i was debating posting this and where to post it because it fits in health and fitness, here and in ethics but its a book so i will post it here. I havent read it yet but i do intend to buy it after lisserning to an interview with the author http://blogs.abc.net.au/sa/2009/07/...er-my-beautiful-kaisha-by-tania-swansson.html (that also has the audio from the interview)