this seems like as good a place as any for relationship advice. i've started this thread because i have a question i need help with but feel free to ask your own questions and answers.

what does it mean when your ex asks how your love life is?
it was really out of the blue but i respected the gutsiness of the question.

You've met a brilliant, incredibly interesting man with a nine inch cock and a tounge that'd put a German Shephard to shame.

Is the correct answer.

Just shout out, "But don't you realize... the Illuminati control the world's genitals?"

SwedishFish

you said the word love but maybe you meant sex?
most people think it is the same thing by using the 2 together.
does he mean sex life or love life?
they are quite different.
maybe you could give your interpretation of what you think he meant by the word love
was it just an attempt to apeal to your emotional side to pry into the possiblity to get some casual action
or
he may be interested in trying to work things out between you.
he may be sleeping around and feeling guilt for the loss of your relationship or how he may think you could have been hurt
ASSUMING he is a caring person.
he could also be geniuenly interested in you and is concerned for your happyness-this is extreemly rare ofcoarse
so many questions this could relate to just based on the type of
relationship you had with him.
more hot gossip please/more info required
:)

the Illuminati control the world's genitals?" Those who have got genitals to use!

lol at zev

riple, thanks for the reply. he said "love life". i don't think it has anything to do with sex. we live several states away so there'd be nothing casual about planning a trip. he's not the type to sleep around. i'm certain he just means "love life". we had a serious long term relationship but since we split i couldn't deal with the whole friends thing so i told him no thanks i have enough friends. i started up conversation again a few days ago (iming...the phone is not casual enough for me). i don't know why he would ask me that!!!

it means you should tell him that it is none of his business or that you'd rather not talk about it, unless of course you are thinking about getting back with him. It sounds like he is crossing a line here that he really should not and you should set him straight.

Tell him..."that's for me to know and you to find out...so the question is how badly do you wanna find out?";)

maybe he realizes what he's lost after doing some floating in the singles pool and seeing nothing but floaters.


people are scum.


to me, it seems obvious(from what youve said), that he loves you. im not quite sure what love is exactly, but i do know that if you had a serious relationship, it isn't very easy to simply let go. it's been a while. he misses you.


perhaps he was just curious as to how things have been on your side of the pool. maybe he's interested to know if you've been dodging floaters or landed a real sinker(i kinda lost the effect of the analogy with that one, but you get what i mean). talk it out. dont just rub his nose into shit he's not trying to stir with remarks like "its only for me to know and you should learn to keep your distance!" thats no way to treat this guy. you say you know he is a good guy.


he just cares about you.

SwedishFish
if you were best friends
which you should know the answer to
then it would be fair to assume he has genuine intrest in your happynes
the real issue in most situations like this is why did you break up

and

if it hurts you too much to be friends with him then be honest and say so
but no one can have too many friends
real friends that is

how could you have a seriouse relationship if you live soo far apart?
i assume there is more to the story

groove on :)

thanks for the input. i'm still no closer to understanding the motivation. or maybe i'm just over-thinking this.

Originally posted by SwedishFish
thanks for the input. i'm still no closer to understanding the motivation. or maybe i'm just over-thinking this.


No problem...you're human...relationships screw with the mind and trying to figure them out only gets worse. Just let it be for now and if he brings it up again well then talk to him about how feel about that situation.

BTW post a pic already of you....you are now one of us...*laughs evilishly*...(is that even a word)

::gasp:: i'm one of you! i don't know whether to write an acceptance speech or run.

the only pictures i have on this computer are very old....i'm about 16 in them. i did post a picture i drew of myself in a labcoat somewhere.

Doesn't necessarily mean he wants to get back together. Also possible that he's having an awful time finding a new girlfriend and wants to know that you're also struggling.

Misery loves company.

You've met a brilliant, incredibly interesting man with a nine inch cock and a tounge that'd put a German Shephard to shame. Err, no!!!

Just shout out, "But don't you realize... the Illuminati control the world's genitals?" What? This has been real -ized?? That's just ridiculous! :)

Originally posted by Xev
You've met a brilliant, incredibly interesting man with a nine inch cock and a tounge that'd put a German Shephard to shame.

Is the correct answer.

Errrm....but swedeishfish hasn't met me.

.....you mean theres another guy with a nine inch cock and a magic tongue running loose out there somewhere.?!;)