15ofthe19
03-29-04, 12:40 AM
According to my parents, I picked up my first golf club at the age of 3. By the age of 7, I was playing golf on almost a daily basis. Why do I tell you this? Because it's simply an example of a endeavor where you simultaneously can compete against an opponent while competing against yourself, and you have no one to blame but yourself when you don't perform at the level that you know you're capable of, and your score is a total function of your skill, honor and respect for the rules of the game.
When I played the sport on a organized and competitive level, we often had tournaments to determine who was the best, on that given occassion. Generally speaking, trophies were awarded to the 1st, 2nd and 3rd place finishers in said tournaments, within given flights if the tournament was flighted. This meant that regardless of the number of participants, the number of recognized "winners" was pre-determined. On many occassions I was not among these winners at the end of the day. On more than a few, I was among these winners at the end of the day. Either way, I found myself heading to the range to work on my game to try and improve my skills so that hopefully, more often than not, I could go home at the end of a given event as one of the winners. Guess what? It worked. The harder I worked, the more often I found myself winning. It can be quite addictive, and it's not a self-destructive behavior, as long as you are playing fair to the rules of the game.
In the classroom I was not as diligent, and therefore I never found myself included among the Top Ten or Cum Laude, but that was never my aspiration. However, I never for a second resented the notion that some had put more emphasis on those pursuits and were thusly recognized for their efforts, much as I had been recognized for mine in a different pursuit. Envy and jealousy are filthy emotions, and I have always tried to keep that in mind. What was so wrong with those kids getting recognized for their efforts, much as I was recognized for mine? Nothing! To disagree with me here is to deny nature, and thusly makes you an assha....no wait, I've worn out that word. It makes you "one who would deny the nature of mankind". ;)
It has come to my attention that a segment of society is pushing for the removal of such things as Top Ten lists of HS students, publishing the Honor Roll in the paper, trophies for the winners of sporting contests, and in general, the stupidly subliminal philosophy that there are no such things as winners and losers in life, because to recognize such might theoretically adversely affect a childs self-esteem. This, in my humble opinion, is one of the most dangerous threats to a healthy society ever concocted. Bottom line: There are winners and losers in the world. If some jackass told you the world was fair, he was either smoked up, or a huckster. HE WAS LYING TO YOU! The world is not a fair place, and there will always be winners and losers, regardless of what you bleeding-heart neighbor tells you.
A hypothetical: Assuming that you watch say...The Super Bowl, Wimbledon, The Masters, The British Open, The World Cup, The Tour? Would you watch if Tiger, Lance, Pete, The Patriots, The Brazillians etc. were not crowned the winners at the end of the event? If the event simply ended with all the participants getting a slap on the back and shitty, cheap trophy? I think I already know your answer.
If you disagree with my general point here then I must point you to my final illustration, and if you're smarter than the guy who wrote this, than I only have two questions for you. Are you Diana Moon Glampers, and what the hell are you doing on Sciforums?
Paging H.
http://penguinppc.org/~hollis/personal/bergeron.shtml
Edit: If this this post creates the debate that I suspect it will, the nature of the debate will boil down to Economic Philosophy, which guides most everything in this world. Just trying to save the mods some work in moving the thread around to the appropriate forum. :cool:
When I played the sport on a organized and competitive level, we often had tournaments to determine who was the best, on that given occassion. Generally speaking, trophies were awarded to the 1st, 2nd and 3rd place finishers in said tournaments, within given flights if the tournament was flighted. This meant that regardless of the number of participants, the number of recognized "winners" was pre-determined. On many occassions I was not among these winners at the end of the day. On more than a few, I was among these winners at the end of the day. Either way, I found myself heading to the range to work on my game to try and improve my skills so that hopefully, more often than not, I could go home at the end of a given event as one of the winners. Guess what? It worked. The harder I worked, the more often I found myself winning. It can be quite addictive, and it's not a self-destructive behavior, as long as you are playing fair to the rules of the game.
In the classroom I was not as diligent, and therefore I never found myself included among the Top Ten or Cum Laude, but that was never my aspiration. However, I never for a second resented the notion that some had put more emphasis on those pursuits and were thusly recognized for their efforts, much as I had been recognized for mine in a different pursuit. Envy and jealousy are filthy emotions, and I have always tried to keep that in mind. What was so wrong with those kids getting recognized for their efforts, much as I was recognized for mine? Nothing! To disagree with me here is to deny nature, and thusly makes you an assha....no wait, I've worn out that word. It makes you "one who would deny the nature of mankind". ;)
It has come to my attention that a segment of society is pushing for the removal of such things as Top Ten lists of HS students, publishing the Honor Roll in the paper, trophies for the winners of sporting contests, and in general, the stupidly subliminal philosophy that there are no such things as winners and losers in life, because to recognize such might theoretically adversely affect a childs self-esteem. This, in my humble opinion, is one of the most dangerous threats to a healthy society ever concocted. Bottom line: There are winners and losers in the world. If some jackass told you the world was fair, he was either smoked up, or a huckster. HE WAS LYING TO YOU! The world is not a fair place, and there will always be winners and losers, regardless of what you bleeding-heart neighbor tells you.
A hypothetical: Assuming that you watch say...The Super Bowl, Wimbledon, The Masters, The British Open, The World Cup, The Tour? Would you watch if Tiger, Lance, Pete, The Patriots, The Brazillians etc. were not crowned the winners at the end of the event? If the event simply ended with all the participants getting a slap on the back and shitty, cheap trophy? I think I already know your answer.
If you disagree with my general point here then I must point you to my final illustration, and if you're smarter than the guy who wrote this, than I only have two questions for you. Are you Diana Moon Glampers, and what the hell are you doing on Sciforums?
Paging H.
http://penguinppc.org/~hollis/personal/bergeron.shtml
Edit: If this this post creates the debate that I suspect it will, the nature of the debate will boil down to Economic Philosophy, which guides most everything in this world. Just trying to save the mods some work in moving the thread around to the appropriate forum. :cool: