I've been in love with a girl for the last year, she liked me and i liked her, but we didn't know we liked each other. I thought she liked my friend whom she's been friends with scince yr7, but she actually liked me i found out recently, i made her upset when i decided not to talk to her anymore because i didn't want to loose friendship with my friend whom i thought liked her aswell, i thought she was playing me....but she actually liked me, so much in fact that she cried when i snobbed her off(i found out recently)....after a few weeks of being a snob i went out with somebody eles, broke up after a week and now i'm back to liking the girl that i have been liking for the last year... She has very small feelings for me, but she is not expressing them because i hurt her before without knowing(heard from friend)....i like and may even LOVE this girl, we talk to each other and flirt around and make each other jealous by flirting round with other people, we can feel that we know we are making each other jealous....i dunno what to do, or what to say to make things rite after i screwed up before without knowing....plz, can sum1 give me advice on what to do? to make her mine....?
You really have to talk to her about the past and explain to her your vision of the future. Girls like to stay in the light and know what is going on....Lack of direction for the relationship really bothers a girl, even though she might not say anything, but deep inside, she's thinking about it. You guys also need to handle the jealousy issue. Some trust buildup is good. There should be common understanding on what is allowed and what is not....For example, if her culture is to kiss men on the cheek hello, then that's fine, but sleeping with others is not. Hope that helps.
Ok i tried reading the post but when you used the word "liked" 50 times in the first paragragh alone i got annoyed...so i'll have to rely on Flores's post to know the situation. Ok i don't get it but here are a few Universal ways to act with a girl 1) Respect her 2) Love her for who she is 3) Take her opinions into consideration 4) Take charge in matters 5) But don't be a flaming A-hole either 6) Be honest with her. Hope that helps
Well man, the advice that I can give you you will not like, but it is the best advice you can probably get (and not because it is from me). I have dealt with a lot of girls, and I have realized the ones I liked/loved the most came to me. That doesn't mean I went out with everyone that came to me, but don't chase a girl... you will your whole life! It will hurt for a while giving up on that person, but you will meet someone that you like just as much and they will chase you! How awsome will that be? I have witnessed too many guys miss out on life because they are too busy chasing that girl... trust me, the right person in life will already be going where you want to be. You can't change anyone.
