I'm just wondering being a virgin myself if anyone on the forums has actually gotten a 1 night stand? I can't believe it's possible, especially since I live at home. What advice can you offer for someone that doesn't drink alcohol or go out much, besides hookers :-Z~

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Still living at home at 25? Hardly a surpise that you are a virgin.

I agree with Ron, you should go out more. For several years at least.

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yes she wasnt too hot

Same.

Travelling breaks down many inhibitions and rational thought - I found some drunk people, started chatting to them at the campsite, got drunk with them and... well, you know. A lightweight 2 man tent stuffed with backpacking gear is seriously uncomfortable though.
Parties are good, too.

Alcohol is the easiest way though.

im too young to have had a one night stand yet, but going to clubs are usually a good way of finding girls who are up for one night stands, im going on the presumption a one night stand is what you want. even if you dont drink most of the women will be plastered. however
a.) make sure that they definately are consenting as that is usually the way most rape cases start
b.)for fuck sake use protection otherwise you may well end up paying for it (literally) for the rest of your life

that kind of response is why you have yet to have sex

Most people meet most of the people they date at work. Do you work in an environment where it's easy to get to know the people you work with? It is, after all, the place where you spend most of your time.

No but I've had plenty of like, 0.5 night stands.

Go to a club, I went once so far in my life and there are many people there just wanting to meet and talk with someone else. They are friendly right away and people will immedietely come up to you to start a conversation. Good thing is you don't have to drink. The clubs I went to was in London. I don't know about anywhere else.

I changed my mind, your too sick for someone to like you. DOn't go out!

yeah, a fair number.
all in all, not that much fun. usually they're intoxicated and not very practiced on you - both factors which can lead to poor showing.

frankly I'd rather be the entertainment than entertain some chick. if there's a party I'd rather play music for the people than be the guy dancing trying to get the girl.

Oh yeah. About 75 to 80 I think since 1982 or so. Of course I don't get it as often now, being out of the bar scene and all. Just go to another town and get drunk at a bar with women around. Don't have to be Coyote Ugly, just a regular bar, preferably in a resort or college town. Do that often enough you'll get it.

I haven't, nor have I ever felt inclined to, nor do I ever think I will feel inclined to...

i had a one nite stand with my brothers best friend. then the guy was like i love u and i want to be with u for the rest of my life and was stalking me. i told my brother and he just laughted at me and didn't really care but told his friend if he came near me he was smash him

I can't believe it's possible
Can't believe it's possible?? Good grief, where do you live? If I were interested in one night stands I could manage one every night of the week where I am.

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