View Full Version : How to face love-sick ?


Saint
12-10-05, 09:18 AM
suicide?
angry?
sad?

spuriousmonkey
12-10-05, 09:20 AM
stalking

Avatar
12-10-05, 09:23 AM
find something other to do

whitewolf
12-10-05, 09:30 AM
Read a book.

Harlequin
12-10-05, 10:30 AM
Fuck someone else. Works a treat - basically, the only reason you fall in love to begin with is so that you can procreate. By having it away with your sister's best friend, you essentially eliminate the reason for being in love to begin with.

tablariddim
12-10-05, 11:00 AM
Oh the pain of being love sick!

Pluck up the courage and tell them or find someone else, don't wallow in the grief, it's not healthy.

Baron Max
12-10-05, 11:39 AM
For a permanent solution, suicide probably works best. All other solutions are temporary, at best, and offer little or no real comfort for the sickness.

But if there's no courage to take that way out, get drunk as a skunk and stay that way for a year or so ...after that time, more than likely the love-sickness will be over and you can start a new life.

Baron Max

Harlequin
12-10-05, 11:52 AM
Now there's a thought - fuck someone else while completely drunk, for a year.

Now that would be even more effective.

water
12-10-05, 12:20 PM
How to face love-sick ?

suicide?
angry?
sad?

1. Take off your rose-colored glasses and focus on the negative aspects of the other person (unless the person is absolutely perfect and without flaws).

2. Change your mindset/perspective/way of looking at the world. We create our own heavens and hells.

3. Meditate so that you can clear your mind of the greed, hatred, and delusion that got you into the mess in the first place!


You'll be back on your feet again in no time.

Xerxes
12-10-05, 12:28 PM
You don't have to medidate, change your mindset, or otherwise try to escape the pain. Just continue living and having fun.

Communist Hamster
12-10-05, 01:42 PM
Get over it.

devils_reject
12-10-05, 01:50 PM
Just think about how evil people are perfectly capable of being, all people even females. Thats the one thing most media and society hide from us

Ophiolite
12-10-05, 02:04 PM
Learn to play blues guitar. Practice a minimum of six hours a day.

sargentlard
12-10-05, 03:50 PM
Learn to play blues guitar. Practice a minimum of six hours a day.


Brilliant. Make some money of the pain...

c7ityi_
12-10-05, 05:51 PM
Accept that there's no point with anything and suffer for the rest of your life.

But a good thing is to know that love exists only for procreation, it's not our own will, it's not "real", so it's no big deal.

Fraggle Rocker
12-10-05, 05:54 PM
Did you have a relationship and it didn't work? Did you ask her out a couple of times and she refused? Is there some external reason such as family, religion, or she left town, that you can't pursue it? Or did you not have the nerve, self-confidence, or whatever to try?

Each of these situations has a different answer.

If it didn't work, that's the easiest to recover from. You both tried, it didn't work, that's fate. Just be patient with yourself. Everybody's different so there's no rule to go by, but you will heal.

If you never had a relationship at all, or if external factors made it impossible, that's also something that will heal because there's no memories to haunt you.

If she turned you down, that's the most difficult. How the hell does she know you guys couldn't make it if you never had the chance? She was judging you on some pretty shallow criteria like looks or how other people regard you, or she was just playing games and toying with you. Remind yourself that only a shallow person would do that and think how awful it would be to be attached to someone that annoying.

Whatever the reason for you not being able to have her, it doesn't mean you have to ever stop loving her. Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't, but it works out either way. The feeling will become part of who you are, one of the things you went through even if you went through it alone. It will take its place in a warm little corner of your heart with your other sweet memories, and make room to love someone that you can have. Like all experiences good or bad, it will make you stronger.

Good luck.

poliwog
12-11-05, 12:00 AM
Have you ever spoken to her? If not, try it. You might find out that shes a real bitch. If shes not, talk to her more often, try to hang out in her clique. There is a good chance that will get her attention.

If thats not the case, and shes like your best friend or something, well I can't help ya there. I've got problems in that dept. myselfe. :)

Saint
12-11-05, 12:07 AM
i suggest that make sure you fuck your girl before she clings to otherm man.

moementum7
12-11-05, 12:41 AM
Learn to become a man, and what that entails.
From this moment on, commit to yourself that you are going to do what ever it takes to learn to become the kind of man that can attract the woman you truly desire.
Do it.

The fact that your attracting unhealthy women is a sign of your own character defects.
This is great!
This means that you have the control to change this.

Work on yourself and the rest will fix itself.

And dont EVER give your balls away to another woman.
Period.

sargentlard
12-11-05, 01:39 AM
And dont EVER give your balls away to another woman.
Period.

I can not stress this enough.

Roman
12-11-05, 08:12 AM
Also, you probably shouldn't cut your balls off over football (http://sport.scotsman.com/rugby.cfm?id=150262005).

Communist Hamster
12-11-05, 09:26 AM
Ouch. Good thing he cut his balls off too, we wouldn't want people like that reproducing.

Ophiolite
12-11-05, 09:43 AM
Brilliant. Make some money of the pain...Much more than that sargent. As you practice the blues guitar - remember, a nminimum of six hours per day - your grief will transform into melancholy, that will inahabit your playing style, which will be enhanced thereby. Your self confidence and self esteem will grow as others comment on your skill. You will realise that the failed love affair, or unrequinted love has provided the power to give you this new skill and new self perception. In short, what seemed like a disaster will have been transformed by your own actions to a major success. You have control of your life.
[And you might make some money on the side.]

lackofskill
12-11-05, 05:38 PM
jsut dont care about it, its hard to do and its really hard but thats what chu gotta do.....Thats the best strategy for meeting new peps to act yourself and never fade....chu jsut gotta do it..

archibring
12-11-05, 09:17 PM
just love who your love. tell her your love. and make your best to get her love. i believe you will be successful if you don`t give up.

spuriousmonkey
12-11-05, 10:10 PM
just love who your love. tell her your love. and make your best to get her love. i believe you will be successful if you don`t give up.

Exactly what i said: stalk her or him.