Is it better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved before?

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by [D]ejaVu`, Jun 14, 2003.

  1. [D]ejaVu` Registered Member

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    The loss of a love interest is part of every1's life, it happens to pretty much most of us. Wheather you broke up for certain reasons, stopped loving the other person...etc However, is it better to have not gone through this process of getting your heart broken? or does breaking of the heart make your heart stronger?
     
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  3. revbill2001 Registered Senior Member

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    Take heart

    It has been said that whatever does not kill you only serves to make you stronger. I fell in love with a girl in the seventh grade, yes we did our homework on stone tablets back then, and continued to love her even after she got pregnant by someone else while I was in bootcamp. You never forget your first love, but that doesn't mean you can't go on and find love again. Your first love will eventually fade and become a fond memory. Everyone has a soulmate somewhere, and if you are lucky, you will find out who. In the meantime, as the old song goes, "If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with."

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  5. FunK_FisH Registered Member

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    hmmm........it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
    We learn from the mistakes we made in the relationship and gain the experience......from the bed.......hehehe....jk

    But seriously, even people who have not been loved (how can that be, when we are loved at home and by our friends!) can love as good as people who have been "loved".

    .... :bugeye:
     
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  7. theonlyguyever omg met's lake out!!1 Registered Senior Member

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    It is better to try one's hand at love and lose, in my opinion.....

    Especially if she's putting out.

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  8. PacingYourName Registered Senior Member

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    Its better unless you cant get over them.

    5 years and going for me

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