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coberst
02-15-07, 07:11 AM
Solitude

Solitude is a valuable resource when changes of mental attitude are required—solitude can be as therapeutic as emotional support from a friend.

Our way of thinking about life and ourselves is so habitual that it takes time and effort to change attitudes—people find it difficult to make changes in attitude but solitude and perhaps changes in environment facilitate changes in attitude because habit is fortified by external environment—religion is well aware of these facts—only through experience of change in environment can one know if such change will facilitate change in attitude—one needs not just solitude but one needs to be able to sink roots into some replenishing philosophy also.

Solitude is not to subject oneself to sensor deprivation, which can lead to hallucinations. One needs the stimulation of the senses and the intellect.

Imagination—solitude can facilitate the growth of imagination—imagination has given humans flexibility but has robbed her of contentment—our non-human ancestors are governed by pre-programmed patterns-- these preprogrammed patterns have inhibited growth when the environment changes—humans are governed primarily by learning and transmission of culture from generation to generation and is thus more able to adapt—for humans so little is predetermined by nature and so much is dependent upon learning—happiness, the contentment with the status quo is only a fleeting feeling—“divine discontent” is the gift of our nature that brings moments of ecstasy and a life time of discontent—the present is such a fleeting part of our reality that we are almost always in the past or the future.

I think that a regular dose of solitude is very important for everyone, young and old. Does that make sense to you? I think that each individual needs to make radical adjustments in their attitude toward learning when school dazes are over. Solitude might be helpful in facilitating such adjustments.

This stuff comes from reading “Solitude: A Return to the Self” by Anthony Storr. Most of this is snatches of text that is sometimes a paraphrase and sometimes a quotation.

swivel
02-15-07, 07:56 AM
Great post. Sounds like a nice read.

I agree 100%. The part of my life that really made me who I am is the year I spent sailing around on a small boat by myself. I once went an entire week without uttering a single word aloud, and didn't see another person for almost three weeks.

Most people would think that this would make you feel nervous, or crazy... but only if you are not comfortable with your solitude. It felt serene and relaxing to me at the time.

And I've always thought that people spend too much time bouncing from one relationship to another and not spending enough time as a single person, figuring out who they are when not trying to impress others.

Search & Destroy
02-15-07, 08:59 AM
solitude forces introspection

Baron Max
02-15-07, 09:30 AM
Okay, let's say I think solitude is great. How much? How long? Is there too much solitude? Too little? Is it solitude when one surrounds himself with all the luxuries of life? Is it solitude when one sits alone munching on rich, expensive chocolate? Drinking fine wine?

I'm curious ....what, exactly, is solitude?

Baron Max

S.A.M.
02-15-07, 09:32 AM
Okay, let's say I think solitude is great. How much? How long? Is there too much solitude? Too little? Is it solitude when one surrounds himself with all the luxuries of life? Is it solitude when one sits alone munching on rich, expensive chocolate? Drinking fine wine?

I'm curious ....what, exactly, is solitude?

Baron Max

I think solitude is when you can be alone with yourself without feeling incomplete.

swivel
02-15-07, 09:34 AM
I think solitude is when you can be alone with yourself without feeling incomplete.

I thought that was Smugness.

coberst
02-15-07, 09:41 AM
Here is an expression one reader made to my OP on another forum.

Don't give me solitude
Because I'll have to try
To dig among my thoughts
To find a reason why.
Please busy me with work.
If there's time let me drink.
Give me philosophy
So I don't really think.
My Blackberry I need,
My cell phone and TV,
To occupy my mind.
Alone I can not be.

S.A.M.
02-15-07, 09:43 AM
I thought that was Smugness.

No for smugness, you need someone to feel superior over.:p

swivel
02-15-07, 10:16 AM
No for smugness, you need someone to feel superior over.:p

^^^ example? ^^^

:(

ladyhawk
02-16-07, 12:52 AM
Find solitude when and where you can. Even a moment is better than none. That is what meditation, prayer, any quite time is for, reflection and remembering all the things that are good in your life.

Mosheh Thezion
02-16-07, 01:05 AM
LSD can provide those same effects.

and is alot more fun than locking ones self up... all alone.


solitary confinement... messes people up.

but... ha... so does LSD.


-mt