mariusring
02-15-04, 10:34 AM
I have a theory on what is everyones constant alterier motive. always.
I believe that the ego in a person controles everything. I do not believe that when a man does good to others - seemingly with no gain for himself - that it is not egosentric. We wish to do good things to others, totally "unselfish" things. Why do we wish so? Well, we want to feel better. When we do something "unselfish" we feel good, we feel unselfish. People comment it and everything is just better. The root of all actions are selfishness, the love of the ego. We wish to please ourself, either by doing actions to promote ourselves or by promoting others so that we can feel good about it.
This might be a bit on the edge example, but I will try anyway:
When an old poor women gives allmost all of her money to the church, charity or the better cause - is she infact unselfish? I would say no. I would say that this woman has found her own way of satisfying her ego. She gets a kick, a pleasing out of helping others. Simply giving away money pleases her more, and we all must please our ego for it is the root of all, than using them on herself.
Any oponions on this?
I believe that the ego in a person controles everything. I do not believe that when a man does good to others - seemingly with no gain for himself - that it is not egosentric. We wish to do good things to others, totally "unselfish" things. Why do we wish so? Well, we want to feel better. When we do something "unselfish" we feel good, we feel unselfish. People comment it and everything is just better. The root of all actions are selfishness, the love of the ego. We wish to please ourself, either by doing actions to promote ourselves or by promoting others so that we can feel good about it.
This might be a bit on the edge example, but I will try anyway:
When an old poor women gives allmost all of her money to the church, charity or the better cause - is she infact unselfish? I would say no. I would say that this woman has found her own way of satisfying her ego. She gets a kick, a pleasing out of helping others. Simply giving away money pleases her more, and we all must please our ego for it is the root of all, than using them on herself.
Any oponions on this?