chicken out in 10 second flat on the spot! it was funny as hell!

bs.



anyways, yeah...there's much to be said for the fine, yet seemingly, lost art of seduction..;) :D

you still don't believe me? well there is not changing your mind now.

By the way ever heard this :D

99% of all people on the net are men, the other 1% are perverted guys that like people to think their girls.

just a little food for thought ;)

I learned that couples who play together stay together. I’ve been with some incredible women in the looks dept. but if they are a “mental sponge,” to use redoubtable’s phrase, I lose desire for them eventually. Shared interests and good conversation are mucho important. A stunner on the bus once tapped my shoulder and asked what I thought about such & such she had read about in the news... Had she not been wearing a rock I’d’ve stopped her right there and asked her out. Assertiveness + conversationalist = ooh la la. Most guys will appreciate a girl who lets it be known when she’s horny and states what’s bothering her (guys are mostly clueless). I no longer do church women; that has always been a roadblock to bliss. Oh and most any girl can be beautiful when she’s healthy and has these qualities.

Originally posted by pumpkinsaren'torange
i still say that's bs. you know darned well, that that is just a fantasy of yours, and, if indeed it actually happened to you in real life, your jaw would hang slack and you'd stammer for awhile, and, not know what to say. admit it.

it happened to me. we went through with it. no problem. i wish it would happen more often.

Men want thier opposite, or at least i do(did) My wife complements me to a tee, and I her. She cooks, cleans, is a perfect mother for my kids, a hard worker. Displays the traits of the perfect woman in my book. Wonderful wife, friend, long, long hair, ice blue eyes..............



Every thing I wanted, but did not know I needed.