For some reason that I can't fully explain, I get a little thrill out making other guys jealous and angry at me. I even go out of my way to do this, either by cutting in on their conversations with girls that I can tell they want and flirting with said girls in front of them, joking about how good I am at things, etc. Overall I get a kick out of rivalries and one-upping other guys and making them feel emasculated... and I'm usually pretty good at it, heh.

I never act this way toward girls, because well, I like girls and with the exception of myself, I look down on most guys.

While this is often fun for me, I think it sort of damages my character, which I wish I cared about more. And while I always have friends that are girls, I don't have much in the way of male friends.

Why do I do these things?

You sound like a real douche bag.

How old are you?

You sound like a real douche bag.



Worse than that, he's a cockblocker. Unforgivable.

I'm 24, and I'm actually very polite, punctual, and good-natured -- at least that's how girls usually characterize me.

And yes, it might be accurate to call me a jerk -- but if I'm a jerk then only to other guys am I jerk. And that's usually my aim. I think it's funny.

My question is: why do I think it's funny?

Because you're a douche bag?

You're probably going to get a severe beating at some point in time if you haven't already received one or two.

Better learn the kung fu.

I'm 24, and I'm actually very polite, punctual, and good-natured -- at least that's how girls usually characterize me.

And yes, it might be accurate to call me a jerk -- but if I'm a jerk then only to other guys am I jerk. And that's usually my aim. I think it's funny.

My question is: why do I think it's funny?

You know you're a (for lack of a better term) twit, when a so called 14 year old girl asks you:

"How old are you?"

And not in a good 'you're hot' kind of way. But in the "how old are you?" kind of way.

Or when they're just annoyed for some reason I don't care about.

Why do I do these things?

The troubled Adonis...sexy!

Or when they're just annoyed for some reason I don't care about.
Grrwwll....that exotic touch of ~indifference~. Hawt!

Know why you're a tool?

Pussy.
Despising his highly inadequate self, overcome with intense anxiety and a deep, profound loneliness when by his empty self, desperate to attach himself to any female in dim hopes of completing himself, in the mystical belief that by touching gold he'll turn to gold, the male craves the continuous companionship of women. The company of the lowest female is preferable to his own or that of other men, who serve only to remind him of his repulsiveness. But females, unless very young or very sick, must be coerced or bribed into male company.

Oh-ho!

The affect of fatherhood on males, specifically, is to make them `Men', that is, highly defensive of all impulses to passivity, faggotry, and of desires to be female. Every boy wants to imitate his mother, be her, fuse with her, but Daddy forbids this; he is the mother; he gets to fuse with her. So he tells the boy, sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly, to not be a sissy, to act like a `Man'. The boy, scared shitless of and `respecting' his father, complies, and becomes just like Daddy, that model of `Man'-hood, the all-American ideal — the well-behaved heterosexual dullard.

Kazam!

I'm not always pleased that I am this way, so keep that powder dry. I certainly don't think it's the ideal way to be... but for better or worse, it is me and I couldn't imagine being any other way barring a personality transplant.

And nay, I don't believe that pussy motivates me to do these specific things. It would be easier NOT to do these things, if that was all that drove me. Nor do I bribe or force myself on anyone or any of the other weird things you're imagining. It's very much just a desire to be mean and villainous, and I don't know why.

You know you're a (for lack of a better term) twit, when a so called 14 year old girl asks you:

"How old are you?"

And not in a good 'you're hot' kind of way. But in the "how old are you?" kind of way.

Wow Bells.... your so dumb...

What I was REALLY saying is... I find it very interesting. If he does do this, it shows he has alot of confidence which I love in boys. Also it shows he is a very smooth talker and quick minded to be able to know just what to say to turn the girls attention and keep it. Last it shows how intellectual he is. He questions his own thoughts, thought process, and intentions. This shows he wants to understand himself better. Most boys would never care to ask.

I was actually hopeing he was my age...



p.s. bells... never try to speak for me.. you embarase yourself.

Wow Bells.... your so dumb...


There is irony in there somewhere. I am sure you'll find it sooner or later.

What I was REALLY saying is... I find it very interesting. If he does do this, it shows he has alot of confidence which I love in boys. Also it shows he is a very smooth talker and quick minded to be able to know just what to say to turn the girls attention and keep it. Last it shows how intellectual he is. He questions his own thoughts, thought process, and intentions. This shows he wants to understand himself better. Most boys would never care to ask.
Actually, my dear, his behaviour reeks of one who is lacking in confidence. In that he needs to portray himself as being something he is not, he needs others to feel jealous of him. That does not say "confidence", Barbie. That says he is a twit, and as others have commented, a "douche bag" and a "tool".

Being able to gain a girl's attention and keep it is not a sign of intelligence, nor is it a sign of confidence. For example, he has been able to garner your attention with his post, so much so that you are simply going googly at the thought he might have been as young and immature as yourself. Being able to attract and maintain the attention of idiots does not make one intelligent. It just makes one a bigger idiot with the ability to draw in other idiots. I could give a political analogy here, but it would be lost on you.

Is he questioning his own thoughts? Or is he simply posting and saying "hey.. look how cool I am"?

I was actually hopeing he was my age...
Whatever age that may be.

p.s. bells... never try to speak for me..
Pardon me for daring to attribute even a minute amount of intelligence to you. I promise, it shall never happen again.

you embarase yourself.
Again! The irony.

I'm not always pleased that I am this way, so keep that powder dry.
Oh, but it pleases you greatly-- specifically when the little clit starts ignoring him.

Isn't that right?

And nay, I don't believe that pussy motivates me to do these specific things.
See that little Barbie girl up there? Imagine the look on her vacuous face when you're out playing Lancelot.

The adoration dripping like mud when she looks at you, the sound of a rival licking his wounds.

Why are you so indiscriminately nice to the female, then?

Nor do I bribe or force myself on anyone or any of the other weird things you're imagining
I didn't write it, Valerie did. (http://reactor-core.org/scum.html)

Wish I did though, the bitch rules!

I would imagine that you probably have some deep seated hatred for yourself. And the only way you can make yourself feel better is to cut other people down. The only way you can feel like your existence is validated is if you can make someone feel inadequate. I imagine You probably also tend to believe that the more woman you sleep with/take advantage of/rape, the better you feel about yourself. I would ask at this point, Have you ever been with a woman who wasn't crying or demanding payment? So why do you do this? Why do you think its funny, probably because you are an asshole who needs to make other people feel like shit to make yourself feel better. But in the end you are the one who wakes up every day and hates what he sees in the mirror. You are the one who spits at that image with hate in your mind. You are the one who can't figure out why you cry when you jerk off. You are the one who who has self esteem and inadequacy issues. Happy stroking douche bag.

Wow Bells.... your so dumb...

What I was REALLY saying is... I find it very interesting. If he does do this, it shows he has alot of confidence which I love in boys. Also it shows he is a very smooth talker and quick minded to be able to know just what to say to turn the girls attention and keep it. Last it shows how intellectual he is. He questions his own thoughts, thought process, and intentions. This shows he wants to understand himself better. Most boys would never care to ask.

I was actually hopeing he was my age...



p.s. bells... never try to speak for me.. you embarase yourself.

SO why don't you go and hang out with him BG14, see how you feel when he is done using your body for all it is worth, which can be gathered at face value. DO you think a person like this wants you for you? He wants you merely so that he can prove to himself that he can have you. This is the kind of guy who relaxes by torturing and skinning small animals and playing with their blood. How long before he makes the leap from animal to 14 year old naive girl. In a few years we will see this DBag on the news among the likes of Ted Bundy and Albert fish.

Good god, and I was finally starting to like you BG14, then you go and stick up for a sociopath like this... I'm tellin you girl, read up on your psychology!

I imagine You probably also tend to believe that the more woman you sleep with/take advantage of/rape, the better you feel about yourself.
Come on, look at him!

His hands squeak they're so clean, that's what I think- the modern effete who would kick your teeth in so long as a girl is watching, but look at the cowering dog cringe at the slightest hint of female rejection.


This is the comedy of our age, the female male.

Can you imagine Trylix here actually raping a woman?

Can you imagine Charlie here actually raping a woman?

Not without some ludes no, he is too cowardly, I imagine him being more like Jeffrey Dahmer, you know, getting them good and drunk and then giving them some sleeping pills to boot.

Sadly for him, but lucky for the girl, he wouldn't be able to get it up anyway...

The troubled Adonis...sexy!


Grrwwll....that exotic touch of ~indifference~. Hawt!

Know why you're a tool?

Pussy.
Despising his highly inadequate self, overcome with intense anxiety and a deep, profound loneliness when by his empty self, desperate to attach himself to any female in dim hopes of completing himself, in the mystical belief that by touching gold he'll turn to gold, the male craves the continuous companionship of women. The company of the lowest female is preferable to his own or that of other men, who serve only to remind him of his repulsiveness. But females, unless very young or very sick, must be coerced or bribed into male company.

Oh-ho!

The affect of fatherhood on males, specifically, is to make them `Men', that is, highly defensive of all impulses to passivity, faggotry, and of desires to be female. Every boy wants to imitate his mother, be her, fuse with her, but Daddy forbids this; he is the mother; he gets to fuse with her. So he tells the boy, sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly, to not be a sissy, to act like a `Man'. The boy, scared shitless of and `respecting' his father, complies, and becomes just like Daddy, that model of `Man'-hood, the all-American ideal — the well-behaved heterosexual dullard.

Kazam!

You're a psyco. get lost.

Eat me.

Whats the matter Thrylix? Too much truth for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable to start to realize how much of a worthless fart you are. How much of a mistake of humanity you represent? Is it too much for you to see that you are the epitome of just how low and base this world has become. You are the shinning example of the mass produced turd that this world spits out on a daily basis.

Gendanken, you are contagious!

I certainly don't think it's the ideal way to be... but for better or worse, it is me and I couldn't imagine being any other way barring a personality transplant.
Is it better or worse?
You don't know who you are. That is clear.

You don't know what the core of a being is, or that you even have one, if your definition comes solely by analyzing the quirky games you play with yourself. If you have other factors to define yourself with, then you should be able to see whether your actions line up with those ideals or not.

And then you will know how to feel.
And not have to ask other people how to feel.

Prescription: learn who you are - you are probably going to need deep interaction with people of the SAME sex and of the opposite sex to do that.

Don't listen to them. I think that the people being so mean to you are purely jealous. Most likely due to the fact that they had there girl friends taken from them in a similar way.

It is confidence that allows him to do this by the way, and masculinity. He may fear rejection, but it's obvious he doesn't get it that much. He knows he is good with girls. Add to that, that he looks other boys in the face and defies them regularly shows he isn't afraid of getting beat up. Smart, smooth, defiant, confident, independent, and even if he is a little dominant over women, males are saposed to be anyways.

It is very annoying when you meat one of those googily boys that like will do anything you say. What is rare, is a boy who knows he can get a milion other girls, so he doesn't have to treat you like a god. I personally like controling boys. As long as he isn't like super mean, it's natural for a guy to be dominant.

Ovcoarse Most of you I expect are not this way. But I bet for those of you on here who are, you know that girls choose confident, dominant boys over the shy, insecure, nice ones.


It is wrong for you guys to be so mean to him. He asked a question obviously based around psycology of his own mind. He asked it on a science forum where you guys are saposed to be professional and scientific about it.

Your not saposed to let your dumb boyish jealousy take over, and just be mean to him. This is year 2008. We are civilized. So stop attacking him before you make him mad and, he steels your girl.

Don't listen to them. I think that the people being so mean to you are purely jealous. Most likely due to the fact that they had there girl friends taken from them in a similar way.

It is confidence that allows him to do this by the way, and masculinity. He may fear rejection, but it's obvious he doesn't get it that much. He knows he is good with girls. Add to that, that he looks other boys in the face and defies them regularly shows he isn't afraid of getting beat up. Smart, smooth, defiant, confident, independent, and even if he is a little dominant over women, males are saposed to be anyways.

It is very annoying when you meat one of those googily boys that like will do anything you say. What is rare, is a boy who knows he can get a milion other girls, so he doesn't have to treat you like a god. I personally like controling boys. As long as he isn't like super mean, it's natural for a guy to be dominant.

Ovcoarse Most of you I expect are not this way. But I bet for those of you on here who are, you know that girls choose confident, dominant boys over the shy, insecure, nice ones.


It is wrong for you guys to be so mean to him. He asked a question obviously based around psycology of his own mind. He asked it on a science forum where you guys are saposed to be professional and scientific about it.

Your not saposed to let your dumb boyish jealousy take over, and just be mean to him. This is year 2008. We are civilized. So stop attacking him before you make him mad and, he steels your girl.

Ok, like I mean like you are doing , like stuff except, like. its not like school stuff like English and spelling like, the stuff like you should be like doing like and not like spending time on here like. Ok ?

Ignore the psycos. Keep on being you. How can you be anything else?

You're a douchebag, and you always will be.

Thrylix, listen to your heart and not your mind, be fair to yourself as you are fair to others.

I think that the people being so mean to you are purely jealous.

No, m'lady, I think it's more because people have a thing against those who go out of their way to be utter and complete skidwads.

And as to the psychological question, the first part is simple: He thinks it's funny to go out of his way to be a jerk to other guys (see post #5 (http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1819351) if you missed that part before) because that way he gets to keep being a prig and never has to feel badly about it. In fact, if it's funny, then we all owe him thanks for brightening our day with his humorous priggishness.

In other words, he thinks it's funny because in doing so, he excuses himself in his own mind.

The deeper question, as to why he's a jerk to people in the first place? Fear and loathing. Self-directed. Generally speaking some sort of dissonance in his gender identification. It would take hours of couch time before we could start understanding that part.

• • •


Can you imagine Trylix here actually raping a woman?

God damn it, Gendanken. We were trying not to.

• • •


Whats the matter Thrylix? Too much truth for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable to start to realize how much of a worthless fart you are. How much of a mistake of humanity you represent? Is it too much for you to see that you are the epitome of just how low and base this world has become. You are the shinning example of the mass produced turd that this world spits out on a daily basis.

Hell of a thesis there, Tiger! Keep at it. You know, those three little words. If at first you don't succeed, just try again.

• • •

If I cared enough to put on my green hat, I'd lock this and throw it to the Cesspool.

Oh, wait ... maybe not. I can think of something better to do with it.

Thrylix, listen to your heart and not your mind, be fair to yourself as you are fair to others.

He'd have to be a contortionist to put his ear on his chest. Come on, how about a more practical solution ?

He'd have to be a contortionist to put his ear on his chest. Come on, how about a more practical solution ?

more practical? What Thrylix feels is a reflection of his own soul, his own evil. He realizes this, yet does it again because it gives him pleasure. He is a warrior as far as I see, and if I was a warrior like him and get girls as he does, than I would be more careful whom I tread upon. That said, he can rejoice silently of those he has defeated, the loosers he has spit upon, but he must not make it public...because such will bring him problems. If he is to wield a sword in the name of evil, than he should do it intelligently and decisevely.

more practical? What Thrylix feels is a reflection of his own soul, his own evil. He realizes this, yet does it again because it gives him pleasure. He is a warrior as far as I see, and if I was a warrior like him and get girls as he does, than I would be more careful whom I tread upon. That said, he can rejoice silently of those he has defeated, the loosers he has spit upon, but he must not make it public...because such will bring him problems. If he is to wield a sword in the name of evil, than he should do it intelligently and decisevely.

Well. if only you'd said that in the first place !

there have been a couple of guys do this with PB, when they do i delibratly fade into the background and leave PB standing there with a vapid look on her face because its funny to when i walk back with a drink and we can say something like "sorry were you talking" or "sorry i fell asleep for a minute there"

Its fun to puncher over inflated ego's:D

There is irony in there somewhere. I am sure you'll find it sooner or later.


Actually, my dear, his behaviour reeks of one who is lacking in confidence. In that he needs to portray himself as being something he is not, he needs others to feel jealous of him. That does not say "confidence", Barbie. That says he is a twit, and as others have commented, a "douche bag" and a "tool".

Being able to gain a girl's attention and keep it is not a sign of intelligence, nor is it a sign of confidence. For example, he has been able to garner your attention with his post, so much so that you are simply going googly at the thought he might have been as young and immature as yourself. Being able to attract and maintain the attention of idiots does not make one intelligent. It just makes one a bigger idiot with the ability to draw in other idiots. I could give a political analogy here, but it would be lost on you.

Is he questioning his own thoughts? Or is he simply posting and saying "hey.. look how cool I am"?


Whatever age that may be.


Pardon me for daring to attribute even a minute amount of intelligence to you. I promise, it shall never happen again.


Again! The irony.

Now we have a grown man insulting teenage girls. I see that this tawdry little episode has (predictably) taken a nosedive straight into the virtual cesspool.

who said bells is a guy?

She definitly isnt

Whats the matter Thrylix? Too much truth for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable to start to realize how much of a worthless fart you are. How much of a mistake of humanity you represent? Is it too much for you to see that you are the epitome of just how low and base this world has become. You are the shinning example of the mass produced turd that this world spits out on a daily basis.

Gendanken, you are contagious!


I went to sleep. So very sorry. :shrug:

The lot of you seem to think I rape/bribe/abuse women in general. That's really quite untrue. It seems the threatened are only calmed when they are saying nasty things to someone for whom they have an irrational hatred. When they run out real things to say, they'll simply make them up. That's the undying hallmark of petty individuals with no brains or lives of their own -- and it makes for a very malicious person indeed.

OMG I so agreeeee.

who said bells is a guy?


bells is a guy?! :eek: all the mother talk...

OMG I so agreeeee.
Me too. You're just doing what comes naturally. The drive to reproduce is powerful, and cares not for 'courtesy' or 'civility', or any of those prissy human concepts. Man, you're like a silverback gorilla with a hard-on. You go, boy - fuck 'em and chuck 'em!!

(God, I bet gorillas dicks are huge!!! Possibly.)

Ok, like I mean like you are doing , like stuff except, like. its not like school stuff like English and spelling like, the stuff like you should be like doing like and not like spending time on here like. Ok ?

I loled my ass off!

OMG I so agreeeee.

Good for you BG! I'm sure at 14 years of age you're just the smartest person here aren't you.

Good for you BG! I'm sure at 14 years of age you're just the smartest person here aren't you.

intelligence is measured by circumference of the ass and not by size of the brain, ditto

I went to sleep. So very sorry. :shrug:

The lot of you seem to think I rape/bribe/abuse women in general. That's really quite untrue. It seems the threatened are only calmed when they are saying nasty things to someone for whom they have an irrational hatred. When they run out real things to say, they'll simply make them up. That's the undying hallmark of petty individuals with no brains or lives of their own -- and it makes for a very malicious person indeed.

I am not threatened by you. I have a girlfriend who would never lower herself to the level of someone like you. Malicious? Yes I can be a little malicious. But that is how I deal with someone who treats other people like shit. So while I may be a little malicious, at least I am not a sociopath.

Don't listen to them. I think that the people being so mean to you are purely jealous. Most likely due to the fact that they had there girl friends taken from them in a similar way.


Sweety, you don't need to lick at the guy's private bits anymore. You had each other at "hello".

It is confidence that allows him to do this by the way, and masculinity. He may fear rejection, but it's obvious he doesn't get it that much. He knows he is good with girls. Add to that, that he looks other boys in the face and defies them regularly shows he isn't afraid of getting beat up. Smart, smooth, defiant, confident, independent, and even if he is a little dominant over women, males are saposed to be anyways.
Males are supposed to be dominant over women?

HAHAHAAAA!

So you're going to bend over and say "spank me big boy"?

It isn't confidence that makes him act like a tool. It is the lack of confidence in himself and his personality that makes him act like and be a tool.

It is very annoying when you meat one of those googily boys that like will do anything you say. What is rare, is a boy who knows he can get a milion other girls, so he doesn't have to treat you like a god. I personally like controling boys. As long as he isn't like super mean, it's natural for a guy to be dominant.
Refer to above.

To add, you must be very popular with the boys in your school. And no, I don't mean that in a good way.

Ovcoarse Most of you I expect are not this way. But I bet for those of you on here who are, you know that girls choose confident, dominant boys over the shy, insecure, nice ones.
Yes. There are some women who actively seek out men who are cowards and pretend to be confident and dominant. They are usually the ones who end up rushing to battered women's shelters or the local emergency room when the twit starts asserting his dominance and so called confidence.

It is wrong for you guys to be so mean to him. He asked a question obviously based around psycology of his own mind. He asked it on a science forum where you guys are saposed to be professional and scientific about it.
Read his OP. He asked for our opinion of his personality and we told him he was a douche bag, a tool and a twit.

Your not saposed to let your dumb boyish jealousy take over, and just be mean to him. This is year 2008. We are civilized. So stop attacking him before you make him mad and, he steels your girl.
Damn. He's too old for you dear. But then again, he could try asserting his confidence in jail. I'm sure Harold would make his shower time a pleasant experience. Think he can be confident there?

Being a woman, I personally find idiotic males who view themselves like Thrylix does with quite a bit of amusement. But then again, one really should not laugh at the mentally challenged.

Now we have a grown man insulting teenage girls. I see that this tawdry little episode has (predictably) taken a nosedive straight into the virtual cesspool.
If I had nuts, I'd re-adjust them right now!

That's it, be the dominant one and defend her honour! Go on now... I feel the need for some slapstick amusement.

This thread was bound for the Cesspool when you started it. Don't blame us if we are actually honest about your personality traits.

The lot of you seem to think I rape/bribe/abuse women in general. That's really quite untrue. It seems the threatened are only calmed when they are saying nasty things to someone for whom they have an irrational hatred. When they run out real things to say, they'll simply make them up. That's the undying hallmark of petty individuals with no brains or lives of their own -- and it makes for a very malicious person indeed.
Whoa!

So manly! Did you stamp your foot down in disgust as you typed that? Flounce around a bit?

Be a 'manly man'!

intelligence is measured by circumference of the ass and not by size of the brain, ditto

Then Barbie got back yo!

Ok, like I mean like you are doing , like stuff except, like. its not like school stuff like English and spelling like, the stuff like you should be like doing like and not like spending time on here like. Ok ?

*Snigger*

For some reason that I can't fully explain, I get a little thrill out making other guys jealous and angry at me. I even go out of my way to do this, either by cutting in on their conversations with girls that I can tell they want and flirting with said girls in front of them, joking about how good I am at things, etc. Overall I get a kick out of rivalries and one-upping other guys and making them feel emasculated... and I'm usually pretty good at it, heh.

I never act this way toward girls, because well, I like girls and with the exception of myself, I look down on most guys.

While this is often fun for me, I think it sort of damages my character, which I wish I cared about more. And while I always have friends that are girls, I don't have much in the way of male friends.

Why do I do these things?

Because you are underchallenged.
You don't do enough with yourself and about yourself.
You only take on things that are easy for you to do.

Get into a basketball team or a soccer team, somewhere where you actually have to sweat and show skill.
Start training for a marathon.
Take a class in rhetorics, join Toastmasters - somewhere where your verbal input will be critically evaluated by others whose minds are many times sharper than yours.

Whoa!

So manly! Did you stamp your foot down in disgust as you typed that? Flounce around a bit?

Be a 'manly man'!

From what I've just been told about you from other members here, it sounds to me as though you're the one with an agenda here. I am definitely not someone that you wish to tangle with... and since you have no reason to attack me, I would suggest that you simply do not. Right now, judging by your highly critical (not to mention angry) attitude towards men, you are beginning to sound like one of those overcompensating feminists who despises anyone who doesn't also hate men like yourself. Do yourself a favor, and try not to set the women's movement back a hundred years by perpetuating gender chauvinism. Just do your best to be a good girl, and maybe you won't need to spend the next New Year's day alone, crying and drunk the way you did this time around. Yes, I have ears all over the place. Now, shoo.

Oh, but it pleases you greatly-- specifically when the little clit starts ignoring him.

Isn't that right?


That's correct. It makes me grin.


The adoration dripping like mud when she looks at you, the sound of a rival licking his wounds.


Yup.

Why are you so indiscriminately nice to the female, then?


For the reasons above. I like girls.

I am not threatened by you. I have a girlfriend who would never lower herself to the level of someone like you. Malicious? Yes I can be a little malicious. But that is how I deal with someone who treats other people like shit. So while I may be a little malicious, at least I am not a sociopath.

I think you are taking him too seriously. I see him as someone who has yet to get his leg over, and who compensates by lying.

For some reason that I can't fully explain, I get a little thrill out making other guys jealous and angry at me. I even go out of my way to do this, either by cutting in on their conversations with girls that I can tell they want and flirting with said girls in front of them, joking about how good I am at things, etc. Overall I get a kick out of rivalries and one-upping other guys and making them feel emasculated... and I'm usually pretty good at it, heh.

I never act this way toward girls, because well, I like girls and with the exception of myself, I look down on most guys.

While this is often fun for me, I think it sort of damages my character, which I wish I cared about more. And while I always have friends that are girls, I don't have much in the way of male friends.

Why do I do these things?

Sounds like something a guy with a really tiny ween would do, to try and overcompensate. So in SHORT, i'd say you're a tool. This doesn't require any deep analysis.

Thread over.

...

Why do I do these things?

Sex.

Being able to dominate other males in this fashion is a primitive ape-like way of getting females to think you're the alpha male. More psychologically mature women will see through this and see it as a sign of low self-esteem. Really powerful men can lay low and don't have to show off.

I don't get it. Is he making people jealous of him or just making people hate him?

For some reason that I can't fully explain, I get a little thrill out making other guys jealous and angry at me. I even go out of my way to do this, either by cutting in on their conversations with girls that I can tell they want and flirting with said girls in front of them, joking about how good I am at things, etc. Overall I get a kick out of rivalries and one-upping other guys and making them feel emasculated... and I'm usually pretty good at it, heh.

I never act this way toward girls, because well, I like girls and with the exception of myself, I look down on most guys.

While this is often fun for me, I think it sort of damages my character, which I wish I cared about more. And while I always have friends that are girls, I don't have much in the way of male friends.

Why do I do these things?

Still stomping ants, I assume.. ?

This is the comedy of our age, the female male.



Nice one. You just insulted half the human race.

I was tempted to just call you a douchebag, but you seem to want to change, so I think I'll actually post something constructive. You do it because you are insecure, so you resort to starting pointless pissing competitions. You need to start judging yourself, and others, by real qualities, not by superficial shit like 'who can score the most good looking girls'. You need to realize that scoring points by making other people jealous does not make you more of a man, it just means you're indulging in a meaningless game of one-upmanship. You need to accept that no, your dick is not going to drop off if you cease constantly maintaining a 'hard man' veneer. You're already a man. You have a Y chromosome. That's not going to melt because you didn't get off with some other guy's good looking girlfriend.

Don't listen to them. You are obviously not insecure. if you had any bit of insecurity, you would not do that.

It takes a lot of confidence to be able to cut off another guy. It takes alout of dominance to be able to keep that guy from hurting you. Add to that the confidence you need to talk to girls. Girls listen to you, turn there attention to you, and have an interest in you its obvious. Your attractive, smart, confidant, dominant. What is there to be insecure about?

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.

Don't listen to them. You are obviously not insecure. if you had any bit of insecurity, you would not do that.

It takes a lot of confidence to be able to cut off another guy. It takes alout of dominance to be able to keep that guy from hurting you. Add to that the confidence you need to talk to girls. Girls listen to you, turn there attention to you, and have an interest in you its obvious. Your attractive, smart, confidant, dominant. What is there to be insecure about?

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.

Do you honestly think he will listen to any of us ? The OP proves his arrogance..

Sooo.. You guys never listen to me, and I still try.

I think you are taking him too seriously. I see him as someone who has yet to get his leg over, and who compensates by lying.

Yeah, I'm starting to see this too. I think he's a trolling sock puppet.

I don't get it. Is he making people jealous of him or just making people hate him?
'Eh, he's just a douche bag...

'Eh, he's just a douche bag...

:bravo::roflmao:

Don't listen to them. You are obviously not insecure. if you had any bit of insecurity, you would not do that.

It takes a lot of confidence to be able to cut off another guy. It takes alout of dominance to be able to keep that guy from hurting you. Add to that the confidence you need to talk to girls. Girls listen to you, turn there attention to you, and have an interest in you its obvious. Your attractive, smart, confidant, dominant. What is there to be insecure about?

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.

Any girl who is dumb enough to not ba able to see through this guys BS deserves what she gets from him. Keep it up BG14, see how a guy like this treats you in the long run.

Sooo.. You guys never listen to me, and I still try.

I always listen..err.. read what you say.. err.. write ;)

:bravo::roflmao:

I love you Shi :D

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.'

You assume smart people are not high up on the dating ladder? I beg to differ.;)

Sooo.. You guys never listen to me, and I still try.

We never listen to you because everythign you say is crap! If you can't see this guys BS you are blind, and if youi like guys like this, your a goddamn retard!

I love you Shi :D

Your high up on my dating ladder skaught :shh:

Your high up on my dating ladder skaught :shh:

:o Really!!! Hehehe

Don't listen to them. You are obviously not insecure. if you had any bit of insecurity, you would not do that.

It takes a lot of confidence to be able to cut off another guy. It takes alout of dominance to be able to keep that guy from hurting you. Add to that the confidence you need to talk to girls. Girls listen to you, turn there attention to you, and have an interest in you its obvious. Your attractive, smart, confidant, dominant. What is there to be insecure about?

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.

See? It works.

ok.,this to the thread starter.
how often does your cut in actually lead to something?
i have met someone who acts quite a lot like you,he is 28 and has only had one girlfriend (and only had sex with that same girl).
he is overall a nice guy, a little weird tho.if you are the same as him,the only reason no one has beaten the crap out of you is
1.because no one can believe anyone is as much of an asshole as that
2.they know that talk as you might you are not going to go home with the girl
3.they feel bad because your arrogance is much misplaced and to put you in your place they would have to say things which would hurt you very deeply.

sooooooo.generally this leads to situations where even if you have male friends they will gradually cut you out.and if you are straight,the saddest thing you can be is a guy with all girl friends..cause u know what?they dont stick around.
another guy i know,lots of girlfriends very few guy friends...he became unemployed,couldnt take them out to dinner/drinks anymore,guess what happened?
and i guarantee you the girls who will accept you butting in on a conversation and bragging are not the ones who will be your actual friends.they will be the attention loving girly girls.

I love you Shi :D

http://tn3-2.deviantart.com/fs16/300W/f/2007/194/9/c/Hug__by_daskull.jpg

http://tn3-2.deviantart.com/fs16/300W/f/2007/194/9/c/Hug__by_daskull.jpg

And a big hug back to you Enmos! :D

LOL I feel loooved ! :D

LOL I feel loooved ! :D

Thats because I just wuv you so vewy vewy muchy wuchy!!!!:p

Don't listen to them. You are obviously not insecure. if you had any bit of insecurity, you would not do that.

It takes a lot of confidence to be able to cut off another guy. It takes alout of dominance to be able to keep that guy from hurting you. Add to that the confidence you need to talk to girls. Girls listen to you, turn there attention to you, and have an interest in you its obvious. Your attractive, smart, confidant, dominant. What is there to be insecure about?

You just have to remember this is a science forum. Though Most of them are smart, there also insecure and geeks too. They are not that high up on the dating ladder. This is why they resent you.

Ok, like at your age, like , you would like understand such stuff, like when, like you should be like doing like your scholwork like.Like, what career like have you in mind like ?

Ok, like at your age, like , you would like understand such stuff, like when, like you should be like doing like your scholwork like.Like, whay career like have you in mind like ?

:bawl:

Mod Hat — Comment and closure

I cannot believe this topic was redirected to EM&J. Especially with such dripping insincerity. I shouldn't have bothered even trying to take this thing seriously last night.

Seriously, people: Get a clue, get a grip, or get a life.


It is wrong for you guys to be so mean to him. He asked a question obviously based around psycology of his own mind. He asked it on a science forum where you guys are saposed to be professional and scientific about it.

Take the note, m'lady: He never was interested in the psychology. Look at his subsequent participation: He puffs his chest for you (http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1819533&postcount=31), engages a petty fight (http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1819538), exercises his machismo just a bit more (http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1819715), and otherwise utterly fails to show any interest in advancing any aspect purporting toward causes, solutions, or the psychological issue in general.

It was, in fact, the merit of your appeal that kept this topic open as long as it has been. But now I've got someone complaining about this topic, and, given that the topic poster has shown no interest in the merit you alleged, so it's time to put this one down.

Learning when to trust people is a complicated, often messy affair ne'er finished. However—and this is a nickel's worth of free advice—you're better off, at Sciforums, betting on insincerity. In case you hadn't noticed, this place bleeds the stuff.

There are sincere people here, but if you can't tell the difference ....

Anyway, yeah. This one's done.