Sex is Ridiculously Overrated

I find it kinda stupid that people put so much emphasis in sex. I mean... it's such a stupid taboo. What's wrong with sex?

I see sex more like a game or something like that. Of course, both players need to WANT to play. Don't get me wrong! LOL! And they also have to be mature enough to know what they are doing! And you have to think about the consequences. But, aside from all that, I find that couples are way too serious about sex. Sure there may be a romantic side to sex. But I think it's possible to have sex just for fun too! Maybe that's because I'm a man, though. I'm sure women attach a lot more emotions to sex.

Having said that, I don't find reasonable for couples to be so serious about sex. Yes, I'm talking about "cheating". I think cheating is stupid. A couple that "cheats" on each other is an insecure couple that don't trust each other. If they trusted each other, they would just let each other sleep with other people. What's the big deal? It's just sex!

So why do you guys (and gals, of course!) think about all this stuff? Do you think sex is overrated? Do you agree with my views or they are just plain stupid?

Do you think it's stupid of me to expect a rteasonably mature discussion about sex, in sciforums? LOL!!

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sex=reProduction=new life

 

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sex is the cause of all problems in the world

 

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sex causes global warming

 

WOA! That was quick! LOL!

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What's your point? I already infered it produces new life. So? That's what condoms are for! LOL!!!

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I noticed it warms up my room... LOL!

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There is some truth to that. Sex is used to sell cars.

 

if there was no sex
there would be no humans
who could care about global warming
which is actually just a load of bs

if everyone stopped having sex
we would be in the paradise called nothing
in 100 years

but if it was possible
we would already be there

 

Saving oneself for marriage

I, a 27 year-old male, am saving myself for marriage. Sex is definitely overrated. Life hasn't been bad without it and happiness can found through/in the Spirit and Christ.

 

O...k....

Anyways... any comments on the jealousy and insecurity that permeates traditional monogamous couples?

 

This is the opposite of the main theme of this thread. If it's overrated, it's no big deal to do it or not.

 

sex only becomes overrated if
1, your not getting any
2, your no good at it
3, your partners no good at it
4, your a porn star

 

Sex is too Sexy

 

jealousy and insecurity......from talking to other women.
Alot of men without even thinking, gawk and stare at other
women in the presence of their g/f or wives. They drool over
moviestars and porno sites and whatever else. The average woman
overtime does not feel like she is good enough and will never measure
up. Especially now with plastic surgery being all the rage.....everything is so fake, but men seem to be sucked into it all. Every guy seems to want a HOT g/f . Women's self esteem goes down everytime men start giving more attention to the blonde with the big boobs, then what they were talking about before she walked by. Self esteem down= jealousy goes up.

 

That's what I believed until I read this http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/20375023.html

Then I realized just how bad my life sucks, it is so bad I'm such a loser....

 

Sex is ridiculously underrated....I mean GREAT HOT sex is soooo underrated.......

Girls keep complaining about guys having hot gfs...wtf man get over it...low self-esteem comes from your own self within you....not everyone else, not society, your own f*cking self so stop blaming everyone else...

 

Maybe if the females would mate with me they might get a self-esteem boost?! :shrug:

 

No some guys settle for the average girl...........but drool over the hot girls that they don't have a friggen chance with. I am just saying do it on your own time. Give your partner some respect when you are out with them. I disagree, low self esteem over time can worsen by others.

 

1....:bawl:

 

LOL. I'm similar. I have always considered sex to be nothing more than a hobby like knitting.

However, I do not believe in cheating. If people are in a steady relationship, they should not be cheating on eachother. If they are in an open relationship where they can have sex with anybody, no big deal. If you want to cheat, you should not be in a steady relationsip. If in order to sleep with another person, you have to cheat (be dishonest about it to your SO), you should not be in a steady relationship.

You seem as if you are equating sex with playing cards. Sure if I have a significant other, we can play cards together as a hobby. We might have sex together. The difference is, there is no problem with playing cards with other people. There is a problem with making out or even having sex with other people. You actually believe that people in a steady relationship going around having sex with other people is no different from going out and playing cards with other people?