i have a question do people view fat people as humans, i mean i am in secondary school and as you all probably know one of the harshest places. i was just wondering weather you judge someone on there looks or do you actuly meet them first.
I don't judge them soley on looks.....depends trashy women who dress like whores I do! but as far as large ppl or ugly ppl not really. It depends how they carry themselves and how they act.... Like my neighbour for instance well i have 2.....to make a long story short he is a BIG MAN prob 350 lbs I would not have a problem with him but I can't stand his fuking guts because he has this massive EGO, that he really shouldn't have. He loves to brag and talk loud so everyone can hear him......and squeezes himself into his new mustang, and thinks he is hot shit...... another neighbour its a woman very large, bosses her husband around in public and stands and watches him work instead of helping and she sits home all day with no job. I wouldn;t care either about how she looked........but its how she acts.....lazy and bossy and nosey etc. Then you start picking on what they look like because its easy I guess because they act like assholes........
ahh i kinda see your point like you would not judge someone if there fat but if they act like a wanker then you would just call them a fat bastard eg.. it's just how they act that points out there flaws and makes these certian atributes stand out. well thats what i am piking up anyway.
It depends. Are "fat people" actually human? Do they have personalities? Might you learn something from/ about them? Do they have feelings/ desires/ needs? Or does the fact that they are "fat" turn them automatically into sub-human objects of justly deserved ridicule? Should "fat people" form pressure groups and pick on/ ignore "thin people"? Anyone who judges without knowing anything other than looks is most likely a fool.
Yeah you pretty much got what i am saying.......I might look at them and think they are kinda large, but if they were nice ppl thats all i would think. I hate an ego on anybody........but this guy is the spitting image of the "family guy" dont know if you get that show.......and he just walks around like he is hot shit....and he is getting made fun of and called "FATSO" on my street...because of his behaviour........I would never call someone that ever if they acted decent.
i totaly agree with you there it's horrible to see this kinda thing happen i know a girl who is afraid offat people god i hate her anyway not the point just kinda anoys me how shalow people are.
And why do they (all of them?) act like wankers? Maybe because they've been subjected to hostility from the word go, hmm? Have you ever met a non-fat wanker? I'd venture there's at least as many of them around.
I must say though I do judge some ppl.......like women lets say my age....37 who are walking around in clothes meant for a teenage girl with there boobs and ass hanging out....I think they are trashy whores...cant help it thats what i think. Esp there are a few that come that way to pick up their kids from school....I just shake my head.
thats my rant all the time how shallow and vain......things have gotten and how esp (yes smack me now) how shallow men are. Why the hell is she afraid? afraid of what?
oli would you please stop all this hostility to me look i am fat not overly obeas but not thin either and yes i have met lots of think wankers i hate the people who judge people on there looks and also try and get buy on them as wel. I'm also guilty for judging people i think we all are.
i have no idea what she is afriad of and women can be as shalow as men belive it or not and i have no idea any way if you saw her no i mean met her you would want to strangle her in like the first five minutes trust.
Please read my posts correctly. There is no hostility directed toward you whatsoever. There is no hostility in them at all. Who said you were? No we all are not.
no i am saying i am not thin myself not that you are acusing me and i do honestly think we are all guilty of saying oh look at that person walking into the shop can you belive she is wearing that come on evry one must have done it
There's a difference in pointing someone is inappropriately/ badly dressed, say a dress three sizes too small, and judging someone on their appearance. One is a factual observation and the other is a potentially flawed assessment based on no supportive evidence.
