Men are from mars

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  1. peta9 Registered Senior Member

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    Since males are prone to promiscuity, they understand it a lot better.

    They can separate love and sex or so they say. Actually, they like to do that. So why do men get upset when their girlfriends cheat or move onto other males?

    I thought they didn't consider sentimental attachments as sacred and/or consider them provisional. Why do they feel you belong to them and feel hurt that you betrayed an intimate and personal bond but when they do it, it's somehow okay?

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  3. Avatar smoking revolver Valued Senior Member

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    We come in peace!

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    p.s. I'm never upset, I absolutely respect the free will of another person.
     
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  5. peta9 Registered Senior Member

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    convenient answer
     
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  7. Avatar smoking revolver Valued Senior Member

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    And so it is. Nothing to bitch about though.

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    Hint - wild generalizations won't get you far.
     
  8. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    It probably has to do with the plethora of double standards associated with dating. By your own proclamation above, men have that capability and women don't, so naturally men are going to get angry that their woman, who isn't supposed be capable of doing something like that, does that.
    Yes I can separate love and sex but I'm the type that won't cheat if I'm in a commmitted relationship.
    Believe it or not, peta, lots of men don't and won't cheat on their women. *GASP!*


    Double standards, peta. Kinda like this double standard that whenever a couple breaks up, according to the girl, it's always the guy's fault; regardless of any low-life shit the girl could have done. She could have cheated on the guy with his best friend, but yet she would still say it's the guy's fault because he didn't pay enough attention to her or whatever.



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  9. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    When their girlfriends are only using the men for their money then use other men for money as well not for love or meaningful relationships. There's also the little problem of what diseases she might have picked up along the way, same as with men. When men PAY for a womans wants and needs then find them with someone else doing the same thing men tend to get very annoyed.
     
  10. Avatar smoking revolver Valued Senior Member

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    That's why I never give money or buy stuff. Friendships should be about people not material goods.
    Only to the best friends I sometimes loan money.
     
  11. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    Jealously doesn't necessarily come from sentimentality, but rather from possessiveness.
     
  12. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Like what Mikenostic said, the double standard thing.

    Like when guys mosh at metal concerts, that's normal, when a girl does it, she's either a hyper-androgenized mutant or a 'rabid feminist' who hates men because she secretly wants to be like them.
     
  13. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    I'd rather the women dance cheek to cheek doing a slow dance with me so that I can talk softly to her to wooo her into my life.

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  14. peta9 Registered Senior Member

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    hmm..so everyone agrees men are from mars.
     
  15. Avatar smoking revolver Valued Senior Member

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    I've seen noone to agree with you.
     
  16. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    Without reading peta. Your understanding is terminally ill and limited... LOL

    Proof:

    No. First. I do not claim to understand the word used to describe males. By you, that is. Promiscuity is that what it was. Please define.

    Ok I see what you are saying now sort of. I guess that one might say... that's how it goes? However, you must realize that the male gender is entirely innocent, given the right man. This is simply some sort of masculine defense or whatever--- you don't know guys! You might think you do... Who knows?

    Anyway. For now that is my say on this matter. Get back if you feel the speed... (need, i mean)

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  17. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    Men are likly from neptune. It isn't certain...
     
  18. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    Possibly saturn

    lol
     
  19. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Dang! What kind of men do you know? Seriously? They are more prone to cheating than women? Have you ever watched Maury?
     
  20. Tnerb Banned Banned

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    lol. Yeah... the whole sexist debate is pretty flippin rampid. Necessary I would suppose.
     
  21. Looney Whaaaaat? Registered Senior Member

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  22. peta9 Registered Senior Member

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    Wow, is that true? i was always suspicious...

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  23. Myles Registered Senior Member

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    Has anyone considered that it may be a natural drive in men to spread their genes around.The more females impregnated the better the chance of the male's genes surviving. Women can have one child every nine months or so, during which time a male could theoretically impregnate dozens of females.
    Possessivness can be explained in terms of depriving rivals of the opportunity of impregnating one's females.

    Watch how lots of other animals behave and you will see the principle I have described at work. Not very romantic but that's how it sems to be
     

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