So tell me just how exactly important is an orgasm to women? Is it somthing that we women take for granted and that we almost deserve? so is it important to you? or is it not so important has long has the sex is good?
To me good sex goes hand in hand with having an orgasm. Who wants to have sex and not climax male/female ? :shrug:
I have a friend who told me she never orgasms while having sex, when I asked why she does it since it only seemed like sex was an unnecessary risk for her... she just said she enjoyed the act of doing it. To each their own I guess.
Sex is not only about the orgasm since you can effectively have an orgasm all on your own, soothing touch and intimacy are just as important as the blessed orgasm but in general sex is a much more powerful exprience with climax than without one.
An orgasm's important, but not the end-all be-all. "When you're stuck in an elevator and you gotta get down, you gotta do it any way you can, even if it's only with a shovel." Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
What does 'getting down' have to do with getting an orgasm (apart from the receiver) ? And what are you going to use the shovel for ? :bugeye:
for my girl, it is important for me, that she has an orgasm. without her getting an orgasm, I do not fill satisfied.
Mike...I can honestly say I have never faked one. Do that many women really fake it? or is that just some more BS someone came up with.
From what I understand, quite a few do. Some do it so they don't disappoint their man. Some do it so they can just get it over with. Neither are acceptable to me. I would personally rather be ineffective than decieved.
How do you know when draqons girlfriend has an orgasm? Because draqons at work! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
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Orgasms remind me of the movie Cars. If you focus on the destination, you miss all the wonderful things on the journey. If I reach the destination, fine. If not, fine. The journey is just as amazing. And if I reach the destination in 1 journey, even better.
If I don't climax then it negates the "amazing journey". Because I won't be satisfied, just frustrated. It's not like it's all that complicated or takes all that long. If I were one of those women that took 3 days to orgasm then maybe I'd settle for that, but I'm not one of those women, so I can't be satisfied with getting all of the excitement and none of the fun. Like waiting line for a awesome ride and it breaks when your next in line.
yeah but than the man learns about it and feels like **** for taking advantage of her body for his own pleasure meanwhile she is just doing it for the hell of it. Like it bothers me kind of...you know.