is he the one? i have been going out with this guy for about eleven months and he feels like im the one for him and visa-versa. I do to. Everything that's been happening ends up to looking at fate. We feel so strongly for each other, and he says he loves me. I love him to. We both say we have never felt this way for anyone evre before.Im only fifteen andhe's sixteen. Is there such thing as this being the one for me? Highschool sweethearts? How can you tell if he is the one for you? Help please what if u feel in your heart that there truly isn't anyone else for you? Can anyone help me, im using my sister Nakita's *ashenlees* name ashenlee cuz i need advice really bad. and sh e so suks at it help!

give it time... youll get sick of each other as you grow up and get on with your life


if he is the one..... youll meet him again in a bar 10 years later and "the love will blossom"

but what do i know... im a guy....

I'm with the Canadian guy, why rush love. You have so much more of life to consume. Keep your legs crossed and don't let yourself be rushed into anything.

First love is a hard and painful ride. ;)

Originally posted by AshenLee
Can anyone help me, ...

Enjoy it while you can as long as you don’t loose your head in the process. At your age, there are still lots to learn, not just about love but mostly about your own individual selves. I suggest that you both take it with precaution as a learning experience with respect and sensitivity to one another. Always keeping in mind that your developments are just beginning and the things that you’re valuing now, the things that you are accepting now from one another, with certainty will be very different as you grow to adulthood. So, put your minds to it, since it is the mind the one that you are actually training at this moment, but be careful about investing to heart that is still too fragile.

Have fun!
;)

Well, eleven moth’s relation at 15 is well above average. Since your question is directed at the puzzle, Highschool sweethearts for ever? Well, if he would remain as he is, and if you will remain as you are until adulthood. ….Without changing likes, values, expectations, etc. ....Than yes, most probably it is.

However, as you both grow older, the world becomes a wider place and more complex. At your current ages, your dedications are mostly studies, hobbies, etc. until now, your friendship (relationship) has not been fully tested, ...that it’s, tested with realities of life such as financial matters, health issues, and of course the unpredicted and ever complicated final puberty changes.
As you get older, your values will change, things that you give lots of importance now, will become insignificant in the near future. Your acceptances and tolerance to one another will also go under stress tests during the next few years and no doubt that you will both come out with some scars out of it all.
The answer to your question is NO, he is indeed, the right person for you at this age and time, but NO necessary in adulthood.

Basically, don’t plan to buy a cow if all that your body needs is a glass of milk!!

Feel naturally
;)

Simply put, don't expect it to be longterm.

i think what were all trying say is
"its love... but is it true love"

love... or hormones? Its a sticky situation.

Love is very possible at that age, but there usually (but not always) isn't much reason behind it. Just go with the flow, enjoy it. If it doesn't work out, you'll learn some lessons... But I know a couple who's been married for 25 years, they were each other's first and only bf/gf. They still flirt like they're in highschool, lol. So you never know, it could work out!

lol thanks for your input

that thing nvr happend 2 me.
all i can say is wait 15 mor years wen u hav a steady career and lots of incom, then if ur still 2gether, get married and start a happy family.
:)


Originally posted by AshenLee
Im only fifteen andhe's sixteen.
wat the hel?
ur only 15?
i thot u wer older.
now that i think of it, ur profile says ur 22.
r u full of it or wat?

EDIT: woops. ur not ashenlee rite? how many sisters do u got?
is chakitai (http://sciforums.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=14766) supposed 2 b ur sis too?
somthing weird is going on.