If you indeed fall in love with her forever, how would you know that you have fallen in love to start with? Do you have a series of parameters which, in your mind would indicate that "Yes, I am now in love with her"?
draqon you dont make yourself fall in love, infact if she is your first sexual partner the chances are you will break up. Just make sure your both getting out of the relationship what you both need and that nither of you is sacrificing for the other because if your not you wont last. Just relax and see where it goes, dont expect to be together forever just be with eachother NOW
My love is across states and countries. And only have 50 days to fall in love, because in 50 days she will be leaving this country as her visa expires and she will not be able to come back here for another 3 years. My love is not about sex, neither is it what she seeks from it. I like her, I like her ideas, I like how she looks, I like her future goals, I simply love her. But I want to love more of her, I want to love everything in her, every inch of her body, every word she speaks, her eyes, her hair, the way she smells. I want to see past the imperfections I see in her, I want to see past that and love her the way she is and make her my ideal.
That is solved by self-love. But understand that you love that of you that is not you, but a gift of spirit bestowed by God. Got that?
draqon you have a couple of choices, you can either move to a sexual relationship (ie have sex) or not and keep the relationship as it is. Nither of these garentiee that the relationship will last and i have to tell you as someone who has had a long distance relationship, they are HARD and a point will come where you either need to move close to eachother or end it. Friendships MAYBE able to survive long distance but relationships need proximitie. Ie you need to kiss, hug, have sex ect to keep the relationship bound together. Good luck but trust me its hard and i only lived a state away from my now partner (i moved here to be with her because i couldnt keep going on being so far away)
How do you know it is her? As in 'I found her' How do you know you are not falling in love? I don't think this is something one plans and follows through on. Spend as much time with her as you want to. Given the timeline, perhaps express yourself a bit more openly and see how that feels. Give her a chance to know you. Of course this may show you both that you are not in love. But that is not a bad thing either, however sad. It is not bad as in, it is not a reason not to show yourself to her.
You don't. Falling "in-love" is infatuation and is only temporary. What happens beyond that is friendship and the deeper and more honest it is, the longer the relationship will last.
Oh that's easy. Just put her on an ideological pedestal (in your mind) and nurture your own belief that she's perfect, and you guys will be together forever. DO IT! Don't listen to all these nay-sayers that tell you not to fall in love. BTW--- if your relationship fails, the pain you will experience is normal. You aren't a man until you've surpassed the "trial by fire" of heartache.
Don't force yourself to fall in love. After 50 days you may need to get up and that is not a pleasant experience.
Make yourself fall in love? You are going about this the wrong way. If you meet someone and find that you can't stop thinking about them and want to spend every free moment with them........ You are starting to fall in love.
Practice, practice, practice. You have to do it wrong many times before you get it right. In fact, most people don't ever get it right. The closest I ever got to getting it right was falling in love with a lesbian who really wasn't a lesbian but still hasn't figured that out about herself. Life goes on. To the other, if you think you've found "her", then you don't need our advice. You're already tumbling hopelessly.
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My wife and I have been together for over half of our lives and I'm not quite 32. Even if you know you are meant to be, you should never assume it will be easy to stay together forever. It will always be work and sometimes the work is hard. From what I've seen, it's worth it to try. If it doesn't work out, you will know that much more about yourself and what you need in a partner.
Indeed. Romantic love is just bad chemicals in your brain. But is sure is fun for a while (or at least it can be, if the feelings are reciprocal). Unrequited love is not fun at all.
You must kill her, then feed the remains to a girl, make her pregnant and, when the time comes, you'll love the child till your final hour.
